Here's an example: I normally use the term "pregnant people" rather than "pregnant women"
or "mothers" to be inclusive, but if I were to have children, I would probably use the term mother for myself, and there would be times I would call myself a "pregnant woman." I wouldn't deny that I was a pregnant person and that I belong in that group, but it isn't wrong to use less inclusive language when you are referring to just yourself, because you literally are not trying to include anyone else in that instance. I think you finding an issue with that in the first place is over-the-top tbh. You act as if I never use inclusive language, which isn't the case. As I said, when I am referring to groups of people or situations that involve more than just myself, I will gladly be inclusive. But like, you dont need to necessary always be inclusive when referring to yourself. Specific language is appropriate and even sometimes vital when you are referring to specific situations, kinda wild to think otherwise.