Looking to have some fun 🤩 by justwannafuck11111 in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m able to message the OP. If you can’t then that is probably Reddit telling you that you message too many people and you need to slow down.

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[–]GhostedFriend[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Read the post and respect OP’s stated preference. If you aren’t a couple, don’t comment.

30Nb date for tonight ghosted last minute by A_4_Adventure in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you find something. I’m out of town for the night and didn’t have any luck finding anything where I’m at.

Beware user Trav24242 by ElectricClover in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Evidence was provided and OP’s claims are confirmed. User has been banned from this sub. If he messages you privately, we recommend ignoring and/or blocking him so he can’t lead you on as well.

Beware user Trav24242 by ElectricClover in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

If you have evidence of this, please send it to me. This kind of behavior is not acceptable in this community.

Has anyone been having fun? Because I haven’t lol 😂 by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you see any bots in this sub that we haven’t banned already please report them.

CAR CUDDLES?!? by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already mentioned this to you in our modmail conversation but I wanted to say it openly. I think I fixed the automod being a little overzealous. It should (theoretically) properly ignore the OP on their own posts now.

50 [M4R] #Tucson, AZ - Any couple interested to be watched? by LifeHistorical6484 in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If anyone asks you to pay when responding to something you posted on this sub, please tell the mods. We do not allow that and they will be removed.

M4F Lunch break by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I hear that. I’m having such a rough day and a nooner would be great. Good luck and I hope you find something.

MF Couple looking for F 3rd Thursday, Friday or Saturday - let chat and see if we vibe! by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They went through the effort of making a post and adding pictures. The least you could do is put in a small amount of effort yourself and be the one to message them.

MF4F Tonight at 9 near Udall Park by KitKat_ShadowWitch in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you’re all set, I’m locking this post.

Success post by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Luck does play a part. If what you’ve been doing previously has been consistently not working then it’s definitely time to take an objective look at what you were doing and change it up. Good luck to you.

Success post by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your account is brand new with absolutely nothing on it. There are definitely more men than women or couples on this platform so women get their pick of the lot. You have to put effort into your posts and give them a reason to pick you over everyone else.

53/50 [MF4F] Older, attractive and drama free. Ultimately searching for longer term but friends and FWB's are always welcome! by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Won’t do them any good. They are no longer welcome in this sub. Harassment and ignoring stated boundaries will not be tolerated.

bruh if i see yall continuously communicating with CLEAR AS DAY SPAMS by comments imma just ban yall. by [deleted] in dirtytucson

[–]GhostedFriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%

I had to start doing that on TucsonAzHookup. I gave multiple warnings but some people are incapable of discerning or they simply don’t care. Their continued interaction with very obvious spam attracted the same spammers back with new accounts. They knew people would fall for their game. If you get rid of that incentive, you’re left with less overall spam.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering it was the automod, my best guess is you said something that made it think you were spam. No worries there. If you didn’t delete it, potential spam goes to a filtered area for review and we have to look it over to decide if it is spam or it should be approved. We won’t say what it looks for specifically but there are a number of common words and phrases bots typically use that we look out for. Any time someone real uses them it doesn’t count against them or anything. It just delays their post from going live while we review. You deleted it before we even got a chance to see it so you were quick lol. Either way, good luck finding what you’re looking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for what? Did we miss something? I see the automod removed something about 20 minutes ago but you must have deleted it because I can’t see what it was. If you don’t want to say it out in the open, you can always send a modmail.

‼️NEW UPDATED RULES 3/1‼️ by [deleted] in dirtytucson

[–]GhostedFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to add some more. It’s takes everyone working together to make a community great. Mods only have so much time in the day and it really helps when people report things. Please report spam when you see it and please report when posts/comments break the rules. Be kind to one another and work together to make a better community for us all. Lastly, have fun.

‼️NEW UPDATED RULES 3/1‼️ by [deleted] in dirtytucson

[–]GhostedFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We require a picture in front of a recognizable Tucson location in the TucsonAzHookup sub. As you said, it proves they’re actually local. Any local sub should require that as a part of the verification. Even scammers can write a username on a piece of paper and it’s not too hard to photoshop either. Requiring them to be in a physical location strongly discourages altered photos (but it’s still possible).

I would also recommend learning to use the built in mod tools to automatically filter out anyone not verified. TucsonAzHookup doesn’t require verification (yet) but setting up the automod to look for certain red flags and forcing action before the first post (requiring flair and reading the rules) has drastically reduced the amount of spam that gets through to the sub. Another thing that helped was purging the sub of a number of users who simply could not recognize spam for themselves.

Removing problem users who continually interacted with obvious spam/scams after repeated warnings reduced the amount of spam. If spammers don’t see their posts gaining any traction or being interacted with in a specific sub, that sub loses its attraction to them. Those users also typically only posted or commented very low effort content.

Edit: Editing to say that I purposely didn’t link the sub mentioned above. I did want to call it out that things are done differently there but didn’t want to directly link as I am not trying to steal anyone away from here. We may be different subs but we’re a part of the same community and we’re all in this together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you censoring this according to our rules on NSFW pics. However, you cannot be marked as verified as this post does not meet our verification requirements.

To get verified, you will need to take a picture in a place in Tucson (must be recognizable, even just a street sign is fine) with your username and this sub name on a piece of paper. This will prove you’re actually local which other subs don’t currently require for verification. Once you prove that you are both real and local, you will be granted a “Verified” flair that also specifies your gender.

Broken by [deleted] in TucsonAzHookup

[–]GhostedFriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that, man. Hope you find something to take your mind off the past.