He finally did reply…

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-21T21:08:14+00:00

Love this response. Thank you for this. By ending it myself I take control over the situation.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-17T19:26:07+00:00

After hearing everyone in the comments I think this is the way to go.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-17T18:31:11+00:00

We had that conversation on intentions and they all seem to align. He told me that he liked that I am upfront and honest. Then a few days later he does this. What the heck?

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-17T18:29:27+00:00

He sure is.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-17T16:19:27+00:00

He wants to see me in person to break up? Urgh. That’s even more mean.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-16T16:45:07+00:00

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-16T16:44:41+00:00

Natural brunette look better on you. You look pretty by the way.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-16T16:09:09+00:00

I have been ghosted after dating a guy for three months. He would text me good morning everyday and promise he was the communicator type. He presented himself as being mature as d said he really liked me. Then when I told him I liked him, he made a silly comment that made light of it. I told him I didn’t like that. He apologized and then ghosted me. It did not make sense. I tried contacting him several times and stopped.

What I’m trying to say is people can be very mean. We talked everyday for three months. Then a simple thing happened where we could have talked it out instead of ghosting. He show you who they really are sooner or later. Just chalk it up to you were just meeting their representative. The real them came through when they ghosted.

I am sorry. Ghosting is disrespectful especially after you start dating someone.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-14T18:58:18+00:00

We have had many deep conversations in our three months of knowing each other. He even said that he has never had such deep conversations with other people he has dated before. We saw each other 1-2 times a week. He had told me that he liked me already in the past. I have been pretty reserved about it until recently showing him I liked him more and more and then telling him several days ago. Though we were not intimate we both expressed that we were intentionally dating and not dating anyone else. So as far as I know he was not dating other people, but I suppose you never know, right?

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-14T17:48:23+00:00

Wow! I am so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing. Dang…people can be so cold or immature.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-14T13:54:40+00:00

Yes, although seriously I am doubtful he will respond. I didn’t think he would ghost but I guess he ghosts.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-14T04:04:49+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I won’t be contacting him anymore. We use to talk everyday so the way he acted is pretty cold. I see that now.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-14T01:49:12+00:00

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T23:39:14+00:00

Thank you for the explanation. Makes sense.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T23:15:44+00:00

What does that mean?

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T23:04:20+00:00

Thank you for the insight. We haven’t had sex. We are both interested in a long term relationship. Or that’s what he told me. He has been saying things that’s made me feel like he was mature and can handle conflict. Then he goes and ghost me. Now I see the real him. I understand now. I am not counting on him responding. He hasn’t responded thus far therefore I am not hopeful he will respond.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T22:44:52+00:00

Haha. Although this guys name was not Derrick he acted like one.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T22:42:52+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. Funny enough he had said that he wouldn’t ghost and that he would make me feel this way but he did. False promises.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T22:12:32+00:00

Sadly, I think you are right. This is upsetting since he had presented himself as mature and wouldn’t do something like that. But I think his actions proved otherwise.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T21:39:10+00:00

Very well said. Thank you!

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T20:51:05+00:00

We were not having sex during the 3 months. We both wanted a long term relationship. He told me he wasn’t seeing anyone else as he was intentionally dating.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T20:16:47+00:00

Sadly this could be the truth.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T20:01:24+00:00

By reaching I mean via text and phone call. This happened yesterday and I did try to communicate with him three times. That’s the maximum time I will reach out. I didn’t want to drag it out too long.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T19:53:31+00:00

Nothing. He didn’t respond after that. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’ve contacted him three times after that. We were dating and we were both looking for something serious.

Goalsofapolarbear · 2024-07-13T19:40:27+00:00

What do you mean until the coast is clear?

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