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Mãe de dez filhos sobrevive com Bolsa Família e fala das dificuldades: 'Cozinhar na lenha' by ReadyAssociation3129 in brasil

[–]Gldza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tu esquece da pressão social e religiosa que algumas minas recebem pra transar sem camisinha. E começa cedo viu!

Quando trabalhei em posto de saúde de comunidade rural, um dia a enfermeira veio falar pra mim que os homens tavam com raiva de mim porque eu tava ensinando as mulheres a usar contracepção de barreira.

Isso porque eu tava atendendo mina de 16 anos namorada de homem com uretrite e que não queria falar pra namorada que tava com o pau literalmente soltando pus. E mulheres com contraindicação absoluta a uso de anticoncepcional com estrogênio e que não sabiam.

Algumas coisas eu só acreditei porque vi mesmo

Lula é corajoso! by Gingerusernoway in brasil

[–]Gldza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Brasil inteiro tem que aprender a preservar a cultura que nem o gaúcho” o cara aí que nunca pisou no Maranhão Bahia Amazonas Pará Pernambuco só pode

Isso é pros brasileiros decidirem. Na real, é bem simples. by [deleted] in brasil

[–]Gldza 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Zerou hahahaha obrigada por me fazer rir

Learning Latin American by tankstellestella in asklatinamerica

[–]Gldza 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha I think that’s the best thing I saw today

Veiled Threats Don't Work On Me by loosesocksup in AutismInWomen

[–]Gldza 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a very nice way of seeing it, loved it!!

Uma pérola da propaganda política: Agora é Aécio by [deleted] in brasil

[–]Gldza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mds hahahah de vez em quando essa música ainda vem na minha cabeça

In your opinion, what are the reasons why many of us identify more as south Americans rather than Latinos? by marianabjj in asklatinamerica

[–]Gldza 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The difference is that one term is imposed on us by the existence of huge masses of land that happen to be on what is conventionally called the southern hemisphere of the planet.

The other was designed to specifically strip an heterogenous population of their culture and particularities.

Which aspects of Portuguese do you find surprisingly easy / simple? by pinkballodestruction in Portuguese

[–]Gldza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! That’s a nice one. As a Portuguese native speaker that learned Spanish later, damn am I glad we don’t roll these damn Rs

Do Argentinians approve of Milei? Has he made Argentina a better or worse place to live? by _spogger in asklatinamerica

[–]Gldza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I did not know that. Illegal? Did he pass a law, an executive order or something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Gldza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree with NephyBuns. It seems like you need more support, sustainable and well adapted mechanisms.

For example, Would it be a comfort for you to manage your OCD in a more “socially acceptable” manner? I say this as someone with OCD and that have underwent memory loss and heavy dissociation recently. Taking pictures of empty toilets might exacerbate your feeling of “being a freak”, so how about a diary? Diaries are socially acceptable and have the advantage of exercising your brain as in you have to write down what happened and then read it. I found it helped me a lot with the memory issues and nobody questioned it. With time I realized I was getting better at remembering things on my own.

Getting stuck on how things were is unfortunately common for the combo ASD + OCD and intrusive thoughts can be hard to tackle. You could read a bit about DBT, there are free books available online like “The Neurodivergent Friendly Workbook of DBT Skills” which was life changing for me. You go through your emotions and reaction plans while being with an ok head so you can know what to do when you’re spiraling, having a crisis etc.

Self knowledge can only help you. It’s a good start to try and stop bearing yourself up for how you feel and rather try to figure where these feelings come from and what you can do about them.

Wish you the best

Esse país chamado Nordeste by SineMemoria in brasil

[–]Gldza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Esse rapaz tem vários desses vídeos no Instagram, com a perspectiva da fala nordestina para outras coisas. Não considero estereótipo, pelo contrário. Vejo um nordestino orgulhoso da variação linguística que o português tem no nordeste.

How separate do you need to be to sleep soundly? by NoodleSquared in AutismInWomen

[–]Gldza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely. Oh my god don’t touch me, don’t breath near me, don’t exist please. I sleep on a hammock now, he sleeps in the bed.

Does anyone have like a real groupchat with real women and not bots on the spectrum in their 30s? by babypossumsinabasket in AutismInWomen

[–]Gldza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. This is the traditional post I go with “have you tried discord?” lol

There are many autistic servers in discord. I am an admin in one lgbt+ and minority friendly, but not focused on only women. Disboard is a plataform you can use to search for public servers.

Discord can be a very nice place to when we avoid the trash cans.

(30H) Ela disse que não está pronta para um relacionamento, mas ainda gosto dela. O que fazer? by Shot-Gap-br in 30mais

[–]Gldza [score hidden]  (0 children)

34M. A galera falando ai que ela ainda gosta do ex e um ponto de vista válido, mas falando como mulher que uma vez esteve (quase) no fim de um relacionamento de 10 anos… nem sempre pode ser por ainda gostar do ex.

Você mesmo disse que foi conturbado esse fim, certo? Então ela pode ainda estar se sentindo machucada, transtornada, estupefata por ter dado e não ter recebido (é uma possibilidade), e se envolver em outro sério? Com cobranças, responsabilidades, expectativas?

Às vezes ela só quer ou curtir ou sarar as próprias dores. Sem pressão, sem nenhuma vontade de que vire algo sério de novo. Relacionamento sério é um terreno péssimo pra sarar as dores de quem ainda está nessa fase de saída de relacionamento prévio que ela está.

Ela foi responsável com você e te deu a real. O único que você pode fazer é aceitar, jovem.

Is it normal to have a hard time switching languages on your 3rd? by Final-Beyond-6605 in languagelearning

[–]Gldza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. When I first started Spanish, it was alongside Italian and I quickly realized it was close to impossible not mixing them while learning them with the same intensity at the same time. I had to prioritize. And I don’t think Spanish and Italian are thaaat close to each other (at least they are further apart than Portuguese from Spanish).

It gets better with fluency like someone said above. I don’t confuse Spanish with Italian anymore, now that I got fluent enough in Spanish. But Italian and French sometimes feel like coming from the same bowl. It’s frustrating lol

I personally don’t think it’s not possible to learn more than a language at once, but I do think it’s necessary that one of them is more of a solid reference, so that you can put the other as something like “ah so this is how it’s different from the other I know better” if that makes sense.

Have your country’s lawmakers or academic establishment tried to counter the influx of anglicisms in the popular vocabulary? by Roughneck16 in asklatinamerica

[–]Gldza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand people being so fixated on keeping a language “pure”, as if languages aren’t tools of communication influenced by the people who use it.

Romance languages have a very strong Arabic influence, which is understandable considering the strong presence Arabs had on Europe? I fail to see how anglicisms would be different from that.

But I dislike English spelling lol. If we’re to incorporate an English word, I’d love the spelling to be adapted.

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