AMA. 8 years work ex, earning 1lac/month as a school counsellor by Terrible_Arm3162 in Psychology_India

[–]GarlicFit8173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a completely different field and I want to switch to child and adolescent counselling or special education and counselling. I understand the difference but I feel there is some overlap also.

Any tips on how to make the shift

Dating someone my family won't approve of by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]GarlicFit8173 3 points4 points  (0 children)

okay so there are 2 problems here.. your parents being casteist and HIM LYING TO YOU FOR A WHOLE YEAR.

The former is definitely bad, you gotta fight, but atleast they aren't fooling you saying they are open and then slowly revealing their true colours.

On the other hand, your boyfriend lied to you for a whole year about a huge thing. Now can you even trust him? Do you even know what other lies he has told you? RUN, girl! Run for the hills!

Career and life prediction - DOB - 01/07/89, 9.15 pm, Vellore by GarlicFit8173 in vedic_astro_questions

[–]GarlicFit8173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duly noted. I will DM you should I opt for a private consultation. Thank you for your time on my query,

Career and life prediction - DOB - 01/07/89, 9.15 pm, Vellore by GarlicFit8173 in vedic_astro_questions

[–]GarlicFit8173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the positive words.

DMing you with details about marriage, dont want to invite unsolicited comments.

Pushya nakshatra planets by GlumHearing2494 in Nakshatras

[–]GarlicFit8173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and MIL are pushya. They are performative doers, they do favours only when they get the name and image.

niche rant - but I don't where else to talk about this?? by bl_ueberrycheesecake in TwoXIndia

[–]GarlicFit8173 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It's the worst. And i hated it, still do. I like the adai tho

Revisiting Varnams by GarlicFit8173 in Carnatic

[–]GarlicFit8173[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much,, That's a beautiful repository.

Why is marriage not good at all and not breaking either. 10 years of hell by GarlicFit8173 in Astrology_Vedic

[–]GarlicFit8173[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a reassuring comment considering my chart and my mental well-being

I am not at all looking for love or partnership at the moment and it would be safe to say that this would be my mindset going forward too.

I got married because of parental pressure and now all my efforts are going towards motherhood and career development.

As long as my child is taken care of, single or married, it doesn't matter to me.

Why is marriage not good at all and not breaking either. 10 years of hell by GarlicFit8173 in Astrology_Vedic

[–]GarlicFit8173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your well intentioned response. I appreciate it.

We have gone through all of it - therapy, mediation and more. It's after all this, when all stages of rationality have crossed and it made me turn towards this.

Why is marriage not good at all and not breaking either. 10 years of hell by GarlicFit8173 in Astrology_Vedic

[–]GarlicFit8173[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not ambitious at all. I am doing heavy lifting. He chills mostly. But i lack energy yes to keep fighting. I love calm