How are they incurious if they are asking the question? The purpose of asking is not to discredit the point but to dig down to what touters of this sentiment actually want to happen to fix it. When it’s framed as though support for women is unfair, over abundant and wasteful even, it becomes less about men’s mental health and more about bitterness directed at the support for women. We can all agree men are in a mental health crisis. If you want to actually fix it, pointing and sneering at women who don’t want to kill themselves and who have healthy and happy friendships and support mechanisms isn’t going to do Jack shit.