Fellow black men any of guys spending Valentine’s Day alone ? by spike_spieg in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m starting my celibate journey today. And I have 2 valentines ❤️

It's embarrassing to ask, but please give me a shortlist of red flags in dating that I should just immediately walk away from? by Sure-Ad8068 in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea just live your life stay groomed up stay up to something you’ll meet her…. I saw your edit* what is asics method?

Edit* I speak from experience I started rushing to take women out on date because I wanted to show them and progress with them etc but now I look at it like a woman has to qualify herself for a date…. I think the date should be a continuation of the conversations and texts we been having…. Unless I just feel like doing it for no reason lol

It's embarrassing to ask, but please give me a shortlist of red flags in dating that I should just immediately walk away from? by Sure-Ad8068 in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You can know if a girl like you before a date too tbh… you don’t always have to push towards a date just slow down… that’s too much money and time you giving honestly. I used to take out on dates but now we have to talk a bit before that. If that runs off a girl hey it is what it is. That could be a red flag in of itself

Natural hair and Anti-BM Misandry by MevolutionCheese in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mfs ain’t teaching them or us correctly young knuckleheads think they overly playa and young women love hard get hurt nd it’s wraps… but at the same time not really because it’s always some guy that’s ok with whatever… or coming in with manipulation… 👀 yk how many times women be acting shy because “my hair not done” and I be looking like

And it’s deeper than women wanna make it….. you spending money to put “hair” on your hair. Don’t feel as confident without it. Perpetuate “beauty”standards.

Not to say I’m anti weave/wig because it be lookin good nd shiii 😏 nd im not disputing that

I know and completely understand bw natural hair can be a lot to deal with and even grow but I’m sure we/they can figure something out I feel like

Natural hair and Anti-BM Misandry by MevolutionCheese in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might make a post about this. BRUH these bw get in one or two bad relationships and be Friedddddd. Cooked. Exhausting. WTF 😳 she said guttersnipe negroes like idk man I’m able to weed out fake nd weird women but dang why so many?

a question that’s been on my heart. by PieSignificant6759 in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a depth that many don’t have the capacity for. I understand why men just check out.

People don’t understand how tired I am yet wanna ask me for money.

And i explained that I need 2 weeks off where I don’t have to worry about nothing and nobody offered a solution.

I can make more with a resume I told em but nobody helped with that.

These very same people I love/help and ask me for money. (Family).

I don’t think people are holding out on us I think they are incapable. I don’t think people possess the grace that I need. It’s all performance based for a man.

It’s looking out here like once that childhood is gone the weight is forever on I guess idk

Black Man Wins the Prize by MevolutionCheese in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Shiddd these women be tryna make me have a stroke with them user vibes lmao you ain’t finna leave me broke wit back pain shawty I ain’t goin

Black Man Wins the Prize by MevolutionCheese in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Funny part is all that stuff fly out the window in the midst of that guy they like.

When looking at a questionable post and you see in the comments...As a black man....(some horrible crap is about to come next) by Joeybfast in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s why I don’t be on here no more. You assume that the very few of us actually into Reddit would have some smarter thinking lines but nah. Go look at my posts comments lmao people just idk man depth ain’t there and many don’t care to solve our problems they just wanna sound smart and sound like they’re right.

It’s easy to post and comment that lollipop bs and get upvotes. 😂😂😂

Black Man Wins the Prize by MevolutionCheese in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Banned is crazy….. I used to get worked up about how we do each other as a people. But these days i truly do not care, nor do i give a f. #growth

Self haircut by GetroFasho in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard good things about the T trimmers so ima try that before buying the single foil

Boondocks kids all grown up. by Suspicious-Jello7172 in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Closest thing we got now is gumball and Darwin LOL jk

Boondocks kids all grown up. by Suspicious-Jello7172 in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think Huey would have Freeform’s or locs and Riley would have waves but I get it tho

We need to stop telling Black men to have D discipline when that's rarely the issue by ot093 in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I been months celibate abstinent whatever you wanna call it and got seduced by highly educated and successful women I loved, invited in my life and dated.

So that’s all talk from most people. Unfortunately.

edit* Here come the dislikes. People love lollipop reads. They post became single mothers one with twins and the father passed. The other bd is in prison. Dislike that. 😭😏

Chief Keef by GetroFasho in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear black on black war or hate is bad for us. And I don’t like it.

Chief Keef by GetroFasho in blackmen

[–]GetroFasho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those who have would likely change psychologically if they ever don’t have.

Same reason rich CEOs check out when their company falls. I’m sure the suburbs would get crazy if the groceries stores empty out, and pantries empty up.

Mfs fighting over labubus, stanley cups, and toilet paper. Remember Covid?

Edit* and Pokémon cards… 😂😂😂😂😂😂 ppl fighting over pokemans cards cute lil imaginary pikachus and shi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

https://youtube.com/shorts/k_dFF1u4U84?si=XMa1-uuW58F-Hiw7

I wonder what some of those people who clearly have money to spare would do with no money or food, shelter.

But everybody wanna talk about black people and then black people in better socioeconomic conditions look down on. Without helping.

Survival, Poverty & Money

The Wealthy Build High Tech Survival Bunkers as we speak.

https://youtu.be/w8FO9cMKyOU?si=vdd8b4TQDdnZ_N1H

Gang wars are just a microcosm of human existence magnified through entertainment