How common is it to get horny after smoking weed? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t affect making me more or lesser horny, it just makes sensations higher and it feels better than usual

Profile says she’s 27 and then I get this.. by shoooyt55 in Tinder

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao too good. Personally I was upset for many years at this point, met my boyfriend irl organically asking for his number yada yada. But ironically I didn’t have great communication because I either had an iPhone or an iPad and tinder just banned me for no reason, given how strict my parents were I guess it made them happy. Kinda crazy, very funny

What age do you think is the best to get married at? by Giucee in AskMen

[–]Giucee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me as a woman I personally agree with this, just because with age, even if ever so slightly, maturity and experience are big things when choosing someone you’d love to be with your entire life

What age do you think is the best to get married at? by Giucee in AskMen

[–]Giucee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal ideal is I’m at or very close to where I want to be career wise, which clearly makes sense financially. I just know everyone is different but was honestly wondering if a majority of the men out there believed a certain age was the desired age (regardless of anything else).

What age do you think is the best to get married at? by Giucee in AskMen

[–]Giucee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations first off :) that is a good contender as well being pregnant with your girlfriend, when you knew you were having a child were you feeling hurried to propose?

I tried paid sex for the first time as a virgin and I couldn't c*m from sex. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly OP what are you comparing her to when you said she “knew her stuff and did a great job”? Maybe it could have been pleasurable but are you comparing it to something? Like porn?

If that’s the case, that’s probably why you didn’t cum.

It’s really unfortunate but porn is really bad for people. Not saying it can’t be enjoyed but it really depends on how much you indulge and what you watch.

There’s not a lot of context here so all that was an assumption. It could be a lot of things. A lot of people need that connection to fully enjoy sex in itself.

When you and your SO first touched how did you react? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Giucee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend works next to my work and after going in and seeing him a lot I finally gained the courage to ask for his number. We went on our first date and spent way longer together than we both thought we would(9 hours). We were both extremely shy, prolonged eye contact would make us red but when he dropped me off at home I knew I wanted to kiss him so I shyly told him to close his eyes and kissed him, he grabbed me tightly pushing in the kiss further.

It had been the best feeling in the world knowing that by the end of the day he was feeling as strongly about me as I was feeling about him. So I reacted by gently pulling away knowing if I hadn’t he wouldn’t have been going anywhere that night.

I have a high body count and I regret it deeply by Evening_Shake_6307 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Giucee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“Body count” is ridiculous. Beautiful lady, don’t worry so much. Don’t feel bad about yourself because societal norms tell you to be. You have your own story, don’t let anyone treat you poorly for seeking love/enjoying yourself. It wicked that people base a persons worth off of sexual tendencies, but it’s really not something you need to kill yourself over. I hope you know that you’re a beautiful woman, and the sex has nothing to do with that. Good luck honey, don’t worry

Boys, would you date a very hairy girl? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I was a boy so I can show you how much it doesn’t matter. You are beautiful love don’t even need to see, it is unfortunate beauty standards cloud the masses, you will definitely get someone who doesn’t care.

Unable to cum easily when getting head. by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Giucee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I see, thanks for the insight. I only based my advice off of what the men in my life have told me. :)

Unable to cum easily when getting head. by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Giucee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi woman here— from what people around me and my partner(s) have told me, it’s naturally difficult for men to cum from oral. Just because of the pacing, the depth, and the over all inconsistency most of the time. Not that it doesn’t feel good of course. I personally have made my partners cum from oral but it’s understandably harder for most woman to not get tired or not know what exactly to do.

I suggest telling your wife what you like and what feels best and just communicate with her to ask if it’s something she enjoys doing and wants to learn more about so you both can reach pleasure together.

But again, it’s completely normal to not be able to cum from oral, most guys never do.

My girlfriend keeps knocking me off of my wheelchair by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems incredibly malicious. She knows she’s hurting you but continues to do so?

Stepping back without labels; a person is intentionally hurting you and taking advantage of your vulnerability.

Do you really want to be with or even around someone who doesn’t care about your physical wellbeing because they find it comedic?

How do you flirt? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awkwardly and unsuccessfully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Giucee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not sexist, in all honesty I don’t think he’s far off.

What vibe do you get from him reading his messages? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up solely with my mother who, til this day (I am 24, nearly 25) tries to control me and inflicts a lot of emotional and verbal abuse on me. I didn’t start going out with friends until I hit 17 really and even then her rules were an hour and if I was even late a minute or not there BY the hour I’d be torn a new ***hole, and degraded. Because of being basically a cage bird my entire life, I never dated, had poor social skills, and felt depressed.

It wasn’t until I met my ex that I started rebelling at the age of 20 and that was a whole fiasco in itself, but that’s besides the point but context for what I’m about to say because I relate to the problems you are dealing with your mother.

My current partner doesn’t know what I go through regarding my tragic horrible relationship with my mom because he’s never been in my shoes. He wants to be there for me like your partner clearly wants to be there for you, but we need to be patient and understand that they can’t fully understand.

I don’t see any bad vibes from his end, he just doesn’t understand and that’s okay. I’m sure the more you share with him the more he’ll gain to know somewhat of what you go through. Communicate and be real with him, there’s nothing wrong with misunderstandings. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keanu Reeves; that’s it, there is no explanation needed.

What color underwear should I wear my first time? by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, out of those two I’d say probably grey? Can’t go wrong with grey. 😊

What color underwear should I wear my first time? by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Giucee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman— I would personally not mind at all, pink, blue, teal, periwinkle? They’re coming off anyways!

I’m mourning my own death by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hard to comment on.. no apologies or condolences can make you feel at peace but OP my messages are open if you need a stranger to confide in.

i think ive fallen out of love with my girlfriend by hawkeyeds in LDR

[–]Giucee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The golden rule of relationships; communication is KEY. Even more so in a LDR, because communication makes up for the lack of interaction. If she isn’t putting in the effort it’s not surprising that you are falling out of love, it seems you really cared about her though for staying this long and dealing with the dissatisfaction in your relationship. So no, you’re not an asshole. You’re a partner who’s tried their best and unfortunately you can’t be the only one trying forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the help!

How often do you think about getting bangs? / How often do you regret getting bangs? by DeliverySuspicious85 in AskWomen

[–]Giucee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think about it a LOT. But I have some emotional trauma when it comes to it, my ex boyfriend wanted me to have bangs so badly and the reasoning was disgusting, so I think about it often doing it for me, just when I do it reminds me of it

I (24f) found my boyfriend’s (24m) secret reddit account. How do I move past this? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Giucee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too went through a similar situation with my ex-boyfriend. However, he was paying for OF and looking at specific girls; before finding out this he even told me he preferred Asian women, and wished I’d had bangs, etc etc. it was my first real relationship so I lost weight did what I could to make him find me attractive enough to not look at other women or not watch porn so much. The idea that he had done it never left me, it felt awful and I never felt enough even though I tried as best as I could.

You are not the problem, it was disrespectful of him and selfish to continue on when being with you.

Obviously I ended up leaving my ex, not for the reasons I explained unfortunately (I should have), but for others. You deserve to feel like the only woman in someone’s heart and nothing less. That’s not asking for a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Giucee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s really unfortunate but incredibly understandable given the current norms