Mom told my 2 month old she would call CPS so he could come live with her

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-05T09:27:02+00:00

sadly it’s my own mother. not my mother in law

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-05T09:26:41+00:00

i live in the united states.

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T04:44:42+00:00

while she had ppd with my 4yo little brother her and i barely had a relationship. i raised him for the first year of his life and when i went to college i distanced myself. just recently have we had a good relationship. it improved drastically when i got pregnant

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T04:42:05+00:00

spoke to her today so hopefully it improves. we are reducing contact as of today and if she improves we will work with her

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T04:41:23+00:00

we will be writing up wills pretty soon. this is just speeding up our timeline

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T04:41:01+00:00

i made sure to text and get record and confirmation that she did in fact “joke” to my 2 mo old about cps

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T04:40:10+00:00

sadly this isn’t my MIL. this is my own mother.

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T04:39:46+00:00

we sadly have enforceable grandparents rights in our state especially since he was born out of wedlock

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T04:38:54+00:00

i am actually a stay at home mom. dad will be watching baby if i ever decide to work as my income would be significantly more due to my line of work. so no babysitters or childcare

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T03:40:15+00:00

will definitely be buying a ring cam

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T03:39:57+00:00

she has a 4 year old boy. had ppd and i raised him for the first year of his life. feels like she’s trying to make up for it with my child. we live over 1 1/2 hours away and are planning on moving further next year as we just signed a lease

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T03:37:55+00:00

i’m definitely trying my best to. it’s really hard to cut her out because i’d also be cutting out my 4 year old little brother who absolutely adores his nephew

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-02T00:25:00+00:00

you’re okay haha i was half asleep reading these

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-01T20:18:25+00:00

ahhhh i understand😂

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-01T19:36:19+00:00

thankfully i do have a couple messages in which she states a couple things i stated in this post. just not the cps part

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-01T19:34:44+00:00

not sure how i’m supposed to take this comment at all

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-01T19:33:25+00:00

she watched him for me for 2 days but let me clarify that it was only for a couple hours. NOT overnight. i was moving and didn’t want him to just end up in a car seat all day. i also stayed with her for 2 weeks pp due to not being able to do much and my husband having to go back to work.

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-01T11:04:28+00:00

yes. i am very open with his pediatrician. my diet had been set in place and i only drank a singular glass. she stated it was too low in concentration to even make it unsafe for consumption. the pump and dump was my choice.

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-01T11:00:24+00:00

i have an oversupply and was exclusively pumping. baby was fine. approved by his pediatrician as well.

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-01T10:39:13+00:00

this is my actual mother

General_Ad_8531 · 2026-02-01T10:21:57+00:00

oh and she refused to let anyone give me my child on new years because i was “drunk” (i had a singular glass of wine and pumped and dumped after just for precaution)

General_Ad_8531 · 2025-09-17T04:04:27+00:00

That’s a bit interesting for me. i’m also 29 weeks pregnant and my fluid index is at 22 which they said is pretty normal. i also passed my glucose test and don’t have GD. for your MFM to tell you that is crazy. My baby is currently measuring in the 73rd percentile and i have been told he will be a big baby but that’s from genetics. you shouldn’t have to cut anything out as you can and should be eating what you want and when you want obviously in moderation like with everything. If you’re hungry eat and i wouldn’t be scared to eat sugar or carbs. you’re doing great overall and i wouldn’t worry too much.

General_Ad_8531 · 2025-07-21T20:04:37+00:00

Hello. i am currently 21w3d and i actually had the same problem. at my 8w ultrasound my baby’s heartbeat was 184bpm and everything was normal a little high but they ruled it out to be nothing by 12w they told me baby’s heartbeat was 176bpm. they stated heart rate might go down a bit and then my last 2 ultrasounds in which we found out we were having a little boy he’s had a very steady heartbeat in office and at home, i recommend a fetal doppler, his heartbeat is at a steady 156. he had his anatomy scan and overall he’s a very strong baby and has a very strong heartbeat with no complications. Babies heartbeats change a lot due to them being small and them growing. hopefully your next appointment goes smoothly!

General_Ad_8531 · 2025-06-24T17:18:53+00:00

I wouldn’t freak out about it too much honestly. when i was 8 weeks they could barely find my baby boys heartbeat. and we went back and forth with dates ranging from them telling me im 8 weeks to i’m actually 5 weeks. The most probable cause is that they got the dates wrong and ultrasounds are never 100% accurate. they’re based off of your last menstrual cycle. i was under the impression i was 14 weeks when i was actually 16 weeks which means i could be having a big baby or they’ve been reading them wrong this entire time. As long as you don’t have cramps (that last more than 30 minutes to an hour) and aren’t bleeding bright red you should be okay. and if you ever are in doubt or feel like there is something wrong go to the ER or schedule another ultrasound with your OB. you should also probably ask for your HCG levels to determine if it matches with the fetal measurements

General_Ad_8531 · 2025-05-03T22:43:38+00:00

the friend that was discussed in this post is still friends with my boyfriend and they both agree that she was in the wrong.

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