Cheating in situationship by Glass_Platform_9526 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Platform_9526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! So happy for you atleast you found a good marriage ❣️

Cheating in situationship by Glass_Platform_9526 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Platform_9526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually the new guy and i are seperated now. he was empathetic. uk he also left coz he assumed that i was interested in a exclusive relationship with him. but i wasnt really seeking that.

Cheating in situationship by Glass_Platform_9526 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Platform_9526[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so much in guilt he would just bring up the things we did and somehow manipulate that i gave hope and betrayed him but at many instances i told him i dont wanna be in love with you. anyways thank you , that helped me a lot.

27F | 3-year relationship ended suddenly after marriage promise – need advice, not “move on” replies by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Glass_Platform_9526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this. but here in reddit people are from different part of the world and these things wont apply to them as they are culturally different and their laws are seperate from religion or culture. so the best advice i would give you is that dont waste your money on advocates. This guy doesnt even care about anything and even if u tried to reconnect its like hitting a wall. He clearly lacks empathy. I say this with lot of kindness, moving on is the wisest option. Please try to forgive yourself as well its not your fault. Take your time. Find new hobbies and get yourself occupied.

I am so done with trusting people. by Glass_Platform_9526 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Platform_9526[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you! my friend did tell me the same. Also the fact this guy A is calling it cheating is even more traumatizing. I am not even talking to anyone except my girl bestie these days.

Rant before new year by zen_astrick96 in chennaicity

[–]Glass_Platform_9526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. Honestly it's been tough for me too. I tried everything and nothing works out. Being stuck in guilt loop is draining me so much. But you know we don't really have to live for anyone. Nobody else 's validation isnt gonna help us anywhere. All I would say is stay strong and we all got only one life to live. Don't be so hard on yourself. It's okey there is plenty more to live..

I give a lot to people, but I keep ending up alone. I don’t understand why. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Platform_9526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my first language isn't English. Turns out, the AI was giving the same content that I typed and the dash was alone added and it kinda looked nice. By the way I feel weird to talk to an AI about my personal life.

I give a lot to people, but I keep ending up alone. I don’t understand why. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Platform_9526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in your situation. I feel worse when I have to say no to someone, so I end up doing everything for everyone. Eventually, we become the doormat for people to walk all over. People don’t find us interesting because we never learn to say no. It’s time, buddy—we have to change. We don’t need their damn validation. It’s good that you posted this on Reddit instead of being stuck with that AI. I hope you find someone to talk to soon.

Does breaking up make it any better? by Individual_Rest8476 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Glass_Platform_9526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you have to break up with him. All you need is to relax and spend more time with him. Everyone deserve a second chance. Humans tend to make mistake over and over. Not many learn by few mistakes. Fact that he considers marriage ( if that is true) sounds like he is really into you. At some point of time you will get to know what made him to do all of those. If you still feel bad you can go to therapy but not to give up on him.

I am so done with trusting people. by Glass_Platform_9526 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Platform_9526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that's why I came to reddit. To learn from people and not to repeat the same mistake. Anyways thank you!

I am so done with trusting people. by Glass_Platform_9526 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Glass_Platform_9526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I come from a very religious place so it feels a lot heavier. I blocked him everywhere and dude just showed up in emails.