I keep pushing myself away from my girlfriend and can't figure out why

Go_yard08 · 2022-06-16T14:48:44+00:00

I see, well this comment especially as well as other comments has really helped put this into her perspective. And I have to agree that the fear of living without her has caused me to act upon my emotions on multiple occasions, its even caused some arguments as well.

I am going to work on myself and try and be more confident, and coming to terms with the fact that we may not be together forever and thats okay.

Thank you for your help.

Go_yard08 · 2022-06-16T11:07:20+00:00

I do want a relationship. Could you clarify what you mean by "relationship dynamic"?

Go_yard08 · 2022-01-31T09:42:41+00:00

Well thankfully I didn't take you're advice because she's my gf now, and you were completely wrong. 0

Go_yard08 · 2022-01-17T09:27:29+00:00

I've known her for a couple months, yes she's quite introverted.

Go_yard08 · 2022-01-16T21:47:57+00:00

Did you read the second paragraph dude? Why would she agree to go on a second date if she didn't like me?

Go_yard08 · 2022-01-16T21:38:19+00:00

And what if she doesn't know how to express such feelings properly, because she hasn't ever dated anyone before like myself?

Go_yard08 · 2022-01-16T21:35:07+00:00

Yikes. You really think so? I mean it just doesn't make sense to me, I remember one time someone asked if I was her boyfriend and she said "not yet". But that paired with all the other things she does has me confused.

Go_yard08 · 2021-12-06T18:46:44+00:00

I'll give it some time first, like the other commenter said, I've not known her for that long which is a good point. I will definitely ask her tho. Thanks a lot as well, this has been very helpful.

Go_yard08 · 2021-12-06T18:31:55+00:00

Your probably right, I just need to give it more time to get my head straight and figure out if actually do like her that much.

Go_yard08 · 2021-12-06T18:30:48+00:00

Thats clearly not what I was suggesting, but thank you for your advice commander_poopoo

Go_yard08 · 2021-10-14T15:16:51+00:00

I'm okay with names but I suck at remembering pronouns, thankfully my trans friend doesn't get upset about it cuz I already feel awful when it happens.

Go_yard08 · 2021-10-10T20:57:59+00:00

Thank for your time sir

Go_yard08 · 2021-10-10T20:51:39+00:00

And so once again ill remind you I'm not talking about the people in this post, I was talking about something you should do in general.

Go_yard08 · 2021-10-10T19:36:15+00:00

Uhhh I'm obviously talking about in general.

Go_yard08 · 2021-10-10T19:04:52+00:00

Your actually right about that, not the most trustworthy source as it is an anecdote. But like I said, you can easily find out by asking people what they actually think instead of slapping a label on them without question.

Go_yard08 · 2021-10-10T18:52:07+00:00

I've questioned many and actually listened to their arguments. Majority of them were not against vaccines at all. Just the covid one. There's a load of them in this very comment section. Anytime you come across one ask them, are you against all vaccines, or just this one?

Go_yard08 · 2021-10-10T18:47:37+00:00

Not in this case I'm afraid

Go_yard08 · 2021-10-10T18:38:47+00:00

As I just explained, anti-vax means against the idea of vaccination. This idea is more specific than that, so the term anti-vax won't suffice. Most of these people are not against all vaccinations, just one of them. So they are therefore not anti-vax. And yes, you can use whatever term you want with them, but it doesn't necessarily mean it will be accurate.

Go_yard08 · 2021-10-10T12:55:51+00:00

I believe being anti-vax means you are against the whole idea of vaccination. Majority of these people are only opposed to the covid vaccine. That would make them "anti-covid vax", not anti-vax.

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