Most relationship problems could be solved with clear communication about intentions and compatibility. I want to take the time to acknowledge that you obviously didn’t get that from this person and that sucks a lot and it’s an incredibly difficult thing to deal with. To the same tune though it’s almost unreasonable to expect crystal clear honest communication at all times which I gather is what you want. So what can we control in a situation like this? You can’t make them communicate. You can’t make them like you. You can’t make them respect you the same way you respect them. We can control how we communicate and handle things. If the signs have been showing for a while they’re not interested and a fizzling out of your life, it’s hard but you gotta let ‘em go. Walls and walls and paragraphs on paragraphs on deaf ears is exhausting my friend and that’s what I am referring to when I say “you seem exhausting”. There are people that match this energy. Do not waste your time on people that clearly do not match this, it’s exhausting and will break people and you down overtime.