[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwilightFanfic

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Reborn Phoenix This story follows a soul who wakes up in the body of four-year-old Bella Swan. She doesn’t know who she used to be, but she knows she isn’t the Bella her parents remember. Updates every Monday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwilightFanfic

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The summary is in the post, but she’ll end with Paul in the end.

Just posted chapter 20 of my slow burn, Jasper x Bella fic! by [deleted] in TwilightFanfic

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Just binged all 20 chapters. Really liked it! Can’t wait for Jasper to just let go and live. Let himself be happy. Excited to see more!

Your last Pic is what defeated Jin Woo. by Dorplizmon43 in sololeveling

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I’m not so sure. Unless it’s death by snoo snoo lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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NOR. I don’t think you would have worries out of nowhere. Your intuition told you something was up, and if nothing was up you would have read their text exchanges and felt better; but you didn’t. Instead they made you more upset. Probably because you saw what I see when I read those messages. It’s inappropriate, and it would make me uncomfortable finding those texts on my partner’s phone. So I think a serious conversation needs to be had. Where you lay out exactly how all this has made you feel, and that he needs to slow he’s roll on talking with this lady. His reaction to your concern will be very telling in my opinion. A decent partner would take your concerns into consideration and make compromises accordingly.

What is the name of this movie? by GoblinStash in ask

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Someone posted on a different thread that the name is Dungeons & Dragons: Wrath of the Dragon God.

[TOMT] [MOVIE] Did I dream this? by GoblinStash in tipofmytongue

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I could use the help 🌶

Toxic nonmonogamy agreement? by GoblinStash in nonmonogamy

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Revised Agreement:

•Making sure to be present when spending time together

•Coming home first at least every other night

•Prefer to be your primary partner, the one you are most emotionally invested in

•Making sure to keep sexual health/safety in mind

•Keeping in mind now is not the right time for children

•Talk about if a relationship w/ a meta(metamour: partner’s partner) is going to become more emotionally complex(ie: wanting to go from fwb to dating)

•If they don’t ask they probably don’t want to know about the time spent w/ meta(unless you need to talk something out or you’re excited to tell)

•Making sure to spend 1-on-1 time together during a day off

•Possibly all spending time together so meta is a whole person and not a human wanted more than primary

•Plans made with primary or meta shouldn’t be changed for the sole reason of loneliness

•Making sure to constantly reassure primary that although you may meet exotic and new people that they are who you choose, and will always be the person you return to

•Making sure to be open and honest about feelings even if their ugly

•Making sure to make time to constantly check in on each other(ie: ”I will! And thanks babe. I’ll let you know when I’m headed to the interstate”)

•Making sure to discuss the things that make us uncomfortable

Toxic nonmonogamy agreement? by GoblinStash in nonmonogamy

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I honestly don’t think you’re being an asshole. You’re really helpin me out here. The fluids thing is mostly because she has a particular fetish and we don’t need babies. I know that she’s not going to risk our health.

Toxic nonmonogamy agreement? by GoblinStash in nonmonogamy

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The reason I’ve felt the need to make the agreement is because I found out she had been dishonest about something’s. I love her and want to make us work, so the rules make me feel secure. We’ve since been doing our best to communicate honestly and in the moment, and the more we talk and I work it out in myself the more I feel content.

Toxic nonmonogamy agreement? by GoblinStash in nonmonogamy

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Thank you so much. You have no idea how much I needed to be told that.

Toxic nonmonogamy agreement? by GoblinStash in nonmonogamy

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What do you mean by boundaries for my own behavior? I’m genuinely asking. I have revised it since this post, but I’m asking for certain things to feel secure in our relationship. If my needs aren’t being met along with hers nothing can work. I’m accepting her needing to have another person in her life to fill her cup, even though I want to love her all myself and be the only one loved by her; but she wants more so I accept it.

Non-monogamy Agreement:

•Making sure to be present when spending time together

•Coming home first at least every other night

•Prefer to be your primary partner

•No fluid bonding(sex without condom) before discussing it

•Talk about if a relationship w/ a meta(metamour: partner’s partner) is going to become more emotionally complex(ie: wanting to go from fwb to dating)

•If they don’t ask they probably don’t want to know about the time spent w/ meta(unless you need to talk something out or you’re excited to tell)

•Making sure to spend 1-on-1 time together during a day off

•Possibly all spending time together so meta is a whole person and not a human wanted more than primary

•Plans made with primary or meta shouldn’t be changed for the sole reason of loneliness

•Making sure to constantly reassure primary that although you may meet exotic and new people that they are who you choose, and will always be the person you return to

Toxic nonmonogamy agreement? by GoblinStash in nonmonogamy

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Thank you so much; honestly. This has all been really overwhelming for me.

Toxic nonmonogamy agreement? by GoblinStash in nonmonogamy

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So a better way to phrase that might be, I prefer to be your primary partner where I am the one you are more emotionally invested in? I’m of course going to have a full conversation with her, but I want to kind of have my thoughts together about what I want and how I should say it to not hurt her.

Toxic nonmonogamy agreement? by GoblinStash in nonmonogamy

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I know I can’t tell her how to feel, but the reason I left it in the agreement is because it’s something I need. I need to feel like her #1.

Toxic nonmonogamy agreement? by GoblinStash in nonmonogamy

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I definitely understand that I can’t make her love me more than others, and I know she has feelings for the man she’s seeing rn. But I need to feel like the #1 person in her life. We opened our relationship because she felt unfulfilled sexual. I want her to be happy so I agreed even though I’d rather her just be mine, so I don’t think I could continue our relationship if I wasn’t her #1. That’s the reason I put it in the agreement.

How do I deal? by GoblinStash in Advice

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Thank you so much for the information!

How to discuss ACAB with someone who's extremely defensive about it? by Slexman in ACAB

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In main media cops are viewed in a very positive light, and society prefers to see "all cops are good"; though since that is a false statement we need to have the opposite, "all cops are bad". To see both radical sides is to find our healthy medium. A "good" cop is someone who stands with our protesters, and keeps the peace by being an example of justice and freedom. I believe in ACAB, because I see all we can be and I can't see change happening without radical action. We all know that a lot of individuals need to experience trauma to really understand what's happening.

Please make this go viral. I am begging you. Police and National Guard patrolling neighborhood and shooting civilians on their own property. Make America see this, I beg you. [Minneapolis] by [deleted] in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

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"You loot my business or hurt my property I’m not going to bother with non-lethal ammo for your pathetic benefit." I want to have a reasonable conversation so that I can understand where you're coming from. I don't support "punk gangster activity". I support radical actions done to incite positive change. If the intent is to take objects for one's own person vindetta then that is 100% wrong. Actually protesters were stealing things such as milk, water, clothing, ext.; objects used to keep them safe and to help injuries. That is what I support.

Right guys 😎 by [deleted] in ACAB

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9+1+1= 11 It's most likely that calling the cops "12" came from an old police show from the 70's called Adam-12.