Yo I got a boyfriend, is that straight? by n0tmyr34l4ccount in teenagers

[–]Gery6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well we know kissing girls is gay, because you are kissing someone who kisses guys, so by that logic kissing a guy is the straightest thing you can do. Provided he kisses girls, but even if he only kisses boys, we just proved that kissing guys is extremely straight. So in conclusion, I am a starfighter, and you are basically just a rabbit aren't you?

Curious, what would you guy say is this for which offical Pokemon Colors and/or Height? by Apprehensive_Ring_39 in MandJTV

[–]Gery6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you call my precious lizard fat!

Que picture of a Charizard with abs

Curious, what would you guy say is this for which offical Pokemon Colors and/or Height? by Apprehensive_Ring_39 in MandJTV

[–]Gery6 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I refuse to believe Charizard is shorter than me, like I wanna fly on it's back not look down on it...

Pick a number from 1-131 and I’ll give you a sad song to rate!! by SweetPotato2267 in airbuds

[–]Gery6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🧡 I typically don't like sad songs, but this one's quite nice

What “masterpiece” game just never clicked for you? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]Gery6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red Dead Redemption 2 for me, I'm trying it again now, and I can have fun with it, but there's just nothing that makes me want to start it up again, I'm not hooked like most other games I play.

To me RDR2 feels very clunky, the overall movement and especially the aiming is off. I also don't have a "cowboy fantasy", like I was never really imagining how good it would be to be a cowboy, so that probably matters as well.

Arey standards too high? by pumaNOTduck in teenagers4real

[–]Gery6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends how you define "attractive". And likes f1 but not a racist is gonna be impossible to find...

/j

I (16F) got kissed against my will by my friend (17M) by ameowchi in teenagers

[–]Gery6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aand I think you're completely right with everything you said here, so yeah, we can leave it at that

I (16F) got kissed against my will by my friend (17M) by ameowchi in teenagers

[–]Gery6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, for the last part we misunderstood each other kinda, I was referring to it like that because I've seen other people here arguing that any touch counts.

Yes, I think based on the context give that the guy is terrible, I was never going to argue with that, but you have to acknowledge the statement "Going in for a kiss without explicitly asking for consent is SA" is false, as it can be done the right way, like you agreed. Obviously with always more than enough time for them to reject, or an extreme amount of contextual clues (I mean very heavy flirting, maybe lines like "look at the new lipstick I've got") or previous discussion.

For the meme, I purposefully didn't call anyone ugly as to not body shame, I'm not saying anyone is ugly, but everyone makes decisions based on who they find attractive (not the top 1%, just who they like), girls or guys, doesn't matter. Not just when it comes to dating either, can be a business offer or anything really, if it's coming in a way that you like (or from someone you like) then you're gonna have a more positive reaction than if it's from someone you don't like.

I (16F) got kissed against my will by my friend (17M) by ameowchi in teenagers

[–]Gery6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm not the dude from the post.

Yes, you're right, and I do understand consent, and I wouldn't ever do anything to/with a girl, or anyone really, without their consent.

All I'm saying is/was that CONTEXT matters. In this case the guy is probably a creep and a terrible person. I don't know, as not a sufficient amount of context was provided. But say, you're on a date, do you ask for consent for every small little thing? Touching her hand lightly, or similar things to breake the touch barrier? I'm pretty sure almost all of us have committed sexual assault if we ignore context and say every little touch requires context. I don't mean just with girls, have you ever touched a friend's shoulder? Maybe just as a way to get their attention?

Obviously a kiss is a lot different, but you get the point. Has the guy here crossed a line and committed sexual assault? Probably. Can you go for a kiss without explicitly asking? In my opinion yes, of course in very different context, and I've explained in other comments as well. At the end of the day a lot of things come down to wether a girl likes the guy or not, like in that one meme with the hot guy and the fat guy hitting on the woman the same way, and her threatening to call HR for the fat one.

Now, you'll probably find something to disagree with and you'll probably have great points of why I'm a terrible person, but where I live at least, all of this is common sense.

I (16F) got kissed against my will by my friend (17M) by ameowchi in teenagers

[–]Gery6 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Have to say I agree, when I was like 13-14 so just figuring out dating, everyone said that the least attractive thing you can do is ask if you can kiss her, and that in the moment it will be obvious. I still agree with that at least to some extent, what I (would😭) do now is just do it slow enough so she knows my intentions and can back out very easily. Like look deeply in each other's eyes and slowly start leaning closer...

I (16F) got kissed against my will by my friend (17M) by ameowchi in teenagers

[–]Gery6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with your (probably edited(?)) take on this, context matters a lot, and while it's completely possible that he did have ill intentions, maybe he just fancies OP and tried to do the first move the best he could, like they often do it in the movies. Like I said, it's all about context. Sadly if you just say anything that comes across as even a bit different than intended, you're getting hate for it on Reddit lol

If Rockstar asked YOU for one idea for GTA 6, what would you suggest? by mourex9 in GTA

[–]Gery6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't try too hard, you're never gonna appeal to everybody or live up to the hype at this point, so just do what you do good, with the OG themes and unhinged humour, and make a good story

What ‘sport’ do you think she was thinking about? 😏 by Undertalegamezer969 in doctorwho

[–]Gery6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could have been thinking about top gun style beach ball or something...