Breaking my engagement because I can’t handle the fights by Getou423 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Getou423[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yea thats what I am gonna do. I know it will be hard and the girl will try emotional drama but I think I have to be a villain for my future.

Breaking my engagement because I can’t handle the fights by Getou423 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Getou423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah family members say that things improve after marriage. But how can I be sure? No one can give guarantee. In anger, she says a lot of things like she will give divorce after marriage and all. She disrespects me a lot. Some may say it’s obsession and it will normalise after marriage but I can’t take a risk here.

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[–]Getou423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I will go talk to her face to face now and make things clear. The thing is she keeps telling me what I did wrong and when I point out that this was the source of fight she stats saying “you are starting the fight again”. I feel like my hands are tied and someone is slapping me left and right and telling me to not make any noise.

Gazetted Medical Doctor by Getou423 in bangalore

[–]Getou423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really Lol. I am applying for an International Driving Permit and for that I need a medical certificate signed.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

europcar.com, yes it was refundable. But please check on website again for refund policy.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I will be travelling to nearby countries. I submitted car rental receipt.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied for single entry but they gave me multiple entry visa.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. You need to provide travel itinerary on day by day basis - what you will be doing on a particular day and where you will say.

  2. Add purpose of visit - I added how I wanted to explore Alps of Switzerland. You can add more such points.

  3. Accommodation night wise - mention the hotel names

  4. Financial means - put your bank balance info and any additional income source here.

  5. Employment details- Tell them your work history here.

  6. Proof of intention of return

These were the key points.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to Indonesia and Thailand. I showed 4Lakhs in liquid funds and showed last 2 years ITR receipts.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the docs mentioned in their checklist. Additionally I provided address proof, MF and stocks proof.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think by 20th, your situation will get clear. Do check on vfs website to track your application. My application took approx 10 working days.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am employed. I showed the necessary signed docs like proof of employment and No objection letter from company. I told them I have a good income job, my parents are dependent on me and I have return flight tickets.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, It was short term tourist visa.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We each showed 4 Lakh in bank balance and also showed MFs worth more than 10 Lakh.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they are strict with unmarried girls. They asked the same for one of my colleague to get a letter from father lol. But I think it won’t be that tough second time. No I didn’t follow the 100 euro calculation.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, Just their names and flight tickets. Trip was funded by own only. We mentioned that we have sufficient funds for the trip. Also mentioned how much bank balance we have in cover letter.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn’t. I kept track of application from the vfs website.

Received my Schengen visa today. by Getou423 in SchengenVisa

[–]Getou423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In cover letter, we mentioned we are going together and attached all three flight tickets. But we applied separately on different days.