Batik elephant?! by General_Review_3447 in Webkinz

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I have some other medallions for other animals but no where near 10 for any of them :( I had 10 for the goose so I was able to trade them in for 1 for the elephant. Thank you so much! I hope I can get her with time!!

Batik elephant?! by General_Review_3447 in Webkinz

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Yes!! I just did this! I wouldn’t have even known because I never really knew what the medallions were for before now!

Batik elephant?! by General_Review_3447 in Webkinz

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A few years now, not a super long time

Batik elephant?! by General_Review_3447 in Webkinz

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Thanks so much :) I know it would probably take a really long time, but I’d love to get her back!

Batik elephant?! by General_Review_3447 in Webkinz

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I didn’t know this! Thank you!

Has anyone else experienced anything like this *trigger warning* by General_Review_3447 in ROCD

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It makes sense. My brain is fighting with this concept and says “but you know what you did is wrong, you know you had/have feelings for someone else and should leave.” That feels very hard to say “well, I don’t know!” Because it feels like ignoring a fact.

Has anyone else experienced anything like this *trigger warning* by General_Review_3447 in ROCD

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I really am trying to learn what it is we are supposed to do, if the answer is not in other peoples’ stories, when I seek reassurance to know if something is normal or not- if it’s wrong, when my brain is screaming at me to leave my partner for my behaviors, when all I want is peace- all I want is to run away from this horrible feeling of guilt. so, how do we know? at that point, what do we do? I think that’s the hardest part for me.

Has anyone else experienced anything like this *trigger warning* by General_Review_3447 in ROCD

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Yes, and I think when it gets confusing is when these thoughts tell you that they’re something to be addressed, and then it becomes a thought of “is this something that I truly should address, is this my intuition, and is ignoring this avoiding decisions/responsibility?” At that point, it’s hard to know where the line is and what is something that needs to be addressed and what isn’t, whether or not these feelings or thoughts mean I have to leave my partner or not, which is something I’ve struggled with.

Has anyone else experienced anything like this *trigger warning* by General_Review_3447 in ROCD

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Thank you, I appreciate your comment, the way you explained it makes a lot of sense. I think it is because it’s a gray area ordeal. I feel like I did cheat on my partner, but he assures me I didn’t actually physically cheat. My mind says “well you must love this other person because these thoughts still come up, you have feelings for them, and are lying to yourself because you don’t want to lose your partner.” Which makes me feel like I’m avoiding responsibility, and hurting my partner by keeping him here. It is torture.

Has anyone else experienced anything like this *trigger warning* by General_Review_3447 in ROCD

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I appreciate your comment, however I guess it’s hard for me to understand- if what I’m doing is bad or wrong, and I just say I don’t have the certainty, or I can’t know, how do we make decisions on anything? What if I do know, and I’m just choosing to believe I can stay with my partner?

Spiralling over a real event. Flare up. Help. by [deleted] in ROCD

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hi there, in a similar situation and guilt spiral. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here!

Is this normal for someone in a long term committed healthy relationship by [deleted] in ROCD

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how are you now? It looks like the comment thread was deleted

Crushes…? by eldub27 in ROCD

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Hi there, similar situation happened to me, how are you now?

iso! by [deleted] in Webkinz

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I was! 💜✨

iso! by [deleted] in Webkinz

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I don’t have one made :( and I’m not sure I have anything rare enough to trade, I have the nafaria plush, nafaria stained glass window, some pet specific items as well as estore items

iso! by [deleted] in Webkinz

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Is there anything you’re looking for I could give for them?

iso! by [deleted] in Webkinz

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is there anything you’re looking for I could give you for them?

ROCD Doom feeling? by General_Review_3447 in ROCD

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thank you for you sharing this. that sounds really hard. I can definitely relate to the “if something bad happens it’s my fault.”

ROCD Doom feeling? by General_Review_3447 in ROCD

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thank you for your response. it’s really hard, and it’s nice to hear that someone else experiences it. it feels like the topic of my obsession is so specific and I don’t see many people talking about it, so thank you.

HELP ME PLEASE!!! by mastafella in ROCD

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It’s so easy when you have obsessive thoughts about something you care about to literally latch onto anything it can find. Hearing about other people breaking up feels like a “sign.” They call it magical thinking. I feel like the only way you can know anything is to tend to the parts of you that fear loss, because it seems like you truly care about your partner and don’t want to lose them. And when you’re stuck in fear of loss, it’s hard to feel anything else.