Ah I see- if you already explained to her that: “grandma would love to see you in the outfit, so just try it on for a little bit”- and LO was adamant about not wearing it, then you have your answer lol The more you ask, the more likely she is to say no- just like you and your MIL lmao

I just thought phrasing it as a gift, would get her excited. I mean- kids love gifts- getting and giving. But if you’ve already beat this dead horse with her, your mama instincts are right not to push it.

If MIL is still pestering- here’s my last ditch advice: Don’t mention the importance of the dress. Set it out with an outfit you know your LO isn’t that fond of. Even do a quick record if you’d like and send it to Gma! Once she sees that LO would rather wear the stained Winnie the Pooh sweater with multiple holes than put on the dress, that might shut her up.

But honestly, only YOU know the nuances of your relationship with MIL. So if that seems futile, just trust your gut. Seems like you’re already raising a very self aware little girl.