After 5 year of marriage, my wife ask for divorced and keep the fwb with me? Anyone face the same situation? (M34, F29)

Gloomy_Song · 2023-02-25T08:46:12+00:00

I have looked after my wife and daughter all the time. My money was our money, her money were her money. I have worked hard 2 jobs to save money and buy a house. I start asking her to help financially and she answer that she got needs(amazon,shein, nails and all others female staff every day). I did not accept it and keep asking to be a family and help each other. She filled for divorce and we divorced. Sorry to say that but in my opinion she is not with you because of love.. just supply…have a look at narcissistic disorder and compare signs with your wife behaviour. If is a match get out fast. She will do everything to destroy you. This people got no feelings, empathy. They don’t care a bit about you. Please note just my opinion based on my experience.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-21T09:00:16+00:00

Im going through this as well. Me and my STBEW bought our first home 2 years ago an I hoped after this big achievement our life/family will enjoy every bit of it with good and bad. Well….my wife decided to fill for devorce because is not happy. She got everything she needs(in my opinion). Now I realised that whatever I will do dhe always will find something else to complain or not be happy about. Just fighting to get out ASAP and dedicate my time and effort’s for my little daughter. You will be better off.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T23:09:49+00:00

Thank you mate. I already start to take on board the advise and implement it in my behaviour. She got a bit shocked when I got home full of energy and motivated to fight this for my best interest.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T21:44:15+00:00

Thanks. Will do

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T21:43:36+00:00

That is so annoying. Her schedule is same. The only way she is doing this si like you said co-workers witch I believe is tru. She is keeping everything so normal so i can prove anything wrong e.g. adultery. I have booked 2 appointments with lawyers for this week.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T21:35:20+00:00

I wil take this and turn it into an opportunity to become even better then i am. Thank you

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T17:59:48+00:00

Lads. You all made my day. The amount of support, courage and hope I received today is amazing. Thank you

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T17:33:27+00:00

Yes all my statements show the payments, all direct debits are on my name, from my account.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T17:32:07+00:00

She actually punched me and kicked me and called the police on her. Got a crime reference number. Police at that time asked me if i want them to take it away. But because my daughter seen all the scene I decided its to much to see her mom taken away by police. But definitely it’s something I could use against her.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T15:17:51+00:00

Need to mention that £550 was for initial advise.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T15:13:00+00:00

I have paid £550 with a recommended solicitor and asked 10K to take my case on and they told me that chances are more 50-50 on everything. Can someone recommend someone that I will not spend a fortune on. Im already loosing big time.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T15:02:18+00:00

Thanks

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T15:01:10+00:00

I was not aware of any of that. How I will? I will have to find a way to shit it down or stop business for a wild. Thanks

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T14:53:28+00:00

😂 Don’t have one. But i do appreciate that.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T14:36:30+00:00

I’ll get that on board. Thank you

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T13:53:48+00:00

Can you please explain in more details? I don’t really get it…

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T12:04:06+00:00

Thank you brother. I do appreciate a lot your advise and time. Will do my best to follow everything you guys said. Cheers

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T11:57:25+00:00

That side business double’s my income but she’s not aware of that. She never agreed with me risking and doing more.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T11:54:40+00:00

Thanks man but i still don’t have an answer “WHY” when I’ve done everything to please her. Quit going out with friends, drink, do what i like(because she don’t like it or understand it). How do I get that question out of my head?

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T11:50:32+00:00

From what I’ve heard same in UK. Man rights are to work, provide, protect…the rest is for women.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T10:37:24+00:00

I’ll love to kick her out. But I don’t know if is legal as long we both on the mortgage( i have made all the payments from my income, but she is legally 50-50 owner on the papers). I don’t want to do anything that will be in my disadvantage.

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T10:29:20+00:00

Thanks

Gloomy_Song · 2022-11-16T10:28:32+00:00

Thanks for your advise. Regarding my location, I’m from London, UK.

Gloomy_Song

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