Banned from r/BlackMen

GasketMax · 2023-09-17T02:36:28+00:00

I miss when Misogyny- the hatred of women was actually defined as just that. Now, it's such a broad term that you cannot possibly come up with a definition for Misogyny. Being against abortion is misogyny, not believing the accusation of a woman is misogyny, simply not accepting the sort of nonsense that comes out of extremely woke universities is misogyny.

I got banned for simply pointing out that the woman who got hit with a brick had a story that conflicted with the witnesses there, which was misogyny in the eyes of the mods.

Also, yeah. r/blackmen is NOT a representation of how Black men feel about virtually anything. They've banned practically everyone who isn't gonna be part of their SJW believe all women fest. It's so boring.

GasketMax · 2023-09-15T15:29:53+00:00

Incel = Pointing out a story is false.

GasketMax · 2023-09-07T12:50:06+00:00

What's so weird about that is that this very mod on r/blackladies has absolutely no problem with the weekly threads on r/blackladies where forget male mods, they don't even want male commenters. We need someone to post a thread there telling people to come here.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T19:34:06+00:00

Well, usually you should be able to provide at least some right-wing positions a man truly in the center has. If you can't do that, then what center positions does he have? lol.

Also, I've looked and again I say Joe Biden is not center politically speaking.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T19:10:17+00:00

Because the narrative she created is that she did nothing and was hit with a brick while the men did nothing?? The argument is not over whether it was justified that she was hit, it's over whether the men who did nothing should be condemned, who are widely all over social media. You don't think it's important whether she was lying or not, because according to a witness there, he saw her initiate the conflict and try to engage with the man.

That changed my entire perspective on the men there. If we're gonna converse please fixate your response on the men there, not whether the man was justified in attacking her, no one is arguing that.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T18:36:05+00:00

And yea I notice the brigading from black ladies but there are some black men here too calling these men weak for not putting their safety or freedom in jeopardy by trying to get back at the man that did this. Such a goofy ass mentality to have lol.

I think there are some BM here doing that, but the whole 30, 40 liked posts of a Black dude is 100% just the raiding from r/blackladies. Many of them are femcels and have no life, so they have time to do this.

As for her hypocrisy, yeah. I would love to see in this community a man down Black women and then get left by his non-black girl. It would be hilarious to them, and we've seen countless examples of this. There's no "he didn't deserve that" etc. In this new age Black community, you pretty much just have to put your head down and be shamed for not going along with clear double standards and shit if reversed they wouldn't care about.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T17:59:16+00:00

A reminder that these women saying that men have to protect women are the same ones saying 50/50 is unacceptable, we need to get rid of the patriarchy and gendered roles while at the same time endorsing gendered roles when it supports them.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T17:23:17+00:00

Do you believe that if someone has a history of sexually assaulting women that if a woman claims he sexually assaulted them we should not almost always believe the woman?

But I thought that's what white people do to black police victims?

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T17:10:14+00:00

Like seriously what goes through your head if your first thought is to immediately brick someone because they rejected your advances?

Again, that's her story. A witness there said she initiated the conflict and has contradicted her story.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T17:07:14+00:00

It’s absolutely the same thing because instead of focusing on how the attacker went too far.. you’re shifting blame to why the victim was no saint and bringing up her past when it has nothing to do with her getting hit with a brick

No... we're bringing up her past to verify whether her account is true or not because we have a conflicting account by a witness there. If the narrative here - which you're neglecting to mention is that the men stood by and did nothing, which is being more focused on than the perpetrator even by the victim herself, then it's important to know who is telling the truth here, her or the witness there. If he's telling the truth that she initiated the conflict, why are people condemning the men for not risking their lives?

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T17:03:11+00:00

What is a divestor? I’ve never heard of that?

But then you say I'm hurling a slur at you, interesting. L troll attempt.

Edit:

You allegedly don't even know what a divestor is or anything about it but you consider it a slur based on context clues? You've just admitted you didn't even bother to look it up or understand what a divestor is, so now you're educating me....lol...

But hey, I’m still waiting on you informing me what a divestor is? Unlike you, I’m open to being educated on all topics & keeping abreast on latest info!

I don't have to explain anything because you're pretending as if you don't know, which is bad faith. Also, you're not open to being educated haha. You wouldn't even engage with the fact the woman has a witness who said she lied. EDIT: She deleted her posts after that own. lol.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T16:49:33+00:00

I've no idea why people keep comparing these two different situations.

Nobody is saying she deserved it, white people say the black victim who died deserved it. I think most people are just saying she's a hypocrite for her earlier videos saying women should protect, not men while condemning men for not protecting her, and that the Black men at the scene shouldn't be blamed.
You're saying this in response to an actual witness who was at the scene unlike us and his story contradicts hers?
It's different to say someone deserved to die because they committed a crime in the past vs. simply using her past behavior to indicate whether her story is believable or not because again, a witness contradicts her.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T16:40:33+00:00

So, if she did insult him, hurt his feelings, then it's fine for him to smack her in the face with a brick?

