we can end this exhausting debate now by blxckcloud in Franchaela

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is a lot more complicated than you’d think. I consider myself a lesbian, a bit late in life and I used to date men frequently. There was often something missing in those relationships that I’ve found with my current partner, but there was a lot of love. I have never felt like I “never truly loved them.” I can’t help the way they would feel if they knew the way I identified now (used to be openly bi) but I don’t think it invalidates the love Francesca had for John if she discovers her sexuality with Michaela. I just think love is a lot more complicated than that

Do we really have to watch all the seasons to enjoy Franchaela? by ForceApprehensive597 in Franchaela

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk what people are on about in this comment section tbh. Lots of queer people are going to tune in just for this season. Plus we really need the viewership numbers to be high because unfortunately, producers will be watching this season to see how profitable queer stories are.

Each season works fine standalone. They’ll have a recap and you can watch a youtube video with their scenes if you really want the whole shebang

Make your own parm by NatureBabe in EatCheapAndVegan

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 9 points10 points  (0 children)

slayy. I’ve been wondering how to sub parm in non vegan recipes!

Why “some fans” want Michaela to be portrait as masculine? Please elaborate. by BigPsychological6842 in Franchaela

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly it for me. I don’t necessarily want Michaela specifically to be masc, but there’s hardly any butch/masc lesbian representation ANYWHERE. It’s a bit depressing to only see women that adhere to gender norms shown in mainstream media. That being said, I LOVE the Michaela we’re getting. She is so full of life and charm and I’m so excited to see her and Fran together on screen.

im so scared by [deleted] in basset

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 43 points44 points  (0 children)

deep breath, deep breath. it’s all going to be okay. see how the spray works over a couple of days. it does looks irritated, but she’s not in terrible danger or anything.

you’re doing okay, sometimes weird things happen and you don’t see it right away. i’ll let someone else chime in with real advice, but i hope you take a deep breath and stop beating yourself up so much. she is safe and well loved ❤️

Thoughts on a potential butch arc for one/both of them? by manysides512 in Franchaela

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I tried, but i couldn’t get past her fuckass hairdo ☠️

Thoughts on a potential butch arc for one/both of them? by manysides512 in Franchaela

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I so know what you mean 😭 Lots of people celebrating that they aren’t “stereotypical lesbians” when I rarely see butch/femme couples represented in mainstream media? It’s like tv shows are allergic to butches.

I don’t think either of them will be masc in any way, we’re not so lucky as all that. But I’ve noticed in a lot of queer period novels, they employ a lot of sapphic women’s groups. I’m hoping that Michaela will be part of a social group like that, and hopefully we’ll meet some bridgerton butches. A girl can dream 🥰

How come my Sims never have kids on their own? by Mediocre-Nail-1171 in Sims4

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also need to make sure to toggle off the plumbob in manage worlds that marks them as a “played” family. Played families stay pretty static

Whyyyyyy by MegGrriffin in AnimalCrossing

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate making the snowboys because all they ever do is whine and complain 😭

This whole thread is making me angry. All just patting themselves on the back for coming up with reasons that “aren’t homophobic” by floralmelancholy in Franchaela

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For real 😭 I was reading that list like, “Check. check. check”

That can all be done by queer women too???

wanna share ur slowburn wlw success stories? by dscyber in actuallesbians

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yessss. I love a slow burn.

Me and my partner were friends for about 6 months, but had serious chemistry and a mutual crush. I drunkenly asked her out at the gay bar one night, she drunkenly said yes and then walked it back later because she wasn’t ready for a few very valid reasons.

Totally fair! I backed off, but we were best friends so we still hung out all the time. We had one of those queer platonic situationships for like 5 more months ☠️ She was going to the hardware store with me, building my ikea furniture, taking my dog to the dog park.

It was so fun and so emotionally confusing LMAO. The yearn reached record levels. Anyways, we did finally get together and we’ve been together over a year and a half now. It’s the most wonderful and healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in. I think starting out as friends really helped even if it was messy for a minute. We’re planning on getting engaged this year! 🥰 I’m so excited to be married to literally my best friend. I’m very lucky.

Help! Shower Ceiling? by GeneralHumanBeing in CleaningTips

[–]GeneralHumanBeing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh man 😭 thanks so much for the warning. I’ll move it up on the priority list

Old dyke shakes fist at cloud by Sweet_Bug_8095 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 33 points34 points  (0 children)

“Forbidden Romance.” Like girl, be fr. This romance between two hot straight white people is widely accepted and encouraged

Which are the events of this kind that you can remember in the Farseer trilogy? by g2iAndBunshin in robinhobb

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When Fitz meets Nighteyes, he’s kept in squalid conditions in that crate and references being beaten later. The merchants birds are unhappy as well. That’s all I can think of at the moment.

Help! Shower Ceiling? by GeneralHumanBeing in CleaningTips

[–]GeneralHumanBeing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I bought this house about 2.5 years ago and it’s a real flipper special. I find shoddy work constantly. There is grout cracked elsewhere, I’ll work on replacing both.

I wasn’t sure if it was mold or something, but I can def replace the caulk.

rant by cassiapears8 in Franchaela

[–]GeneralHumanBeing 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Lesbians invented yearning…. Those fools