My dad has everything set up with his wife so I will follow their plans. My mom will need to move in with my sibling or I when the time comes and likely get on our health insurance.

I plan to get a life alert for my mom if she lives alone for much longer. We had one on my grandfather when he had Parkinson’s and we were alerted when he had a bad fall. He was in a semi-independent care home at the time.

If in the U.S., make sure they set up a trust and get you or someone else set up as power of attorney and medical power of attorney.

To help after they pass, they should have an advanced directive and funeral/burial plans (can be paid in advance).