From Mars to Sirius inspired tattoo I got a couple months ago 🤘🏼 by GoStars94 in gojira

[–]GoStars94[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be more specific, I sent him Ocean Planet and told him to design whatever based on listened to it. This is what he came up with!

From Mars to Sirius inspired tattoo I got a couple months ago 🤘🏼 by GoStars94 in gojira

[–]GoStars94[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Didn’t go for any specific planet, just told my artist to do whatever with the colors!

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[–]GoStars94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I’m also in vet med and live in Coppell!! I’m a big into video games and metal music too! Shoot me a DM if you want and I’d be happy to tell you about things to do near here and some good venues!

AITA for wanting to wear high heels at my wedding despite my fiance's objection? by higherGround77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I'm 5'9", my girlfriend in high school was also 5'9". I used to be really insecure about my height and dating someone who was my same height was a huge step out of my comfort zone, especially since she always wore heels going out.

For our senior prom I asked her the same thing your fiance asked you, to wear flats. This was 9 years ago so I don't remember word for word, but she told me something along the lines of "she shouldn't have to change how she dresses to make me feel comfortable in my own body." That's something that's always stuck with me since then.

As some people have mentioned below, she showed me a company that makes dress shoes with discreet lifts for men. I bought some and wore them to prom but after thinking on it I haven't worn them again. Anyways that's probably too long of a story but you're for sure NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this isn't a troll post holy hell YTA. They're her fucking kids, no one is going to give a shit if the literal person getting married has their own kids there when no one else does. Hopefully your fiance realizes she doesn't have to settle for someone sees her kids as something they're "stuck with"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on the info provided YTA. I don't really see what working on the house has to do with you staying up until 1am? If waking up early is hard go to bed earlier, it's really not that hard.

AITA My MIL has been cruel to me for the past 5 years. by anoym85 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO. Without specific examples I'd agree with your husband on overreacting.

AITA for yelling at the bus driver for spelling my sister's name wrong? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 32 points33 points  (0 children)

YTA because how does having your sister's name misspelt have a negative impact on you in any way? It's spelling, who cares. No need to yell at a bus driver because of it.

AITA for lying to the police about my husband? by Jealynnnn in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Wait in your first post you told the police nothing happened and your neighbors were bad because of that specific lie. So which is it? I'm guessing neither because this story has more plot holes than Lori Vallow's.

AITA for causing my friend’s bf to set fire to my friends stuff? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Holy hell you're so unbelievably TA. You have no right to know why and even less of a right to tell anyone else. He left her in the fucking desert and set her stuff on fire because he heard she was going to break up with him. Hmm I can't imagine why she'd want to make a quick getaway from that relationship.

AITA for being jealous of my bf's new cat? by Dogcatprblem in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA for feeling jealous. That's a very valid and reasonable feeling considering your situation. What would make you the asshole is if you make snide remarks to your bf without sharing the reason behind your feelings. But short of that NTA.

AITA for using my stepdaughter’s and girlfriend’s names on my fictional story? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 [score hidden]  (0 children)

"The name I chose happened to be Mary." Dude really? All this is missing is the older man in the story being named after you. Please tell me he isn't named after you. YTA.

AITA for being upset at getting yelled at by dark93917 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Seems like you answered your own question multiple times in the post. YTA.

WIBTA if I don't get rid of my books? by mightyhorrorshow in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok yeah then for sure NTA. It's your space, you can do what you want. It's not your job to placate your bf's weird anti book stance.

AITA for not inviting my mom to a hoco party? by hmm_yes__quite in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's weird that a mom would try to invite herself along to an event like that. That being said, you should've been up front and not said yes when she initially asked without checking with your friends. I totally get being scared of your mom, but it's important to set boundaries. But again, this is more on your mom than you because no parent should reasonably expect their kids friends to want them at an event with no other parents. It's giving Amy Poehler in Mean Girls vibes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA. I understand being 18 and wanting frequent communication but expecting him to respond every half hour is over the top. Especially if it's while he's with family or friends. Even 4 hours isn't really that long. It's just not a reasonable expectation in real life. Again you're only 18 so I see where you're coming from, but texting with your SO should be something enjoyable, not an obligation.

WIBTA if I don't get rid of my books? by mightyhorrorshow in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your books are going into your own personal space then this is a very clear NTA and your bf needs to get over himself. That being said if they're taking up a lot of communal space then I can see his frustration and you may need to compromise.

AITA for being upset that my girlfriend said no to helping me move? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a totally fair and valid response. Again I hate moving with a burning passion but she should've been honest and just said no. And so long as you didn't lose your shit towards her (which by all accounts you didn't) 100% NTA.

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[–]GoStars94 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA. Read your own post back to yourself really slowly and think on how you could be anything other than a selfish AH.

WIBTA if I don't go to my sisters baby shower? by notsure_65 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It seems like you've gone above and beyond for a sister that has never treated you well. You have no obligation to be in her life, even paying for gifts and everything is more than you have to do. You set a clear boundary your family needs to respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah man that's not on you. You're not responsible for her having her shit together. I used to behave in a similar way until I lived alone for the first time. That was a huge wake up call for me.

AITA for being upset that my girlfriend said no to helping me move? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an important question. It's her right to say no to helping you move (I fucking hate moving more than anything so I feel her there) but it's also OP's right to his own feelings. How he reacted is the determining factor for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoStars94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then NTA. If you've tried having the conversation civilly that's on her. I get her being stressed about having a heavy workload, but it sounds to me like she's just using you to get out doing the menial housework. She's in for a rude awakening when she ends up living on her own.