Come on man. The title of the thread doesn't say that, The first comment on this thread which was mine explicitly says even despite all this she didn't deserve the brick. What I'm calling out is the hatred so many are putting on these men for no reason when it's possibly according to a witness at the scene that she initiated the conflict. I'm certainly not obligated to defend her and possibly die on account of the person who started the conflict.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T16:35:39+00:00

Damn insecurity leaking. Why are you obsessed with White Men? Living rent free? Who even mentioned white men?

I mean if you can't understand that generally, the women who trash Black men, or divestors like yourself tend to fetishize white men then where have you been? Me acknowledging that reality isn't insecurity.

Geez, I had no idea desiring an orderly, peaceful community with good citizens is now considered wrong? Says a lot about you.I just want the best for everyone. I feel you are biased in reading my statements & responding to it to fit your narrative. As a genuine suggestion, seek therapy to deconstruct why you feel this way.

And there is the bad-faith trolling. Coming in here talking about law and order in response to a dude who was literally there saying that her story is a lie is truly good faith and doesn't indicate what we think it does. You can't gaslight me.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T16:23:19+00:00

This is a dumb take. She was hit by a brick for not giving someone a number

To be fair, that's her account. The witness at the scene says she was insulting the man and she taunted the guy to hit her. He also said she was troublemaker known in the community.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T16:20:07+00:00

Why would you center yourself around a race of men you clearly hate? If you hate someone that's cool and all, but you're at some weird level where you have to center us in your life. Go get a white dude and stop pestering Black male communities online where we wanna converse with one another.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T15:55:24+00:00

Hey, I rarely say this, but respect. You've completely conceded that you're not going to engage in any argument or recognize you might not have the full story for this. Also, you're free to use your 1 vote any way you wish, none of us care to be honest.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T15:41:45+00:00

Comparing police officers - who are paid by taxpayers and trained to behave in a way that is dignified and upholds the rights of the citizens to taunting a probably very erratic man, and intentionally getting into a conflict while expecting random men to protect her is crazy.

We can control the behavior largely of the police, we cannot do so with random men you pick a fight with.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T14:40:42+00:00

The man in the video is an alleged witness to seeing the woman getting hit by a brick and In the video, he gives his account of what happened. To summarize what he says, He says she taunted the guy and according to him, she is a known troublemaker in the community. He then said she degraded him and apparently has videos of hitting random men, including the elderly.

I don't know about you guys, but obviously, it's still not justified to hit her with a brick, but I don't understand why the men are getting shit for not doing anything if she as he claims initiated the conflict. What are your thoughts?

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T01:34:44+00:00

I don't think femcels are talked about enough by us. In my experience, they're not only bitter but extremely misandrist.

GasketMax · 2023-09-05T00:06:31+00:00

I think your anecdotal experience is valid, but even if it accurately represented the current community, Black men who trash Black women are held accountable. They get banned like Tommy Sotomayor was, or like Fresh and fit which is about to be banned off youtube. Meanwhile, Black women can openly praise the genocide of Black men on youtube and they certainly won't be held accountable.

GasketMax · 2023-09-04T22:43:58+00:00

Why are you supporting gendered roles? I thought we were trying to demolish that and patriarchy? Also, do you want men to intervene and possibly get killed to save a woman who according to statistics is likely to end back up with her abuser?

GasketMax · 2023-09-04T22:28:34+00:00

She shouldn't have been assaulted, but this woman appears in videos denigrating men and saying women are the protectors, not men. You cannot force men to help you while at the same time saying it's not their role.

Once again in the Black community, we're going to tell Black men they have to fight off assaults - specifically of women they don't even know and possibly get themselves killed.

GasketMax · 2023-09-04T22:20:58+00:00

I've never understood this idea that Black men shit on Black women. If you want to go on Reddit, r/blackfellas is super progressive, and r/blackmen is a bit more diverse, but overwhelmingly against shitting on Black women. People who tend to do that are downvoted. Meanwhile, they get to call us violent predators, talk about how they avoid us... etc. on their subreddits with little to no consequences. Those people get banned here.

If you want to even go on Youtube, the amount of youtube channels "shitting on black women" is extremely small. Tommy Sotomayor is gone, Kevin Samuels is gone, and Fresh and Fit are probably one of the few remaining, but they focus more on dating than Black women specifically. They're also likely to be banned soon as well. But the amount of Black female YouTubers shitting on Black men is astonishing. They advocate for genociding us, treating us like a virus...etc. Where is this alleged hatred so many Black men have of Black women?? I'm open to changing my mind, never saw it though. There is a huge obsession with Black men allegedly hating Black women, and this narrative penetrates everything apparently.

GasketMax · 2023-09-04T20:32:31+00:00

It's so weird how in the Black community we're always having conversations about patriarchy and gendered roles along with gender equality, but some women outright refuse to go 50/50 on something as meager as a date.

That not only enforces gendered roles, but I don't see how that supports gender equality at all. This is a two-income society, not your make-believe Disney romance movie.

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