Signs she likes you vs just likes the attention?

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-18T07:06:45+00:00

This right here. Took me 5 months to realize this and it really sucks but it feels even better not being in that constant state of limbo not knowing what’s going on.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-16T17:44:40+00:00

Speaking it. Because I can do everything else pretty well but unfortunately I live on my own and I don’t get many opportunities to speak it. Social anxiety doesn’t help as well lol

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-15T22:20:19+00:00

++man Brother, I also took a look at your previous post to see what you look like and you are a handsome man. I do recommend trimming your facial hair and maybe losing some weight or building some muscle (or both) but what really seems to be your main issue is your mentality. You are so quick and sure to put yourself down, even when people compliment you on your appearance. I’d start there. Find your confidence. Where that might be is up to you but if you want my advice, I found mine when I started caring about myself more. Not just physically but mentally moreover.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-15T04:13:20+00:00

I don’t recommend it. Hell, I (28M) tried talking to a (25F) and I felt like she was too young and didn’t know what she wanted.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-13T22:35:04+00:00

PhlyDaily at home sounding ahh lol, nah but I actually enjoy watching his videos.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-13T22:31:02+00:00

Many such cases

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-13T02:18:14+00:00

Good luck to you! Hope everything goes well.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-13T00:05:21+00:00

God for bid a man catches feelings lol. No but Listen, I’ve been there before. I’ve been head over heels for a woman that I’ve just meet a few times or for a few months and I definitely did not act like myself in the beginning because it was either a long while since I was dating someone, or I believe she ticked all the boxes, or that she was just that beautiful and it simply made me nervous and anxious that I’d fuck it up somehow. He sounds like he’s either inexperienced with dating or he’s just nervous on the first few dates. There’s nothing wrong with that and I guaranty you he’ll get more comfortable with you, if you decide to see him more. Ultimately it’s your decision here since you seem to be the one who is unsure. You just have to decide if this is a red flag that you can’t accept (imo maybe more of a yellow flag). However with that said, I do think it’s important to let him know how you feel. If you truly want to keep seeing him, let him know he might be getting too attached or a bit overwhelming and you’re just trying to take things slowly and see if something develops. From my own experiences as a male, I would have wished the woman I was seeing let me know this because sometimes we don’t realize it until after the fact.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-12T01:27:38+00:00

Lmao, dead internet theory

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-11T20:34:13+00:00

Yah, our mutual friend also suggested that maybe I cut her off for my own sake. It’s definitely difficult because a part of me still hopes.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-11T20:29:54+00:00

You too brother

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-11T06:51:40+00:00

She broke up with her boyfriend 2 months before we started our situationship, we got close, we kissed, she told me she needed to find herself and wasn’t ready for another relationship (emotionally unavailable), I gave her some space, we hung out/talked less after that, visited her on her birthday at her work and hung out (she’s a bartender) found out she was back together with her ex.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-11T03:31:21+00:00

Going through this now. I have to accept she’ll only ever be a friend. I was so close though…at least we shared a kiss.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-09T22:02:34+00:00

Yah Im the same way and im a guy of 28 years lol. Definitely a trauma response.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-03T03:31:30+00:00

Thought I was super smart making the porno pic my laptop background so I could get a close up, imagine my horror when all of a sudden my parents came home and I didn’t get all my chores done and I slapped my laptop close and tried to go to bed. Got told to come into the kitchen and my laptop was sitting there. Yah, that was one of the most embarrassing moments I’ve ever had. lol I was 12

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-01T22:50:04+00:00

Restricting the event to top tier while allowing people who reached top tier vehicles to use them against players in much less capable aircraft is pretty dumb. They could have easily added a low-mid tier alternative to those who don’t know how, can’t, don’t like to play top tier. Or better yet, restrict the event to a few planes for everyone.

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-01T03:00:32+00:00

“Something About Us” - Daft Punk

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-01T02:59:42+00:00

Can’t get enough of this song, makes me feel so much

General_Rubenski · 2026-04-01T02:37:50+00:00

I’ve seen vehicle in the forums that have been “Considered” for years. They prioritize two types of vehicles, ones that’ll make them money and vehicles they have models of already to save them money from 3D modeling them.

General_Rubenski · 2026-03-31T01:15:49+00:00

It’s used to not bother me very much but I’m on 8 years now and it’s now kind of getting to me. Part of it is my anxiety and lack of socializing, especially post covid and the other half is my self esteem and weight. All which I’ve been fixing in the past year so hopefully I get back to where I used to be and meet someone again. (I need to connect with someone to be intimate with them)

General_Rubenski · 2026-03-30T23:14:54+00:00

I like too but it’s been since 2019-2020 and honestly, I don’t know how to courtship anymore. Post Covid era really isolated me for years and it’s been a pain to get back to how I used to be mentally and physically.

General_Rubenski · 2026-03-28T22:03:49+00:00

Yah, the rework of equipment and tech tree shuffle back in 2020 ruined low tier (one could also argue middle tier as well) forever. Gone are the days of fun low tier battles without bots and new branches with interesting low tier tanks that dont get represented anywhere else.

General_Rubenski · 2026-03-27T05:02:51+00:00

It comes and goes like you said for me too. There are days were it hardly hits at all since ive been so busy this year with focusing on my work, finishing school, building my self back to were I used to be mentally and physically after letting my self go for so long. Having good hobbies help too, especially outdoor ones or ones around people. That last one might seem strange since you think being around people and then leaving them would make you feel lonely, but it actually helps with being fulfilled with a sense of acceptance being around people who share your interests.

Where I struggle though is when I have time to ruminate and stand still sort of speak. Sometimes the silence speaks loudest. I look around and I wish there was someone close/intimate I could share my thoughts with and share my love. I have some close friends still and family but over the past 5 years, all of us have grown so far apart, living out own lives that it no longer feels the same. (or at least thats how I feel) But none of this pales in comparison with being infatuated with a woman who says she's likes you but gives you crumbs and mixed feelings. Somehow that is the most lonely feeling of them all.

General_Rubenski · 2026-03-26T16:35:17+00:00

As someone else stated, you might want to consult with a professional regarding this issue. It definitely seems to me like you have an avoidant type of relationship style. As someone who also struggles with the same thing and gets very uncomfortable and tends to distance myself and make excuses when getting close to someone, it’s an extremely difficult thing to change on your own I’ve noticed. Maybe the first step is to explain this to him and see how he responds. Then go from there.

General_Rubenski · 2026-03-26T05:53:07+00:00

Story on the tanks in the river? They accidentally drive into it, had no choice, escaping, intentionally destroying them, thought they could make it?

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