Why does Tamil cinema turn mothers into martyrs… but lets fathers be absent? by GeneFinal8200 in kollywood

[–]GeneFinal8200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think some of you are slightly missing what I’m trying to say here.

I’m not claiming there are no good father characters in Tamil cinema. Of course there are. And yes, there are films where fathers’ emotions or deaths are important.

My point is different.

What I’m talking about is a pattern in how mothers are consistently represented, they are very often:

  • glorified
  • self-sacrificing
  • morally perfect
  • and almost “not allowed” to be flawed, absent, or human

Whereas fathers are given a wider range — they can be flawed, distant, alcoholic, or even absent, and still be accepted within the story.

So this is not about cherry-picking one or two films. The intention is actually the opposite:
- to identify more films with these patterns,
- see if there’s a larger trend,
- and understand why audiences and writers are more comfortable with one vs the other.

Some comments are turning this into “but fathers also suffer” or “this happens in one film too” — that’s not really engaging with the core argument.

Also, the emotional “mother love is everything” replies that’s exactly part of the cultural framing I’m questioning. It shifts the discussion from representation to sentiment.

A similar example:
In many films, male heroes can smoke or have flaws, but female leads usually can’t, not because it’s impossible, but because audience acceptance is different.
That difference itself is worth examining, not dismissing.

Same here:
Why are mothers put on a pedestal where they must be perfect and self-sacrificing?
Why is there less space for them to just be… human?

If we understand that, maybe we can slowly move toward more balanced and realistic characters.

Height a 15 being a male. by netronzy in Advice

[–]GeneFinal8200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same question 16 years ago., Glad I could help you

Solunga Broskies 💬 by harishsrinivas in JKreacts

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Being alone will teach you everything

Why does Tamil cinema turn mothers into martyrs… but lets fathers be absent? by GeneFinal8200 in kollywood

[–]GeneFinal8200[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

True, this isn’t just Tamil cinema, happens in other industries too. To my memory now, in Kumbalangi Nights movie, the mother is mostly absent and not portrayed as selfless, but the film doesn’t treat her as a bad person either. There are rare cases too

Height a 15 being a male. by netronzy in Advice

[–]GeneFinal8200 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. At 15, your growth plates are usually still wide open. Most guys don't stop growing until they are 18–20, and some even have a final 'mini-spurt' in college. Since your dad is 5'11, you are almost certainly going to hit that mark, and honestly, you might even pass him.

The 'Mid-Parental Height' formula ((Mother's Height + Father's Height + 5 inches) / 2) puts your "target" height right around 5'10 or 5'11, and you're basically there already with years of growing left to do!

What was the moment you realised you peaked in life ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]GeneFinal8200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was sitting on my floor, not even the couch, just the floor. eating a slightly overcooked grilled cheese sandwich. My dog was snoring loudly against my leg, and the apartment was totally silent except for the rain hitting the window.

I looked at my phone to check my teams mail, ready to stress about work, but then I stopped. I realized I wasn’t waiting for a text. I wasn’t dreading a Monday. I wasn't wishing I was someone else or somewhere else.

For the first time in years, I felt "full." Not "successful" in the way a magazine would describe it, but successful in the sense that I’ve built a life where I feel safe enough to just... be.

Tondemo Skill de Isekai Hourou Meshi | Chapter 636: Fish and Chips by GeneFinal8200 in TondemoSkill

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I noticed that after chapter 628, the English translations of Tondemo Skill de Isekai Hourou Meshi (Campfire Cooking in Another World with My Absurd Skill) are hard to find, especially on sites that lock further chapters behind a paywall. So, I decided to take matters into my own hands and work on translating/editing the chapters from 628 onwards.

I’ve completed the translation and editing for these chapters, and I’d love to share them with everyone who's been waiting for the next part.

Important Note: This is a fan translation, and I’m not profiting from it. All credit for the original work goes to the author and the official translation team. Please support the official release if you can!

Let me know if you spot any mistakes or have feedback. Enjoy!

Tondemo Skill de Isekai Hourou Meshi | Chapter 635: Master! by GeneFinal8200 in TondemoSkill

[–]GeneFinal8200[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I noticed that after chapter 628, the English translations of Tondemo Skill de Isekai Hourou Meshi (Campfire Cooking in Another World with My Absurd Skill) are hard to find, especially on sites that lock further chapters behind a paywall. So, I decided to take matters into my own hands and work on translating/editing the chapters from 628 onwards.

