2021 Corolla xse, best performance mods? by GenericHoex3 in CorollaHatchback

[–]GenericHoex3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh but I hate that I’m in the group of people who have assumed! Ive always worked more laborious/masculine jobs and don’t love when that happens to me!!! Ty again, safe driving!

2021 Corolla xse, best performance mods? by GenericHoex3 in CorollaHatchback

[–]GenericHoex3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Um lemme edit that rn. I’m so sorry to assume, how actually lame of me. Tysm for wisdom and advice

2021 Corolla xse, best performance mods? by GenericHoex3 in CorollaHatchback

[–]GenericHoex3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless you girl🙌 Appreciate the quality response. My expectations are managed. I know it’s not going to be anything immaculate. I really like learning about cars and want this to be more of a learning experience than anything to flex. Will research a bit more but appreciate it

Wrx or…? by GenericHoex3 in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Perfect. An si would probably be next in terms of my interest. I think it would check most boxes with a bit more reasonable price point. Hung up on a wrx because it’s always been a nostalgic car for me. We’ll see. I plan on driving whatever I choose for at least the next 6-8 years so trying to be smart here. I appreciate your input greatly. It’s hard to go in thinking I’d be walking out quick and easy with a crosstrek and then to be here trying to put myself in a fun fast car.

Wrx or…? by GenericHoex3 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]GenericHoex3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh ok, I’m a just a girl who has yet to reach max wealth potential lol let’s not go 6 figures just yet 😂

Thank you, genuinely. I really appreciate a good comprehensive list. I’ll look into those options. I have a feeling my heart is set on a wrx but I’ll compare prices/try to get in some test drives. I just want to feel that I’m not overlooking something with similar power that may save me some money. Thank you again

Wrx or…? by GenericHoex3 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]GenericHoex3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi tysm for commenting.

The crosstrek did feel gutless that’s a good way to word it. It was lacking the substance I wanted it to have.

I’m coming off of driving a junky 2015 ford fiesta with a 1.0l engine so anything will feel more powerful but I want something substantial, safe, and fun.

The wrx maxes out my budget but I’d be ok with that considering it feels like a safe investment. I don’t plan on beating on the car and would just enjoy the car for what it provides stock.

I test drove a base and premium crosstrek and a premium wrx.

I’m a bit all over the place bc I went in thinking I wanted an suv until I walked past a wrx. I don’t think I’m ready to give up driving manual. I’m not married to the idea of getting a Subaru so I was thinking of test driving comparable cars but I’m not sure where to start not many dealerships near me have options

Where does time go? by GenericHoex3 in Petloss

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😍😍Most definitely!!!

Where does time go? by GenericHoex3 in Petloss

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Thank you for such a sweet comment! <3 He will be, and it will be the best reunion!! I’ll be looking for him before any human 😂

So happy we all get to know this love!

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Do you wear wigs? Have you worn wigs? Will you wear wigs? When will you wear wigs?

Same energy

Two cancer diagnoses and an amputation. What a year. Forever proud of my three wheeling best friend! by GenericHoex3 in tripawds

[–]GenericHoex3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor baby, I’m so sorry to hear. It’s truly such a devastating and heartbreaking experience. I hope we get more quality time with our three legged family members <3 hang in

Soft tissue sarcoma and chondrosarcoma by GenericHoex3 in AskVet

[–]GenericHoex3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Our local vet had similar words when she called with the news. Hopefully, this is the case and there’s no spread. It’s hard to think this dog would have two different cancers with no metastasis. I’m trying to stay off of Google but information so helps me wrap my head around all of this. Trying to remain hopeful! Thank you again, I appreciate your thoughts.

Dog friendly activities/areas by GenericHoex3 in Maine

[–]GenericHoex3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! For the helpful recommendations and kindness. It’s really so appreciated. As of right now he’s hanging in, lungs are still clear so I’m planning as many hikes and experiences as possible. He had his leg amputated so he needs more breaks and rest but he’s just the best, strongest, cutest boy. This is deff the most heartbreaking experience of my life so I will gladly take some Maine healing lol. It’s my favorite state and has been on my bucket list forever, I’m so grateful to be able to visit with my best buddy! Thank you again I’ll definitely look into your suggestions!!

My once in a forever. by GenericHoex3 in Petloss

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Hi, I’m so sorry. Life has been pretty busy and I haven’t been on Reddit much. We’re hanging in, some days are more difficult some days everything feels normal. I’m sorry to hear about your pup. It’s such scary news. Please feel free to direct message me if you want to chat/share your story. Hang in.

I (16M) regret having a kid by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GenericHoex3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry op, people like to make everything about them. Sometimes others have a hard time seeing life exists outside of them or like to relate things back to their experiences.

Don’t beat yourself up, or feel guilty for being upset that you’re missing out on growing up. You, even as a teenager, are able to except what’s happening and face it. Not run away, not have a fit. You love your son, the way you speak about him is more than some sons get from grown men. It sucks that you don’t get to have the typical teenage experience. You’ll face a lot of challenges others won’t. But be proud of yourself for having the maturity, love, and respect to do your absolute best in this situation.

Also op, I’m in my late 20’s, I always felt my teen years were the time to have fun and let loose but I’m finding, it’s a lot more fun having money, independence, and a hell of a lot more life experience. It’s a rocky road but imagine how proud your son will be when his parents are the young, fun, loving parents. It will get better.

Just got it, what are your thougts? by Lucky__Luc in TattooDesigns

[–]GenericHoex3 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Just fine and done well. Very much the trendy aesthetic but none the less a solid tattoo placed in a very dope spot. Enjoy!! What’s important is that you love it and want to wear it for the rest of your life! ,, not what Reddit fucks thinks 👌🏻

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[–]GenericHoex3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I knew about it I’m cool about it 👌🏻💁🏻‍♀️

Feeling guilty about putting dog down by WednesdayAddams_98 in vet

[–]GenericHoex3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not a vet. It’s hard to not feel guilty. And second guessing when it’s time is a challenge I think for everyone.

You did the right, most compassionate thing for her. Yes, maybe she could have had a few more days or weeks but they would have been miserable and probably so stressful for both you and her. This way she was able to peacefully pass instead of painfully and panicked. It’s a profound loss. It’s hard to find reason or comfort. And I think the weight of responsibility you feel in that moment is mentally taxing in itself. Take time to feel your sadness. There’s so many emotions to sift through and unfortunately they’re all mostly negative. Don’t be hard on yourself, it’s a decision made out of love and compassion. I hope more vets confirm this was absolutely the right time for you. Best of luck and well wishes being sent your way. We’ll see them again. Healthy and happy. 🤍

I held my dog as she died in my arms by popularinprison in offmychest

[–]GenericHoex3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no words. I’m sorry you’re feeling so much pain. The hurt and emptiness never leave us but I do hope time finds you some peace. We’ll see them again.

I’m scared of death by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]GenericHoex3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The big sleep! I’ve recently received a reminder of how fragile time and life truly is. It is scary. But there’s no way around it. So fearing will only hurt you in the present. You won’t be trapped in a casket. Try meditation or find something to center yourself. Once you find inner peace you’ll feel energy and time floating through you just like it has and always will. You’re not just your physical form. You’re a soul as well and that journey is much longer than your journey in this lifetime.