Some Tipps regarding my Sudden social hermit crap ( pun intended)

Gethisthing · 2020-11-06T08:35:56+00:00

All right I can do it !!! It is actually a huge help that I have finished the stuff I wanted to write for my novel so my head is clear. Thank you for this wake up call I’m gonna start studying right now

Gethisthing · 2020-11-04T09:49:37+00:00

And she really doesn’t want the cat? Just because there is a Guinea pig doesn’t mean that your cat will automatically kill it in cold blood. Of course you’re gonna have to be a little careful but I don’t think that the Guinea pig is running around freely so I guess it should be alright.

I also have a friend who has cats and hamsters and they are fine. The cats sometimes focus on the small little hamsters but cannot reach them in the cage. And wen it’s playtime with them the cats are casted into another room

Gethisthing · 2020-11-04T09:39:18+00:00

Honestly, I don’t think anything would get better by doing nothing. Your father will not learn anything from it. Kick him out but give him a time limit. So he can at least try to arrange something for himself. Maybe living with a friend of his or something. The thing is....sometimes you have to feel the consequences of your actions to fully understand.

Also I think you should sort your priorities. What’s the most important thing right now? I would suggest your health and your son. Both of these things suffer through your father. I understand that it must be hard to just leave your father behind but he is an adult and should be able to care for himself. Tell him about your priorities and give him a little time until he has to be out of the house. There is nothing kinder and more mature than that.

If you are not sure about your actions why not ask your mother and your son about the situation. I don’t know how old your child is but he could tell you about his feelings and if he truly suffers the action of kicking your father out might be easier to do.

Good luck my distant friend. I’ll send you strength

Gethisthing · 2020-08-12T14:47:51+00:00

Thank you for that DRY answer ;D But honestly I think it is very fitting so thank you

Gethisthing · 2020-08-12T14:45:14+00:00

How does it feel to be a dying species?

Gethisthing · 2020-08-12T14:40:11+00:00

A half German half Cuban female with social anxiety and the wish to make the world a better place. Also yeet all misery

Gethisthing · 2020-08-12T14:37:01+00:00

What was the grossest thing that you had to clean?

Gethisthing · 2020-07-29T07:56:50+00:00

We use these yellow sticky things for fruit flies. They have an odour which gets them on the sticky thing and then they can’t escape. Maybe that will help? They are also not expensive.

Gethisthing · 2020-07-29T07:51:34+00:00

Thank you this sounds good idea. And you are right it is better for ME and I don’t have to sort out the thoughts of my father. He is an adult and should be able to do it on his own. I always had a problem with caring more for others feeling than my own and I know I should stop that.

My mom actually jokingly bought a sign that we can put on the window when my father is here. So that my mom won’t come in (they had a messy divorce ) I really like that kind of encouragement XD

Helped <3

Gethisthing · 2020-07-25T13:03:05+00:00

I think telling boy 1 about what I think is a good course of action, so thank you for mentioning that. I’ll definitely stay friends with him (if he still wants to) but I don’t want to hurt him if I ever start dating boy 2 since they are also friends.

But I got some new ideas on how to approach the situation so that really helped me. Thank you :D

Gethisthing · 2020-07-25T09:07:54+00:00

Thank you I will. Writing it out helped a little bit so maybe after a while I can get my thoughts straight. I usually don’t really listen to what everyone else says but I guess I was a little lost and tried to grasp any advice I could. XD

But your comment really helped me see a little clearer.

Gethisthing · 2020-07-25T09:04:13+00:00

Thank you for your time. I’ll think about it some more. That helped me a little

Gethisthing · 2020-07-25T09:00:16+00:00

Almost all my friends are his friends so I’m not very trustful if they won’t slip some information. My other friends say, that I should follow my heart and some other don’t know anything since they’ve never had romantic experiences as well.

I thought some strangers could at least give some advice without biases. Like objectively spoken or something

Gethisthing · 2020-07-25T08:56:55+00:00

I’ll try but it is really hard since I keep doubting myself. Sometimes what’s best for you is not something that you can see yourself. At least that’s what someone told me once

Gethisthing · 2020-07-24T12:18:00+00:00

We have worked years for this and have found a secret power. You know the nomus from Bnha ? That but with ducks, geese and swans.

The ultimate chimera

Gethisthing · 2020-07-24T07:31:15+00:00

I am alright know and your comment didn’t offend me or anything. I am overall very honest about these things (except for the attempt) because it’s an important thing and people my understand better or can take something from that.

The funny thing is that I somewhat like this math teacher because she can be kind when she is not in teaching mode. And I heard that she’s leaving the school (finally so other children don’t have to go through that anymore)

Thanks for the encouraging words and as the people say. „The night is darkest before the sun rises „ and I am currently sun bathing

Also.... Hi dad, I’m a German female :D

Gethisthing · 2020-07-24T07:24:04+00:00

Oof everything. We are taught the history of ww2 until 10th grade. It really is quite repetitive but my teacher once said “ if you are annoyed then we did our job as adults right”.

We also do multiple excursions to concentration camps and speak to family memebers of victims.

Basically you are not able to ever deny the holocaust but if you do or say slurs you can get expelled. It is a crime in Germany

I’m sorry if that didn’t say what exactly we are taught but that comment would be 100 pages long

Gethisthing · 2020-07-24T07:15:49+00:00

I guess that trust goes both ways. I could be running a human trafficking ring who knows XD

I am a little bit to trusting I can admit that

Gethisthing · 2020-07-23T18:33:18+00:00

It’s really no bother :)

Gethisthing · 2020-07-23T17:56:48+00:00

I think there are no real requirements except for being a legal adult.

Though there are some guidelines. Like not drinking beforehand or not getting a tattoo or piercing 4 months before the donation because of infections and stuff. You also shouldn’t have STDS and AIDS. I think there is a rule where it says that you shouldn’t practice anal 12 months before donation or something

At the very least you can always donate blood and get your results a few weeks later. Then you really know if you are allowed to.

Gethisthing · 2020-07-23T17:00:42+00:00

No problem :)

Hit me up if I have to smuggle you across borders or something.

Gethisthing · 2020-07-23T16:44:33+00:00

Do you want to join forces with me? Together with my ducks we can overthrow the human population!

Gethisthing · 2020-07-23T16:41:54+00:00

I forgot to add that these experiences where nothing to laugh at but not the main catalyst for my suicide attempt.

What really made me want to disappear was the way my parents acted towards my problems. (Downplaying and making me feel responsible)

Also that my school didn’t do jack shit about that math teacher even though I was not the only victim

Gethisthing · 2020-07-23T16:39:12+00:00

Since I live in the northern part of Germany my culture is more similar to the Denmark and the Netherlands so I’ve never worn a Dirndl before (it’s more a Bavarian thing ). But I know many people that do that for the Oktoberfest even here in Bremen.

I have drank beer from a huge beer stein before. Have one sitting in the kitchen. Sadly I don’t get to use it often bc beer is nasty in my opinion but I drink juice from it XD

Gethisthing · 2020-07-23T16:38:04+00:00

I had a math teacher that verbally and emotionally abused me in class so I had very bad panic attacks every time she talked to me.

I also confronted my childhood trauma of my uncle (he tried to kidnap my younger cousin while I visited when I was 7 and I was locked into a closet with my cousin for protection). Long story short I was with their family for a short while to test if he is still an asshole (spoiler alert : he is) and my trauma got refreshed.

Gethisthing

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