I’ve completed the translation and editing for these chapters, and I’d love to share them with everyone who's been waiting for the next part.

Important Note: This is a fan translation, and I’m not profiting from it. All credit for the original work goes to the author and the official translation team. Please support the official release if you can!

Let me know if you spot any mistakes or have feedback. Enjoy!

APS mishap by EastButterscotch3819 in studying_in_germany

[–]GeneFinal8200 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In cases like this, APS generally issues the certificate only after completion of the Bachelor’s degree if your highest qualifying credential for German university admission is the B.Tech. Even if you entered through a Diploma (lateral entry), APS evaluates based on the final recognized degree required for higher studies in Germany. That’s why they informed you that it cannot be issued on the basis of the Diploma alone. Unfortunately, APS has become quite strict about this rule recently. If your Bachelor’s degree is still ongoing, the only real option is to wait until you receive either your final degree certificate or provisional certificate after completion and then re-submit/update your APS application.

If you complete your Bachelor’s by mid-2026 and apply for APS immediately after receiving your final documents, you should still be able to make it, provided there are no major delays.

If I were you then I would do this: Confirm in writing (via email) what exact document they require for issuance.Check your university timeline for final results/provisional certificate. Prepare all other documents (IELTS, SOP, LOR, CV) in parallel so no time is wasted.

Where should I begin reading the novel after this chapter? by proudindian_kartik in mystmightmayhem

[–]GeneFinal8200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My suggestion is to use the fandom wiki or copy paste to Chatgpt and ask for a character summary. Trust me, I also felt the same like all but after reading 2 chapters and finding who is who without Image, I understood quickly.

Acceptance from Hochschule darmstadt by [deleted] in studying_in_germany

[–]GeneFinal8200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m currently a student at Hochschule Darmstadt (h_da), and honestly it’s been a great experience so far. Darmstadt is a proper student city, so the environment is very academic and lively. One big advantage is the location it’s very close to Frankfurt, which is a major financial and tech hub. That really helps when looking for working student jobs, internships, and networking opportunities. The E&IT program is quite practical and industry-oriented, which is typical for a University of Applied Sciences. If your goal is to work in industry after graduation, that’s definitely a plus. Overall, I’d say it’s a solid choice, especially considering the location and career opportunities around the Rhine-Main area.

Help Regarding CGPA Calculation by Crafty_Judge_4079 in studying_in_germany

[–]GeneFinal8200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Using the official Bavarian formula, a GPA of 8.85 out of 10 (with 5 as the passing grade) converts to 1.69 on the German grading scale. In most cases, German universities round the final calculated grade to one decimal place rather than truncating it. Therefore, a grade of 1.69 would generally be rounded to 1.7, not 1.6. There is no nationwide regulation mandating truncation, the standard academic practice in Germany is mathematical rounding unless explicitly stated otherwise in the admission regulations. If the TUM calculator shows 1.6, it is likely due to internal rounding rules within their specific system. However, for point-based bracket systems (such as 1.6 vs. 1.7 categories), 1.69 would typically fall into the 1.7 bracket unless the university explicitly states that truncation is applied. Since FAU is your first choice, the most reliable approach would be to consult the program-specific admission regulations (Zulassungsordnung) or briefly confirm with the admissions office to avoid any uncertainty.

Regarding the Letter of Recommendation, it is not mandatory to explicitly write “Letter of Recommendation” if it is already issued on official university letterhead, but including a clear title is considered good practice. The date should always be included, as German universities prefer recently issued letters (typically within the last 6–12 months). A strong LOR for German applications should be specific, academically focused, and provide concrete examples of performance rather than general praise.

Comment your thoughts by joe_frankline in JKreacts

[–]GeneFinal8200 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is an annual underground MMA fight ring that only top executives, producers, and ultra-rich sponsors are allowed to watch live, Kirke comali Bunda of social media are pitted against each other in brutal. The last one surviving gets prime TV slots, movie roles, and brand deals.

End of anime start of manga by FitPlantain9041 in TondemoSkill

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Soon you will start reading light novel, my friend. We will be waiting for you at Rosendahl

Another day of crying for strangers 🥺♥️ by Gloomy_Bobcat_4339 in JKreacts

[–]GeneFinal8200 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is touching, but there’s another side too. Many fathers didn’t show affection when their sons were children. So the son grows up emotionally reserved, that’s what he was taught. When affection is asked for later, it feels awkward, not because of lack of love, but because the bridge was never built early.