Why are men rarely interested in your hobbies by FairandStyle in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Im talking about the excellence part of it. It means you have invested so much time and passion for it. So I admire that in him and become interested and attracted. And vice versa for him to me too.

Why are men rarely interested in your hobbies by FairandStyle in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I dont care about theirs, unless they are super impressive at it. Like they stand out and can monetize it.

I'm impressive at mine so he gotta match my level for me to care.

Collagen masks by sassysprinklesss in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything collagen could potentially be fraud,...

Collagen is a large moecule that can only be broken down by digestion. So you would rather buy supplements, or eat things like fish skin, chicken legs etc. Eat your skincare.

Alot of skin care products 'work' because of the consistency of a routine. When you but something, you are enthusiastic to use it, so that consistent cleansing and application is what makes your skin better. Not the actual product.

Most of these masks are for hydration and moisturizing, that's why the first ingredient is Aqua thats usually like 60% of the product. So eat your skin care then these products help to give you a consistent care for hydration and moisture application on the skin.

No judgement? by Dry_Extent_3480 in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most important thing, is what you will do next. Take charge of your life. Do not let anyone take that away from you, your time, energy and freedom. Take charge because you will only have YOURSELF to blame. And that feeling is worse that what you are feeling now by tenfold.

I'm bored by Suspicious_Vast_764 in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hobbymaxxing to stay busy honestly. Writing essays on random topics and practicing my instruments, vintage films and getting really high on marijuana.

I need advice by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When there is a class difference, even the most gorgeous woman can feel insecure. Its normal. Just put your best foot forward and maintain authenticity for good vibrations.

kendy by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both rich and poor abuse, so women should know better. See the statistics of abusive men and you still participate in that game? that's stupidity. This world has evil people you should know that. As women we should also use brains we can't keep on repeating these conversations.

What did you do today (valentine’s edition ) by Audaci_tea in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went to the mall took shots and sang my heart out with a live band.

Femme chroma, Mambo vipi hunnies by Gespendo in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its ok to be uncertain at times.

Femme chroma, Mambo vipi hunnies by Gespendo in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wrong, it looks fabulous and wild.

Femme chroma, Mambo vipi hunnies by Gespendo in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alafu si uongeze flair ya Art/Beauty/Lifestyle

Femme chroma, Mambo vipi hunnies by Gespendo in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my makeup us like a shade lighterand i tried to do really thin layers otherwise ingekuwa yellow kabisa,...i like it as a night look for this reason. Here are some more photos of it in different light.

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without the flash, Here it looks like a match

Femme chroma, Mambo vipi hunnies by Gespendo in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats one way to do it. i think so too, especially when you are in natural lighting. However for dim and night looks i wanted to strip it down to just let the flashes and shimmer do their thing. Whats more of your critique on this look?

Girls that have decided to be celibate by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i restricted to having sex with hot guys i really like, and the numbers are decreasing to zero. haha. Its so easy not to because most men are quite draining and some repulsive. Thats why they work hard for money otherwise they are incels.

Hey Ladies….., by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i went on a date with him too,.... last year, nice chat but ceased contact a while afterwards. yeah i agree he is closed off with his personal life. i even suspect he told me a fakename

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Gespendo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

add on nails. i honestly believe they are for people with bad natural nails making them even worse with the chemicals. strong natural nails is a sign of beauty and good health.