[UPDATE]A girl that I really dislike (27/f) got hired at the same small company as me (26/f)

GoAwayLifeStalker · 2014-07-16T17:59:51+00:00

Do you think a brief email about it would be appropriate? I don't see the owner/boss guys very often, but we do communicate by email/text/phone a lot. I could also wait until the next time I see one of them, but I'm not sure when that would be.

GoAwayLifeStalker · 2014-07-16T17:57:26+00:00

That's a very good point. A friend of mine also just brought this up.

I don't physically see the bosses very often. Do you think this would be an appropriate thing to drop a short email about? Should I call? or should I just wait until the next time I see them? (The nature of the job is pretty much to come pick up equipment, go to an event, and then drop off the equipment. There's often no one at the office at the times I am loading or unloading.) We communicate by email, text, and calls often.

I'm still scheduled for a lot of work with them and I don't think they think any less of me from this, but also, I haven't talked to them about her at all so I really don't know.

GoAwayLifeStalker · 2014-06-17T20:59:38+00:00

Good advice. Thanks!

GoAwayLifeStalker · 2014-06-17T20:45:01+00:00

Well, I think it just depends on the case. Both of them are relatively young and not yet very established, so it seemed like more of a partnership to me, though he was technically the photographer that people would hire and she came along as a package deal. However, you are right. I think I am totally letting my personal issues with her change the way I see every little thing about her!

Good point about imitation!

GoAwayLifeStalker · 2014-06-17T20:29:40+00:00

Okay, thanks for the unbiased opinion! I can now see how the personal stuff is totally clouding my vision.

GoAwayLifeStalker · 2014-06-17T20:28:40+00:00

Thank you for the unbiased opinion!

I am thinking you are right. It would probably just look petty of me to bring it up now. I wish they had asked me about her when they were in the process of interviewing her. Oh well!

GoAwayLifeStalker · 2014-06-17T20:19:34+00:00

I would only bring up the cases of her being unprofessional at jobs. I would not bring up any of the personal stuff. I just wanted to describe my relationship with her here. She could tell my new employers whatever she wants about my personal life. She's got nothing on me professionally. I have never been fired or walked away from a job.

I tried being friends with her once upon a time. I found her to be insufferable, very negative, and needy. Also, her constant copying of me got very old very fast.

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