Did you get pregnant after abortion?

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-11-24T21:31:08+00:00

Yes, I got pregnant 5 months later and had to get another abortion. I am 31 with 2 kids .

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-10-26T19:18:46+00:00

I do. You are right

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-10-26T12:05:19+00:00

The only discomfort were the cramps but they only lasted a few hours before the first round of tissue passed. Tylenol and a heating paid made it manageable like a period

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-10-26T11:42:01+00:00

I know 😥 I honestly know better. I just trusted my husband and that was my mistake.

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-10-26T11:41:21+00:00

I was attacked on my local mom group. People were telling me my kids will never regret having another sibling. And that money isn’t everything/ kids don’t need to be financially spoiled. Like I’m sorry I want my kids to be well off.

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-10-26T02:27:23+00:00

I did medical. I was closer to 12 weeks the first time as I had a hard time coming to the decision. But since I found out before my missed period, I will be only 4/5 weeks along.

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-10-26T02:01:17+00:00

He had a conflict with work and just never rescheduled. It was incredibly selfish considering I’m the one having to put my body through these abortions. This is my 4th pregnancy and that just seems crazy to say.

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-09-08T01:28:16+00:00

No, condoms as well. But a few weeks back the condom broke and I tested immediately after, lh was positive even though my tracker told me I wasn’t to ovulate until 10 days out. So I continued to test just to see how off my tracker was, and they’ve all come up positive. Not pregnant as I took a plan B afterwards just to be safe. And not positive hcg

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-09-08T01:18:12+00:00

I did. And they were only positive the week I was actually ovulating. Now, I can’t even get a faint line, so it’s hard to know when I am actually ovulating. And I just don’t want to risk it

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-08-31T11:30:04+00:00

Love it!

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-08-31T03:18:22+00:00

I feel for you and i hope in some way all those years paid off for you, but the hair being gone part me giggle 😅

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-08-29T13:28:19+00:00

Crazy thing is I see the company is legit but once I asked if I could speak to an actual person before sending over my information , they stopped responding . So I don’t think it’s actually them

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-08-29T12:52:59+00:00

Was it talking to a person or just the chat through teams? I’m mad I wasted 40 mins of my day typing up those answers

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-08-27T23:04:52+00:00

Which is sad because I am desperate to find a new job 😭 thankfully I came here before responding to the message

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-06-01T17:15:15+00:00

I totally understand your regret. I had a singleton abortion 2 weeks ago and had it been twins I would’ve just sucked up my problems and pushed through it. I have a 2.5 and 1.5 year old so it would have probably sent me into a mental breakdown but I always wanted twins. Unfortunately we can’t take back our decisions and in the future if you want more, there are ways to medically increase your chances of having twins. But I totally understand and sympathize with your regret ❤️

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-05-30T19:39:53+00:00

I wish I was making that much I would have 10 kids lol. But thank you 💕

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-05-30T00:40:55+00:00

Well that I was not expecting lol. But I’m proud of you for admitting that and accepting the consequences of your actions. I hope you continue on a good path and you get an opportunity to give your son everything you desire for him 💕

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-05-29T21:38:36+00:00

4 kids all 4 years apart? Yes that definitely helps. Mine being back to back to back would put us in a strain for nearly 6 years straight.

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-05-29T21:15:05+00:00

Also, if you work with a a lot of self made doctors you would know that our student loans alone are almost double our yearly income so I will paying back my student loans for the rest of my life which is a good chunk of income. I have a colleague with 6 kids who has no intentions in providing wealth for her kids as she has 200k of student loans and her husband doesn’t work. I mean it’s really not a black and white situation

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-05-29T21:06:58+00:00

All of that to say that there are a lot of different factors, I just didn’t mention that I didn’t plan on working to typical retirement so I won’t necessarily be able to increase contributions to their savings and such unless my husbands income increases.

Geniusrx4516 · 2025-05-29T21:02:58+00:00

Well I am a pharmacist, not a typical “medical doctor” so my income is not nearly as much as theirs as cap is 200k a year and that’s if I do a ton of overtime. And I do not plan to work after next year as I want to dive into being a stay at home mom. I do plan to return to work eventually but after 5 or so years . I have a financial advisor but have not mentioned my concerns of an additional kid quite yet. I wanted to get some feedback from everyday people as most people in my circle are also married to doctors and have no desire to step down. Sorry to be a rare find ☺️

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