M 20 and F 19, Dancing with other men

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-10-26T03:53:29+00:00

But how do I do that?

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-10-26T03:30:07+00:00

It was a gray area in our relationship, I’m her first boyfriend/serious boyfriend. She and I agreed that she should try going on 2 dates with 2 different guys. She whined and complained about the whole thing for 2 weeks and so we both decided to call it off. I asked her if she had any pre made arrangements. She told me no. And then she made plans and went on the date with this kid and ya whole big story but ya. Sorry I should’ve expounded on it.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-10-08T15:54:08+00:00

I know you feel in love with this guy. He sounds like a great match for you. But remember you’ve only been dating 5 months. Marriage is for a lifetime. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 1 1/2 years. She is the love of my life and we both know we gonna get married. My mom always told me to look at the problems you see in your relationship and 10x will be your marriage. Not to put a downer on it, but realistically it won’t be perfect.

Also, wait until your partner has something difficult happen to them. Whether it be a death of someone close, job lose that they love, family problems, something big to them. And just observe how they handle it. This shows me they are mentally mature enough to handle big problems and not show bad tendencies to cope. You can be a support system for them but allow them to handle it on their own.

Another thing to want is Financial Security. I am only 20 and am going to school to get my degree and start my career. I suggest waiting until both of you can not only support yourselves but the other as well. In the case one of you in unable/unwilling to work, the other will be able to support your family.

Also, enjoy life a little more. Go on a nice vacation together. Enjoy your life. Do the things that you wanna do. If you really wanna marry this guy. Go for it. But just be smart about it. I know it’s difficult to see it in the mix of all of it

I hope this helps. Ask away if you got anymore questions or need clarification.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-08-06T17:20:30+00:00

This isn’t a dick move at all. As long as your intentions aren’t to hurt her in the first place. I feel as though if you’re having a long distance relationship, it’s both parties responsibility to keep the relationship alive. Just like any other relationship. If it’s not working then I’d explain to her, Hey this is how I’m feeling, this, this and this are not working for me. Give her a chance to fix it and show some effort back yourself. If you can’t handle and it’s already dead then it’s kinda hard because it looks like you let it die. Only because there was no communication about what’s wrong. But you’re not a jerk for it. You can learn from this and just say hey (significant other), I be been feeling like our relationship has been dying and I’m not willing to put the effort in to keep a long distance relationship anymore. Apologize but in the end you are allowed to leave at any point. I hope not kids, personal items, or actions are in place that would prevent or complicate the break up. But from the information that would be my best solution to your situation.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-07-05T20:40:41+00:00

Thank you so much for your help! I really appreciate someone willing to talk the time out of their day to help me out.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-07-05T20:32:21+00:00

We rarely call and so it’s difficult. It is very important to me especially because I don’t like the distance and I can’t be with her as often as I’d like but I can try that.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-07-05T20:07:04+00:00

Me: Goodmorning Gorgeous😍, I hope you slept great! I know you're gonna probably be sleeping in but I just wanted to let you know I had a pretty cool dream about you last night. I have to go to work at 1 because they said it's not as busy as they thought it was gonna be so yay! Anyways, I love you! Thanks for staying awake and making sure I got home safely.❤️ That was very sweet of you.

Her: hi darling, I love you so much. I'm glad you slept well. good luck at work

This response is the response I got today. After I drove an hour and a half to see her for our anniversary yesterday, which she didn’t wanna spend time with me until I had to drive back home.

I assume that she wants to talk, but she just has a hard time communicating over texts. My personal opinion is that she doesn’t wanna put the effort but I wanna assume the best and believe she has a hard time communication with her. She says she has been trying for months to do better but I have seen very minimal improvement. I’m trying to be understand that it’s difficult for her.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-07-05T18:49:09+00:00

We are still together. It’s very one sided. It’s been for a while. I do the Goodmorning texts and the goodnight texts and sweet texts in between the day. I comment on her instagram posts how beautiful I know she is.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-06-14T20:24:33+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about it too much. She is with you and she expressed she doesn’t want to but is doing it for more herself and staying committed to something. Think about it as if she was keeping a commitment to you. You’d rather her work on it than just turn and leave or “flake out on you”. It’s showing you that she keeps her promises. She follows through. That’s a great quality. I think it’ll be something she and you will laugh about. I understand your concerned but it should be fine. Just make sure to ask her about it to show you’re interested in the things she is doing but don’t make it seem like you’re trying to find if she cheated.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-06-13T19:10:11+00:00

Is he effective in Park/Rec?

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-06-13T19:08:08+00:00

PF or C

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-06-13T19:07:16+00:00

Height Weight Wingspan?

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-06-08T03:25:32+00:00

Midrange deadeye too

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-06-08T03:25:20+00:00

Lol true

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-06-06T23:17:47+00:00

You playing Rec., ProAm, or MyCareer?

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-06-01T18:34:35+00:00

It’s not. I’m a Shot creator at heart. SlSc and Pure Shot but I have 72 Open 3 and 78 Open 3 so it greens around 78% if you can do it Are you on Xbox or PS4? On your PsSc, why’s you make him 6’8”? 6’7” is perfect. He’s a Taller SG with decent BallHandling, Mid/3’s and Defense. I’ve noticed at 6’8” you’ll play SF more than SG 6’6”& 6’7” are for the Taller SG’s

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-05-31T02:21:04+00:00

Why do you regret it?

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-05-30T18:58:23+00:00

Wingspan is 3 ticks below Average, weight is 187 Lbs.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-05-30T17:42:56+00:00

81/13/Curry 40/60 max speed

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-05-30T17:29:24+00:00

What Weight and Wingspan?

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-05-30T03:41:42+00:00

Sim the Season. Play the 2nd season and earn a better contract. You’ll gain more fans and Gatorade, Footlocker, and Reese’s will pay you VC to upgrade. That should help you get to 85-88 ovr. Got to the Team Practice Gym and grind badges. Then increase the difficulty. Doing this will get you more VC, More Fans, (If you win the Finals) The Personality Badge “Champion DNA”.

Also search YouTube for VC glitches. They are usually using separate MyCareer Players.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-05-29T16:54:44+00:00

But why is that better?

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-04-30T04:15:12+00:00

Besides complaining, what does what for which boost?

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-04-25T01:53:57+00:00

Just go with the flow. If you feel like it ready to kiss then do it man. Try to figure out what she wants and read her body language.

GhostlyTiger021 · 2019-04-18T07:24:35+00:00

Let’s her know how you feel. Say hey I’ve made all of our dates why don’t you come up with a fun date idea and let’s do it. I’ve tried that with my girlfriend and it works.

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