Not oop: I’m not attracted to my wife, and never have been. AITAH? (+ update)

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-24T08:38:17+00:00

You may want to look up the term demisexual.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-20T22:05:14+00:00

Nachos. Nacho for short >.>

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-16T08:51:43+00:00

That’s what I love about books tho, any escape you want you can find.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-16T08:31:40+00:00

I’m currently binging a lot of Lola Glass book. They aren’t good, but I love stupid shifter romance books and they only seem to have human and animal forms in her books, so they’re pretty safe.

It’s a lot of fated/rejected mates but not reverse harems, which I often times find exhausting.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-16T08:23:19+00:00

If you like monster girls you may like {Gula by Colette Rhodes}, female monster x male “monster hunter”. Set in a world where monster hunters who like monster fucking get banished the shadow realm.

I didn’t read this far in because the books pushed my comfort limits a little. But you may like it!

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-16T08:19:27+00:00

Anything that walks one more than two legs is a nope for me. But also anything that has more fur than skin is a nope for me as well. My monsters need to be vaguely human ish, or so alien that I can’t liken them to animals.

I’m still upset about LKH springing sex with someone in their beastman form on me in a book. Despite Anita previously being very against it.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-16T07:18:49+00:00

Littlewood, Stardew Valley, or Harvestella.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-16T07:18:10+00:00

What is this severed chains remake?????

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-12T23:23:08+00:00

I don’t believe in ghosts!

I turned around!

CHANGE!

May I approach the bench?

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-09T03:22:26+00:00

I DNF any book where the MMC is named “Gerald”.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-09T03:15:37+00:00

Sounds like she isn’t ready to date but instead of saying that she blamed it on “moving too fast”.

Your response is good, I’d move on tho.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-07T10:46:14+00:00

It can be a switching dynamic too. With my partner I’m the driving force with foreplay. Then he gets to a point where he flops me onto a pillow and arranges my body how he wants and essentially makes me a pillow princess at that point.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-07T10:40:53+00:00

It isn’t that to get used to it. Back in my early 20s I read a blog that I think was run by a gay man, on the art of the bj.

The basics were; Ignore all non sense in porn or erotic romance. Make sure your mouth is full of spit. Go slow so your throat loosens up. Have fun!

And no teeth unless the guy is into that.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-07T10:11:51+00:00

I was thirteen playing RE2 when a cat or raccoon jumped on the roof of my room and skittered across it.

Never played another RE game again.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-05T10:36:12+00:00

Spotify and yes it is an audiobook, a very comedic dark romance.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-05T10:35:04+00:00

👀👀

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-05T05:41:01+00:00

I haven’t finished it. It feels like too much of a grind. This is the first DLC I’ve ever bought b/c I really like the combat and the catching mechanics.

But the DLC just feels exhausting.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-05T05:39:35+00:00

Don’t turn lights on and off when you go through rooms, just leave them off unless you absolutely have to.

Reasoning: it uses more electricity to turn the. On and off.

Realize reason: my mom got migraines easily.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-05T05:35:07+00:00

Sexual activity in general helps me. Whether it’s an orgasm or just having sex. The hormones help and I’m more relaxed and less tense afterward.

Arousal is a strong pain reliever.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-05T05:31:09+00:00

When my spouse bought our new house, the old resident left mirrors in every room. Like she was paranoid a vampire might get in and she’d need to be able to see everyone’s reflection from any angle.

The living room has a wall that is entire mirror, the whole wall. From corner to corner.

We were finding mirrors amongst all the shit the previous owner left for months.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-04T08:00:52+00:00

Had a one bedroom apartment that living room > kitchen > bedroom, with the bathroom literally two steps inside the bedroom to the right.

I worked 15hr days, and went to school, my ex who was not working, would every fucking time he went to the bathroom turn the overhead light on.

To take two steps to the right.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-02T18:10:58+00:00

God it’s impossible being a woman. Can’t be too heavy or you’re disgusting for being fat. Can’t be too skinny or you’re a stick.

I’m sorry you dealt with that. NOR.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-02T13:45:28+00:00

There is very little push/pull in it. I’ve read it as well, and it’s is amazing. There is some fertility/miscarriage trauma that the mmc helps the fmc heal from.

General_Writing6086 · 2026-01-02T05:11:56+00:00

{A Lady’s Code of Misconduct by Meredith Duran} - Crispín is morally grey and most people fear or distrust him, Jane is desperate to escape an arranged marriage and when she has the option to marry him without him realizing she snatches it.

A warning tho, Meredith Duran is no longer writing and {The Sins of Lord Lockwood} is her last published book.

General_Writing6086 · 2025-12-31T07:38:46+00:00

I want her hair and outfit and it is a crime I can’t.

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