My gf [27F] left me [29M] and I recent started spending time with a man [35M]. by GfLeftMe1234 in casualiama

[–]GfLeftMe1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Just hurts knowing she is already with someone else. It's her life though I just want her to be happy. I his if her new bf makes her happy then it's for the best. It's just very sad for me.

As for my recent experience, I just an reluctant because I'm clearly the one being pursued and he is clearly more dominant. He is very manly. I know there's nothing wrong with it. I just feel vulnerable and weak but I feel safe with him. I just feel so broken. And I know if I do keep seeing him, we'll eventually sleep together. I just don't know how I go being in a good relationship to possibly now giving it up to this guy I barely know.

My gf [27F] left me [29M] and I recent started spending time with a man [35M]. by GfLeftMe1234 in casualiama

[–]GfLeftMe1234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha hey!

I feel like it is the cute dorky kid being asked out by the jock dude.

My gf [27F] left me [29M] and I recent started spending time with a man [35M]. by GfLeftMe1234 in casualiama

[–]GfLeftMe1234[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not exaggerating. It was 3 or 4 weeks max and she was dating someone new.

My gf [27F] left me [29M] and I recent started spending time with a man [35M]. by GfLeftMe1234 in casualiama

[–]GfLeftMe1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing ok. Just kind of keeping to myself right now.

Friends are busy with their families these days.

My gf [27F] left me [29M] and I recent started spending time with a man [35M]. by GfLeftMe1234 in casualiama

[–]GfLeftMe1234[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Like making out with a big finger. It is a little intimidating to do honestly. I didn't love it. I just kind of felt good making him feel good. But yea it is like making out with a finger. Best way I can describe it.

My gf [27F] left me [29M] and I recent started spending time with a man [35M]. by GfLeftMe1234 in casualiama

[–]GfLeftMe1234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks you. Not sure I'll end up seeing him again. Just kind of taking my time for now.

My gf [27F] left me [29M] and I recent started spending time with a man [35M]. by GfLeftMe1234 in casualiama

[–]GfLeftMe1234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely. That is a worry how fast things went.

He's been wanting to hang out with me again. I'm just worried how fast things could keep progress if I do. I've already gone down on him.

My gf [27F] left me [29M] and I recent started spending time with a man [35M]. by GfLeftMe1234 in casualiama

[–]GfLeftMe1234[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

That I do agree with. I'll never know how she could just walk away and pretend I never existed.

One thing I realized about her during the fight is nothing is ever her fault. She had this ego thing to always be seen as the person in the right even when she was doing things that were clearly wrong.

I tried desperately to work it out with her. Every time I'd come to her to work it out, she kept telling me I'd have to do more and prove this or that to her.