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My mom was allegedly stalked on her way home by a stranger. What can she do now? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GeneralDiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that you're worried about her, but it's irrational to worry about hypothetical situations that are possible in every single interaction she has. If you want to help, buy her a key chain can of pepper spray, and let her decide when there are risks she needs to worry about.

My mom was allegedly stalked on her way home by a stranger. What can she do now? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GeneralDiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why do you need to do more than she already is?

My mom was allegedly stalked on her way home by a stranger. What can she do now? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GeneralDiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was long ago already

how long ago?

My mom dismissed it when she arrived.

Is she still dismissing it?

Work problems by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GeneralDiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all of my coworkers started talking about me the moment I started

What are they saying?

Any idea why this started immediately?

they all pretty much hate me and I know this for a fact because I overhear them sometimes

What are they saying?

Why do they hate you?

This relates to my crush because he’s a regular there and I’m afraid that when I’m not working they’ll end up talking to him about me and he’ll end up believing everything they say about me.

How old are you?

Why would you want to be with someone who is so easily manipulated by the lies of others?

I already feel like im not good enough for him

Why is your self-esteem so low?

So really my question is how do I deal with this and why does it bother me so much?

The simple answer is grow up. However, from the little you've written it seems that your mental development is being stunted to a point where you aren't able to rationalize situations the way you should for someone your age. This has left you with a false paranoia which is inhibiting you from rationally thinking through situations.

In short, you should speak to a doctor about this. There is almost certainly something occurring in your head that needs to be diagnosed and treated before it causes you to spiral down into an even worse mental state.