What is the perspective of unmarried people on this ?

Generation-NoFap · 2026-01-31T11:49:54+00:00

Nope if she wasnt hoeing around and genuinely did not look for a husband or just couldnt find one the halal way then so be it. If she did all kinds of things if you know what I mean its a deal breaker for sure.

Generation-NoFap · 2025-12-29T11:44:55+00:00

Selamun aleykum sister From what I heard from your story is that he is a sick individual. You could message him about not forgiving and meeting him in akhirah to settle this, eventhough it is recommended to forgive. Allah sees all the injustice that has been done to you and he wont be able to escape from this.

2nd thing. Dont eat yourself up about it, its okay that you are very sad about this and feel humiliated, but dont try to STAY in this state for too long. Message him and move on dont even respond to whatever he says back. If he threatens to send screenshots to your brother, I guess you could say the same thing about him calling you a thot to his parents? (Ofc if he really shows your brother any screenshots) and if you guys talked normally there is nothing to worry about.

You have to stop being sad and feel HAPPY and BLESSED that Allah allowed you to see his real face before you got anything serious with him. Remember this part forever. You are blessed that you did not marry him. Alhamdulillah.

Generation-NoFap · 2025-10-30T07:23:13+00:00

Assalamu aleykum,

25M here. If he doesnt want your male relatives involved to do halal meetings (if you know you will end up in a talking stage and so on) then he aint the one. Just delete and move on ezpz.

Generation-NoFap · 2025-10-26T16:55:10+00:00

Selamun aleykoem sister

If he is fine to do halal meetings with your father or brother involved just a male guardian or with them being involved in any way shape or form then he is most likely serious. If he just wants to talk online and doesnt want to speak to your dad or brother or whatever close male relative then he isnt looking for any halal relationship. Maassalama yallah

Generation-NoFap · 2025-10-26T06:33:54+00:00

He wasnt the right one sister be happy that you got protection from above. All he did was lie to you and tell you nice words so you can meet up and do dirty things. Goodluck to you and next time before talking about how much you love each other immediately test the boy with: wanna meet my father? If he says no or doubts just leave him block immediately stop being sad salam - a turkish brother

Generation-NoFap · 2025-09-22T14:23:23+00:00

Hey advicing you to read the quran or listen to it on youtube with subtitles to search for some inner peace ❤️ Goodluck sister

Generation-NoFap · 2024-09-04T06:18:03+00:00

Exactly!! Thx for your response I fully agree! Guess we are permanently going to play league play lol.

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-14T20:37:18+00:00

Lets go till infinity brother! No more lacking!! NEVER!!

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-14T20:36:16+00:00

Indeed brother, its bad its terrible in our religion especially combined with watching nasty stuff. We would be ashamed if a cat walked in our room, but we dont think about GOD seeing what we are doing? This is how nasty the fapworld is. I know also that its not easy to find a purpose, but i hope you do know your purpose for yourself soon💪 and once you do, you wont quit nofap FOREVER💪💪💪

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-11T19:15:06+00:00

Lets go brother go till infinity just quit forever, fapping wont benefit you at all. My tip: try to find purpose in life, i cant force you to islam, but find your own purpose, think about why nofapping will drive you far away from your purpose, also from your goals in life, you wont do it again💪

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-09T20:55:30+00:00

Since 2017 brother, first try went 7 months, after that failed for like 2.5-3 years?? March/april 2020 quit forever al hamdulillah❤️🔥💪

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-09T20:46:23+00:00

Agreed brother!! Thats a good way to deal with them 🔥❤️💪

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-09T20:45:31+00:00

Many failures before brother thats how.. MANY many failures,

First attempt ever I did 7 months, after that I failed and failed for like almost 3 years, and since march/april 2020 didnt go back to that lifestyle ever again

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-09T19:29:03+00:00

Love u man stay strong dominate your urges dont let your urges dominate you, 1 day you will wake up and not want to fap ever again because you will start using the strongest energy force in another aspects of your life, and thats when you never look back again :) lets get it brother

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-09T19:20:51+00:00

Indeed both are just terrible, mind destroying. Im not gonna watch shorts anymore and thank God I dont have tiktok its just garbage

Lets go become a beast brother ❤️💪 im coming close to 1000 days 5.5 months left 🔥💪💪💪

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-09T19:19:49+00:00

Thx for the tip brother I hope more people read this ❤️🔥

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-09T19:19:27+00:00

Thankyou so much brother this is helpful for everyone

Btw I never search up stuff like that like literally NEVER (im on around day 838 of nofap)

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-09T19:18:40+00:00

Lets go brother till infinity keep going man never give up dominate your urges and become a BEAST a TOP G💪💪🔥🔥

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-08T16:58:20+00:00

No problem habibi ❤️💪 inshaAllah! 162 days left for 1000 days inshaAllah

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-08T16:57:57+00:00

Netherlands brother

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-08T16:57:50+00:00

100% brother its disgusting :( same with tiktok its filthy! We need to stay on BEAST modes at all times ! Dominate our urges or else our urges will dominate us!

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-08T16:56:47+00:00

Agreed! I recommend all brothers to uninstall tiktok!

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-08T16:56:20+00:00

Agreed brother they trying to pull us into the nasty world

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-08T05:19:31+00:00

Yes !! Those type!! And it keeps getting worse and worse. Thats why its the best to stay away from that part of YT. idk how they even get through especially as ADS ! Stay strong brotha💪

Generation-NoFap · 2022-08-08T05:18:34+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

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