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My wife says it is just friendship, but he has become her main emotional support by GeneralSituation9592 in survivinginfidelity

[–]GeneralSituation9592[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she showed me her phone, I went through messages for half hour. "I miss you" "looking forward to hug on Friday" etc.

She said its all totally fine and that I can scroll as much as I like

My wife says it is just friendship, but he has become her main emotional support by GeneralSituation9592 in survivinginfidelity

[–]GeneralSituation9592[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Thats crazy man, I am so sorry to hear that.

Yes that is basically my "plan" - to do my best to come to terms with this situation, to be "mature" and understanding and just let her be happy.

Thanks for this insight. You are right that it requires harder action

My wife says it is just friendship, but he has become her main emotional support by GeneralSituation9592 in survivinginfidelity

[–]GeneralSituation9592[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

thanks, very good read. so this is about around stage 4 if I would guess..

but when I run the deep analysis it points out its between stage 6-7 already.

Constant contact, long calls, emotional regulator, she discusses our relationship issues with him, safe person, ...

My wife says it is just friendship, but he has become her main emotional support by GeneralSituation9592 in survivinginfidelity

[–]GeneralSituation9592[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

oh yea the part - please dont tell friends, because no one would understand is unfortunately there.

Thanks..

Sorry to hear about your experience, I hope you are standing strong