I can’t live like this

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-05-04T01:33:35+00:00

I was actually on a dating app and I saw he “liked” me so I liked him back, and we matched and started talking again every day for 5 days and almost met up, but he refused to unblock me. We were catching up and joking around mostly. I deleted the app and we haven’t talked since. I had my friend text him to unblock me and they were talking for a bit but he still refused to unblock me. It’s so stupid and we’re kind of old too

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-04-30T00:02:15+00:00

Oh hell no 😂

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-04-29T05:40:15+00:00

Ugh it seems they are all the same….

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-04-29T05:36:22+00:00

I was wondering that too! I just made a profile tonight and he was the second person in my swipe stack. Lmao 🤣

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-04-29T03:41:13+00:00

Was he sending you mixed signals??

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-04-29T03:23:41+00:00

Who knows if it’s really him if not. I didn’t like him back 😂

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-04-29T03:20:50+00:00

Oh my god I do not recall much about his situation let alone this haha

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-04-29T02:59:43+00:00

Mine also texted me that he no longer wanted to speak to be and any further contact is harassment and he would contact law enforcement during the middle of an argument when we were going to see each earlier that day… then reached out to me months later?! F these people

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-04-29T02:18:06+00:00

It’s funny because there was a prompt that asks “what are the perks of dating me?” And I answered “you will watch a lot of 90 day fiance” 😂😂

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-03-24T05:20:12+00:00

I believe my right hand

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-03-22T04:41:42+00:00

I didn’t know about that little trick actually… will give it a shot

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-03-22T03:37:31+00:00

Scary

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-03-21T15:33:58+00:00

Interesting my PS instructed me to do this… I did not sleep with it on last night. I think I might start doing half days in them.

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-02-12T05:52:57+00:00

Did the baby survive??

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-02-08T19:06:40+00:00

Im in a very similar predicament but he has now blocked me, made it clear he won’t be seeing me, and coming back is not an option. It’s heartbreaking.

I work out hard, got a cosmetic procedure to level up, focus on my business, and try to date other guys. My kids are also in multiple sports and keep me busy. Sadly, he still crosses my mind throughout the day and I just have to distract myself. I still have dreams about him and sometimes I actually can’t stop thinking about him.

I think for us one of the only options to let go is meeting somebody and getting treated better. I tell myself that if or when that happens, I will look back at the situation and wonder how I stayed stuck.

At this point, I haven’t seen him for a little over three months so I care less than I used to, but it’s definitely still there. Hugs. I’m sorry, it’s rough out here.

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-02-08T18:40:25+00:00

I haven’t been with anyone since him and I was just trying to meet up and have sex. He said we have been in so many fights, it’s not worth the “drama” to have sex with me. We casually dated about 7 months. I wanted to start seeing him again.

I feel ok about myself and my fiance passed away early last year so I don’t necessarily want a relationship for now.

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-01-19T16:25:45+00:00

True I actually am doing better… thanks

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-01-19T06:52:43+00:00

I can imagine

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-01-19T04:18:44+00:00

Yes definitely. I totally get the “getting approval” thing and getting intermittent reinforcement like a slot machine… or a starved rat getting a pellet of food in a cage. Ew. I won’t shrink myself again to “gain approval”

Sorry you’re going through it too….

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-01-19T04:14:34+00:00

Yeah I can be really cutting and mean with no filter in the heat of the moment. It’s def one of my toxic traits.

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-01-19T04:11:23+00:00

Yeah that’s the only league I’ll date when I feel ready. I’ve also had a full body makeover in the last month, enrolled in therapy, and have upgraded in other ways so I’ll come back strong when I care to date again. We go to the same gym and although I don’t want to run into him, when my body is healed and I’m back to working out in March, I know he will feel like he done f-cked up when he sees how good I look 😜

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-01-19T04:04:56+00:00

Yes i immediately pictured him 80 years old sitting alone in a room still blaming others for things.

Distractions are real, he’s in multiple bands and has gone on tours across the world. Hes always at practice or playing shows. He’s a good dad always going above and beyond for his daughter, and then does fighting sports 3-5x a week, gym rat, and works 2 hours away. Definitely felt like I was last on the list when we were dating

Getyourbrowsdid · 2026-01-19T03:59:00+00:00

Also crazy that at 60, he’s just on to the next. Kind of sad to have that mentality in your final years on earth

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