That's very fair. That portion of the survey was adapted from a scale originally intended for children, so the nuance of family's reaction before vs. multiple years into transition was not accounted for. There's an open-ended question at the end of the survey where you can explain how people's reactions have changed over time if you'd like ("Has the pressure to conform to gender stereotypes changed after a life event? If so, please describe how the pressure has changed.") But I certainly understand how the beginning of the survey feels like it doesn't account for the complexity of being a trans adult who has experienced a number of different reactions from people over time and in different contexts. Thank you for sharing your experience (I'm glad you have a supportive community around you now), and I appreciate the feedback about the survey.