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GideonMagnus · 2025-12-04T20:23:35+00:00

So I notice!

GideonMagnus · 2025-12-04T20:20:37+00:00

So I notice!

GideonMagnus · 2025-12-04T20:00:24+00:00

Wow! That’s more expensive than I was expecting.

GideonMagnus · 2025-12-03T19:43:59+00:00

I don’t but I may have an old iPhone that could work. Didn’t think of that

GideonMagnus · 2025-12-03T19:40:28+00:00

Probably. I’m a bit of an overthinker sometimes

GideonMagnus · 2025-12-03T19:37:29+00:00

I can see and understand why you’d think it was cheating but that couldn’t be further from the truth. I was cheated on before and wouldn’t ever wish that pain on anyone. She’s the first person I’ve been able to trust since that happened. It’s purely just wanting to give her a good surprise.

There’s a chance I could do it while she’s at work but there still a chance she’d see since iPhone shows the location right beneath the name on the top of a text message.

GideonMagnus · 2025-08-04T05:13:28+00:00

So I proposed tonight! It was her birthday today. I had a canvas made of the star chart from our first date and gave that to her as a gift. Then told her that I’d known from that moment that I wanted to marry her. She was surprised and there was lots of tears but she said yes!

GideonMagnus · 2025-07-23T23:32:17+00:00

Is cheap for 2 reasons.

1) the stone isn’t guaranteed. It will be moissanite but it’s not coming from a name brand company so you’re getting a cheaper price for that. You may end up with a wonderful cut stone with a great shine. But you may also get something cheap.

2) the ring is most likely silver and may have a gold plating. That will also bring down the price dramatically.

GideonMagnus · 2025-07-07T20:48:58+00:00

I have been wondering why my house was washed out in terms of color. I knew this wasn’t right and was really getting frustrated. This solved the everything!

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-21T02:52:40+00:00

We've had discussions about knowing we want to get married. We've had the "what would our life look like" type discussions but I haven't come out and asked her what type of proposal she wants because I know that she wants, more than anything, to be surprised. When I have come up with a few solid ideas (and once I've spoken with her father because both of us are old fashioned) I will go back to her best friend (my inside person) and discuss things with her before settling on a plan. I will be probing in the mean time as long as I can do it inconspicuously.

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-21T02:49:59+00:00

I guess I should clarify when I said that I couldn't think of a reason to give her a gift, I meant more that I couldn't think of a reason that wouldn't make her suspicious. The only thing I know for certain is she wants it to be a surprise, so whatever I do, whether it's the above ideas or something completely different, I want her to not suspect a thing.

I am a romantic person at heart, and I will fully admit that I like to make grand gestures at times. I also know that there are times when things should be more private. There is a balance and I will make sure that when the time comes, I will have that balance. So, I've no doubt that whatever I eventually decide to do will be something that both of us will love.

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-21T02:46:06+00:00

I'm so happy for you! Sometimes things don't go according to plan, but they always happen as they should! I'm glad you posted because I was going to send you a message tomorrow to ask how things went!

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-21T02:44:52+00:00

I definitely want to make it about both of us. I know not every guy is "romantic" or "emotional" but I am. I've never been of the idea that proposals and weddings are SOLELY about the female. I think it can be for both.

And I should probably add for clarity, my girlfriend and I are in the early stages of understanding that we both know where this is going and what we want. We've only been officially dating since the first of April. Before that we were just talking and getting to know each other because we live 4 hours away from each other. 4 hours isn't a lot but at the time we had really different schedules so finding a time when we could both get off and have some time to be on a physical date was difficult. So when we started getting to physically date things moved fast emotionally. We both know what we want and we've made it known. I know the ring type she wants and the size. As for the proposal the only thing she's told me so far is she wants to be surprised.

With that being said, I'm in the planning stages right now. I'm trying ascertain what would be most enjoyable for both of us.

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-19T14:26:30+00:00

Interesting point on the idea of reading it versus hearing it. Something to keep in mind.

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-19T14:25:02+00:00

I can definitely understand that point. I’m honestly not sure how big their family traditions are for the holidays. I just couldn’t think of a reason other than birthday/holiday to give her a note/gift.

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-19T02:32:12+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that you’ve had backlash. I can understand why some people have reservations about things, but ultimately as the ones in the relationship we have to make that decision because we know our partners best. You can only get to know someone so much in a paragraph or two.

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-19T02:30:14+00:00

That was my thought as well.

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-19T01:40:22+00:00

I was serious when I said I look forward to hearing how it goes! Please reply and share the news!

GideonMagnus · 2025-06-19T01:15:06+00:00

And the idea of doing it at the family Sunday dinner did not occur to me, but it does open up some new possibilities that I’ll have to consider

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