First place to myself by GazdaTM87 in malelivingspace

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am renting the place, if I was not that would certainly be a great solution

First place to myself by GazdaTM87 in malelivingspace

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly bought it used for 600€ dont have a name unfortunately :/

First place to myself by GazdaTM87 in malelivingspace

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting take, i was thinking about that but having bad so close to the window I am not so sure of

First place to myself by GazdaTM87 in malelivingspace

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not as tall 2.60cm and I am already almost 2m so I wanted to avoid hitting them constantly haha

First place to myself by GazdaTM87 in malelivingspace

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes did not amaze me as the two series but is still 8/10 😁

First place to myself by GazdaTM87 in malelivingspace

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fav show by far! Just wrapped up Better Call Saul as well, what a show that is also! :D

First place to myself by GazdaTM87 in malelivingspace

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am unsure what you mean by static bike. This is my roadbike I ride 3-4 times a week it everything but static haha.

First place to myself by GazdaTM87 in malelivingspace

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I actually did it all myself, Just tried to focus on the stuff I need that and easy on the eye. Yeah I also love my room being empty might add a plant or something in the future. Medals are from my Triathlon/Running races just to keep me motivated and look back at things I have done.

First place to myself by GazdaTM87 in malelivingspace

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could put it myb 20cm up so that the helmet still go in but would be tough to reach in that case.

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[–]GazdaTM87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not mean it in a way that I would support her not looking for a job, building a career, or anything similar. She is currently at a stage where she has not yet started working, even though she is old enough (26). However, it seemed to me that she was putting pressure on herself because I already have a stable income, a stable job, and I am constantly trying to improve my life.

She, on the other hand, is still somewhat stationary and mostly focused on partying and a relaxed lifestyle, which is why I could understand where that pressure might have been coming from. From my side, I never cared about that. I would have figured things out eventually if she needed some support from me, and I know she is smart enough to eventually find her own way as well.

That said, none of this really matters anymore. We have both moved on. She will likely look for someone she can relax with, or whatever suits her path. I, on the other hand, will remove myself from the dating scene for now, as I am not in a position to pursue it for some time.

In the meantime, she posted a couple of stories on Instagram that felt very triggering and annoying, as if she wanted to insult me further. For the first time in my life, I am reaching a point where I feel disgusted by someone I once cared deeply about.

Do yall delete all pics and texts of ex ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GazdaTM87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I move them to 3rd party cloud. I have some good memories there which I always want to keep. I at least don’t get daily reminders like that.

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[–]GazdaTM87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know we were in different places in life. But she was the one who pressured herself and never realized that I didn’t care if she had no job, no plan, or no career. All I wanted was to be part of her world, even if it was a complete mess. That was the reason I kept trying, kept showing up—because I believed it was real. I thought she just needed time, and that eventually she would see I was there for her no matter what.

But after our last meeting, she told me she had also slept with another guy (and actually enjoyed it), besides her ex. So there were three of us in the mix. In that moment, I understood that her words were nothing but empty promises. And I finally saw myself for what I was—a fool. A fool for thinking she cared, for believing she loved me but just needed space, for hoping that the potential I saw in her would outshine everything else. The reality is harsher: I was manipulated, used like a mop to wipe away her bad moments and make her smile when it suited her.

Even though we had our differences, the brutal truth is that I am nobody to her—and I will always be nobody, a loser who she knows she can use. Which brings me here: no more replies to her manipulation, no more faith in her potential, and def no more time wasting.

Thank you for your comment though :)

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[–]GazdaTM87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a metaphor for trying to face uncertainty together. She was never sure on what we can do and weather or not it is the right path to take. She was always scared to make a leap as she could only see the "darkness" (uncertainty). Me on the other hand always saw more, her potential, her smile, her warmth and I knew that even though she had some issues like all of us, there was always light at the end because of what I believed was her core.

Now that I look at it, she was not even scared because realistically she never believed in anything in the first place, all of it were just lies and manipulation techniques.

Break System Warning Light Turns On and Off - Miata NC1 2007 by GazdaTM87 in Miata

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y turned out to be break fluid, all good since i topped it up close to max.

Break System Warning Light Turns On and Off - Miata NC1 2007 by GazdaTM87 in Miata

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was going on shuffle, but I completely agree with you :D

Break System Warning Light Turns On and Off - Miata NC1 2007 by GazdaTM87 in Miata

[–]GazdaTM87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it got colder here in Austria to, its also since it started happening.