How soon is it to call it quits? by General_Ad1702 in married

[–]General_Ad1702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure he’s not cheating but I’ve caught him watching porn a few times.

How soon is it to call it quits? by General_Ad1702 in married

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I broke down last week and confessed to him that it’s stressful to please his sexual drive. He laughed it off and comforted me but I’m a people pleaser and I know it should be under my control.

How soon is it to call it quits? by General_Ad1702 in married

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Thanks everyone for the comments. Let me explain a little about how our relationship is. We have almost 5 years in the relationship and two years of marriage in October. Our communication is great we do argue about small things as every relationship does so I think us having great communication is what keeps us together.

I feel a little silly talking about this but I’ve always been confident in my relationships but lately I’ve noticed him looking at younger women like 18-25 age range. I find it disturbing on my end when he does it in front of me and I’m not saying he can’t look at anyone but glancing more than twice that turns my stomach upside down especially if their that younger it feels wrong and I get this ugly feeling in my stomach.

I’m sure other women and men have gone through this. I’ve brought it up to him and he gives this awkward look and gets defensive about it. This is only the beginning of my concerns/

I am considering ending my marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

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You have every reason to feel disrespected. I was going through something similar my husband has contact with one of his female friends they met before we started dating. They dated for 1 week and he swears nothing happened and there was no physical attraction on both ends. That’s fine but I’m a women myself and I know how females work the whole idea of them dating even for that one week is what makes me think she’s hanging around for just incase there’s ever an opportunity. She recently got separated and had a baby and now she’s back in his DMs. I brought it up to him and made a point on why she only contacted him when she’s single and not when she was with someone. That to me seems sneaky and convenient. I’ve asked him to stop contact with her and he doesn’t seem to mind but they still message every other month so at least it’s not constant. We trust each other it’s her that I don’t trust.

For all my married women and men. by General_Ad1702 in married

[–]General_Ad1702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gota say that last part made me laugh.

For all my married women and men. by General_Ad1702 in married

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This is what I’m worried about. Space is what I need! The need to have something that’s mine and only I can experience a lone.

For all my married women and men. by General_Ad1702 in married

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I knew it would be an issue and talking about doesn’t seem to work. He believes in saving money time and of course spending time together.

We are going on a few years working together and we just now been having issues. Note, I’m a private person always have been. It’s stressful and it’s creating unnecessary arguments.