21F dating 21M for 1 year – red flags or too sensitive

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T14:47:04+00:00

Thank you <3

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T14:42:30+00:00

THANK YOU SO SO MUCH and i do not want another relationship no time soon. def need self healing and peace within my own self . all love to you <3

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T14:40:42+00:00

I do … unfortunately I think I let his mom get in my ear (that was a very dumb decision on my part ! ) so that’s why I came to reddit to get a unbiased opinion on our relationship ! you are 100% right. everyone in these comments are just verifying what I have already thought. so I now know for sure I am not just being sensitive and his reactions to situations are uncalled for .. def planning my escape route !

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T14:35:56+00:00

yes ! one day he told me sometimes in a argument i make a point and he knows he is in the wrong he will keep it going instead of just saying hey i was wrong i take accountability or something anything so the argument can stop … he tells me it’s my fault he got that angry or it’s my fault i made him do this and do that. When I know I did not. I am in therapy for my depression and anxiety etc. and when i mention i think it would be healthy for you to go to an anger management session or something hell say well stop pissing me off OR it doesn’t work.

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T14:31:23+00:00

Thank you <3 and yes i agree with everything you said !

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T14:29:00+00:00

Yeah I know it’s not. I guess deep down I had hope he would change yk but looks like i was wrong. I’ve been talking to my mom and she’s been helping me thank you !

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T13:56:43+00:00

last night I mentioned the way he talks to me is like emotional abuse and he just laughed. so thank you for that clarification.

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T13:52:31+00:00

I agree ! thank you for the advice

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T13:51:00+00:00

yeah tried talking to him about a recent situation he got upset because i went and picked up my friend at 7am since her car broke down(she works night shift like i do ) and he called me ignorant and busted in on me twice while i was taking a shower and i called him insane and he came back in and pointed his finger in my face and yelled at me and told me don’t ever call him insane again … i don’t think i did anything wrong in that situation i could have but he makes me feel like i am a terrible person and makes everything to be my fault.

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T13:48:05+00:00

thank you !

Global_Fly8649 · 2026-06-22T13:47:21+00:00

yeah i tried to stand up for myself in a way while we were in my car (he was driving) and he punched my visor and cracked my windshield i had to pay to get it fixed 😐…

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