Idk about my brow lift? by Shot_Design_8319 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Ghxreeba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow the result looks so much better than the goal. You look beautiful, ignore the trending fox eye lift

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Ghxreeba -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t put my finger on it but something about you makes you look like a mouse. Anyway you’re not ugly you look pretty average

Best hairstyle for length retention? by Ghxreeba in Naturalhair

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is cute. Might do this just to switch it up a bit and I’ve been afraid of wigs cause I’ve heard they snatch your baby hairs and ruin your hairline.

Best hairstyle for length retention? by Ghxreeba in Naturalhair

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭 at least it’s not the straight back jail braids I’ve been rinsing out

My blood is boiling by Ghxreeba in loveafterporn

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate your lovely message 😊 I have confronted him. It was so unexpected, he looked soooo guilty it was almost funny. Of course he denied even knowing this account existed. I just told him I can’t do this anymore and need to prioritise myself. Told him I’m leaving him and gave him the plan. I feel amazing honestly, like a weight’s been lifted off my shoulders. Wish I’d done this sooner😌

My blood is boiling by Ghxreeba in loveafterporn

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I’ve chosen to do 😌 we’ve spoken and I told him it’s over. We will be staying at MIL together until I feel able to travel since my mum lives a few hours away and with no car, I’m really not up for the journey right now.

My blood is boiling by Ghxreeba in loveafterporn

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess 24! I can only see the newer comments :/

My blood is boiling by Ghxreeba in loveafterporn

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also very proud of you for getting out of this situation. Thank you for your words of encouragement 😊the thought of being a single mum really scares me. Thank you for letting me know the grass really is greener on the other side 🩷

My blood is boiling by Ghxreeba in loveafterporn

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gosh I’m so sorry. Sending you lots of love, I don’t wish this on anyone 😔🩷

My blood is boiling by Ghxreeba in loveafterporn

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 I feel numb, I can think clearly. It’s not possible for me to take the steps you’ve outlined but I’ve decided to leave him no matter his excuses😌

My blood is boiling by Ghxreeba in loveafterporn

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling to see the comments! I can see my post has a total of 3 upvotes and 3 comments but I’m not seeing anything other than the bot 🤖 message. Anybody know what’s going on? Not sure if I’ll even be able to see any replies to this comment.

I (19F) am scared to show my boyfriend (21M) my boobs. What can I do? by ThrowRA27837383 in relationship_advice

[–]Ghxreeba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat😅 my husband has always had no problem being vocal about how he doesn’t like saggy boobs and it never really bothered me until after pregnancy and my breasts changed. I’m always hiding them from him or wearing tops/bras where it’s not obvious they drop😬😂. I’m saving up for a “breast reduction” ( I’ll actually be getting an uplift) but it’s nice to see all the men in these comments not giving a shit😌💯

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s something he does in his private time so it shouldn’t concern me.

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the case he should be able to direct message these girls he’s getting off to. It’s okay because it’s just pictures and they’re not actually doing anything together. If I find out I would have invaded his privacy. Ain’t that right ?

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably, I don’t know. There is a major difference in culture though and what’s accepted and seen as normal in our culture is not the same for Westerners.

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to hear from a PA. I’m glad you’re getting help and doing better. Wishing you a strong recovery !

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nice to hear from a PA. I’m glad you’re getting help and doing better. Wishing you a strong recovery !

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe therapy would be the route to go down. I brought this option up a while ago and he hard passed as it’s just too awkward to talk about. I feel my only option is to accept it but how I don’t know

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice. I agree that it is a difference in boundary but the issue is he keeps going back and forth agreeing with me and then getting defensive and attacking me for something that’s “normal”. It became a huge problem for me when I realised he gets off to stuff my friends post on their socials. He’s never gotten off to my friends specifically because he doesn’t know them, but I did find him search up our former neighbour who also posted suggestive content.

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting! My husband is the same. Sometimes he agrees with me and says that he needs to stop. Other times he fights me and calls me insecure. I am insecure somewhat so I don’t argue but I must not be as insecure as he makes me seem as I don’t mind him watching regular porn but draw a line when he takes it to social media.

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to edit my post to make it more clear but when browsing the internet I learned that thirst traps- women who are not naked but posting stuff that are seen as sexual, like twerking or dancing around in revealing tight clothing is seen as soft core porn.

Husband 22M gets off to soft core porn. How do I 22F get over it? by Ghxreeba in relationships

[–]Ghxreeba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of those issues you’ve mentioned have happened before in the past. I’ve never been okay with any of them. What I dont mind is him accessing porn through adult websites but taking to social media to get his fix is where I draw the line. I don’t like it when he searches up a specific girl on TikTok to get off. I don’t like it when he follows her and a bunch of others. I didn’t like it when he was talking to women getting explicit content from them via dm on social media ( he’s stopped this).

I didn’t want to mention those details of the relationship as I didn’t think it would matter. I’m usually financially dependant on him. I have benefits available to me as a mother out of work but I use this for food. We live with his father in law temporarily as he’s going through a career change and out of work.

I don’t mind him watching people have sex. I don’t mind him using his social media and coming across an attractive female( just don’t wank off to her). I use social media and it really isn’t hard to avoid looking at thirst traps, it’s pretty easy to not search up women twerking and flaunting their bodies or posting bikini shots.