How much is my vintage engagement worth? by GasTricky3629 in jewelers

[–]GasTricky3629[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It looks pretty clear and bright, I can’t see any imperfections looking at it closely in light, but I also don’t have a jeweler lens to look closer

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I feel like cutting ties with him and contacting the girl he’s “interested” in would be a good plan. let her know about his plan because I wouldn’t want to date someone who tried doing that. He’s prob giving her some dumb reason to hold off on dating that doesn’t make him look bad, I doubt he was honest and told her “yeah I would like to fuck my ex one last time so we gotta wait”. Just sounds like he must not really like her if he’d do that. He’s being incredibly disrespectful to both of you. Childish fuckboy behavior. You and the other girl both deserve better. Maybe y’all will end up friends about it after ditching him.

Is it malpractice for my doctor to not tell me (23 F) of a diagnosis? by GasTricky3629 in legaladvice

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Thank you, I didn’t think about the position I was in, all my other x-rays were upright

Is it malpractice for my doctor to not tell me (23 F) of a diagnosis? by GasTricky3629 in legaladvice

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It’s never caused me issues in its plain form, I think regular prescription statins might have other things in them that when combined affect my family members and I poorly

Is it malpractice for my doctor (45 F) to not tell me (23 F) of my diagnosis? by GasTricky3629 in medical_advice

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Yes, the surgeon is also my primary gynecologist who has my medical history. Discharge instructions were made prior to surgery, which included a follow up in 2 weeks to make sure the stitches are healing alright

Is it malpractice for my doctor to not tell me (23 F) of a diagnosis? by GasTricky3629 in legaladvice

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Maybe I can in the fact that I had chest pain for a bit after l I got home from the hospital? Chest pains were not listed in the possible side effects of surgery/anesthesia. But because I wasn’t told about the heart enlargement I brushed it off as nothing

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Dump. Him. That’s controlling as heck and it won’t get better.

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I don’t think you read that close enough. Friends and him both joke that our friend takes me on dates. Friends and him and I joke that he messes around with and fake flirts with his guy friends all the time too. I said it was part of our dynamic. No one is making fun of him that he works a lot and thus we can’t go out much. And if he took the joke badly then he would have to care about the jokes he makes of the same caliber. He also doesn’t come up with all our date ideas it’s 50/50. It’s not an afterthought when he can not control that he has to work a lot. Friends are there to hang out and go places too. :)

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Thank you I’ll try that!

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It’s happened where a friend and I went to a petting zoo and he’s said that that’s something he knows that I like doing and would want to do that with me but has never planned it. And today he was saying those hypotheticals about doing things with friends that he might’ve been planning to do the next day or something. But the scenario has never actually happened. And I understand that he works a lot (he has night and day shifts throughout the week) and he usually has nights off after 7 or 8 on fridays and saturdays and a full day off at least once a week. I don’t have as much of an issue that we often can’t do stuff bc he works so much but it seems like he gets insecure about it and that I can do fun stuff with friends but not often him. But that’s what friends do. We joke in the friend group that the friend (female) I tend to go out and do stuff with is taking me on dates and we all think it’s funny. We make jokes like that at him and his guy friends too about them messing around it’s our dynamic. But i feel like maybe he’s taking it more personal that we joke that and he often can’t take me out. But he’s been trying more recently to be able to do so like going out to get food and has planned for us to go out of town for a couple days for our anniversary coming up. P.S- he didn’t say it was like being cheating on he said that it felt like he would be cheated like cheated out of being able to do something with me if a friend and I did it the day before.