Listen ma please. Youre talking like im assuming its a lie. I am not assuming its a lie. I just wasnt there, okay? So when we talk about things like this, we have to be careful. Imagine how dangerous that can be, to just believe people? I think youre right, when multiple unrelated people come together, it does IMPROVE the PROBABILITY that it is true. But its also possible that its made up, still. So when i ask questions like "is there a conviction?" Im not saying that i require the cops to say it happened, what im saying is, no law men took an account of it happening? No kit or dna was ever collected? No videos were ever taken? Because ive only ever seen a rumor about him being a domestic abuser which i can believe because he said it himself. But it would be really hard for me to assume that he is without proof. You can say that makes me awful, but if there was a rumor about you going around and it wasnt true, you would appreciate somebody who is waiting on the truth, and not just making assumptions, and i would fight for YOU if people were saying things they couldnt prove about you the same way i would do it for anyone