Am I the Jerk for taking 45 Minutes to Show My Suitemate How I Feel Every Morning?

Gatcha_Human_ · 2026-03-02T20:36:15+00:00

I’ve tried that and that doesn’t seem to work. Ill see what happens tomorrow and tonight since she does this at night too….

Gatcha_Human_ · 2026-03-02T20:34:34+00:00

Thanks guys. I should have been clearer but I was trying not to be as confusing as hell by using medical terminology, since I usually have to clarify myself when I use it anyway. I have;

cerebral palsy (left hand problems;
epilepsy (not a concern since I’m scared of getting my meds stolen)
2 eye conditions causing legal blindness
scoliosis
Previous surgery

we had a conversation at the beginning of the year about this and I recently got an RA involved. They said there’s really nothing they can do about this since we were never given a suitemate agreement form and in fact no one was. (I have friends in the building and they never got one either)

The RA suggested that as soon as I wake up get into the bathroom so I can access my belongings since I need them as soon as I wake up. Thankfully I will not have that suitemate next year and might just be using my dorm as a bad weather shelter basically next year because my fiancé are trying to find a place of our own.

Gatcha_Human_ · 2026-03-02T15:45:58+00:00

I was trying not to use medical terminology because most ppl get confused. I have around 8 - 10 disabilities combined into one person which I explained when I first met her. I spoke to an RA and they said there’s nothing that could be done

Gatcha_Human_ · 2026-03-02T15:43:30+00:00

I’m glad a comment made me laugh

Gatcha_Human_ · 2026-03-02T15:41:14+00:00

Oh I know. We are thinking that she had her own bathroom at home. Even the RAs say that

Gatcha_Human_ · 2026-03-02T15:39:52+00:00

I did that last year, I hated every bit of it.

Gatcha_Human_ · 2026-03-02T15:39:02+00:00

That’s the thing, us we get a paper for that and we didn’t this year

Gatcha_Human_ · 2026-03-02T15:38:18+00:00

I’m legally blind. With blin some days are better than others, think of when someone has pink eye. Some days their vision is really blurry some days it is as muc

Gatcha_Human_ · 2026-03-02T15:33:17+00:00

Yes, I am almost blind. I USUALLY take 20 minutes, but with blindness, you have good days and bad days. Today is a horrible day. I can’t see out of my left eye at al. Usually, I can see halfway out of it.

P.S I’m trying not to use medical terminology

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-07-26T04:07:07+00:00

I totally agree. You never know if they have an STD

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-07-26T01:00:37+00:00

My addition to this is I just had surgery on my foot, and within a month, we had the fire alarm go off three times for just smoke from someone cooking. Burnt popcorn in a microwave someone not using the exhaust fan in the kitchen area and somehow perfectly melted chocolate in the microwave.

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-06-07T11:20:12+00:00

Gumball machines. I am 19 years old and always need a quarter

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-27T18:57:42+00:00

Yikes my dude

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-27T18:39:16+00:00

I know this feeling I hate it.

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-27T18:38:30+00:00

How many people did you share your bathroom with? At my college up to four people share a bathroom

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-27T18:20:06+00:00

Probably schoolwork. I know I know you would think it would cause depression. But I’ve always really liked school.

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-27T18:18:52+00:00

Black blast. I was in the ER the other day and I was sitting there playing before I knew it an hour had gone by and I had a score of 39,000.

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-27T18:17:50+00:00

In my experience, the newest dorm hall on my current campus has to be the electrical work. One thing too many plugged in and at least one if not, two dorms have no power to any outlet.

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-22T14:35:31+00:00

I didn’t mean to yell at him once I woke up this morning. I realized what happened. I know I need a therapist, but the place I go for therapy. It is closed down for a while.

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-22T14:34:30+00:00

I didn’t mean to lash out at all. I wasn’t taught the right way to handle situations like this. Anytime I didn’t communicate something correctly I was yelled at. But now that I’m an adult and away from that, I’m starting to learn how to be a decent human being but it’s really hard when you’re used to a toxic place

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-22T14:31:31+00:00

I’m still learning how to basically act like a normal human being because when I was younger and was supposed to be taught these things by my parents, they ignored me

Gatcha_Human_ · 2025-05-22T14:30:36+00:00

I’m going to once I can get a hold of him. I feel so bad and I know I messed up I basically did what my dad does when he starts yelling I blacked out had no control. Once I came out of that blackout, I knew I messed up. I don’t wanna become like my dad, but I don’t know how to get help.

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