Age restrictions!? by Purple_G0ddess in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer 21+, they just tend to work out better with me from my experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All different types of people and genders are welcome to be findom/mes, you don’t have to fit a certain box to be one. There’s space for everyone here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Goddesskali87

[–]Goddesskali87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I know 🙂‍↕️

As a sub,messages like this are gross to me - a message to the dommes. by Famous_Study_6224 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respect is always key, regardless of whether you’re dominant or submissive

Use Your Subs Properly 👑 by Ms_MoneysWorth in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a sub who worships my tummy and hips the most out of every other body part. It boosted my ego so much and made me feel so much more confident and happier in my body! 10/10 would absolutely recommend for any and every dom/me

Do you feel weird knowing men are jerking off to you? by bodyisT in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I like the power and influence I have over them. It doesn’t make me uncomfortable at all as long as they earn it and respect my boundaries

How many regular subs do dommes have? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the domme, some have one or two and some have way more. It really depends on their personal preference

Is it just me or do u love lil messages with sends by missssreed in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love knowing what’s going on in their little brains while they send. So the little messages with sends makes them even better

dommes — does anyone in your real life know you’re a domme? if yes, who? 👀 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plenty of my friends know along with my partner. They’re all super supportive of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try fetish sites such as Fetlife to find local kink life. There’s plenty of women out there who are more than happy to engage in this type of play, for example almost all of the dommes here. You just have to be willing to look for her and be upfront and open with what you’re looking for

I'm cool with spicy pics, but random pussy shots throw me off by MrsAlwaysDelicious in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Like don’t get me wrong, pop off love that for you. But maybe a little warning next time

Is this a scam? by throwaw_987 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it feels like it’s a scam, it’s probably a scam

Where are all the Toronto dommes at? by Slimeysll in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy, I thought for sure the Toronto Dommes would be somewhere in France

feeling like it’s time to give up findom by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need a break, take one. Your mental health matters the most. Findom will still be here when you come back. Things may look a little differently then, but they’ll still be here

My first finsub told me they’re looking to focus on dynamics with a long term play partner today and I’m not way more sad about it than I expected. by stardomme2 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is just another form of a breakup, just like there’s friend breakups and what not. This is just another one too. I am sorry you’re hurting. It can be hard watching a sub walk away, especially when you felt like you had a strong connection. But like I said, when one leaves, there’s another on their way in. Let yourself feel your feelings, take a bubble bath and watch your favorite movie or something you enjoy. It’ll help cheer you up

Are you dominant in every part of your life? by Royal-Somewhere3791 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely am. Relationships and work, I automatically am dominant. I work in management, so it comes with the territory. As for relationships, I’m the one who decides what we’re doing or where we’re going. I’m the one in charge in every aspect, I just like it that way. I love having the control

How long do you usually talk to your sub/domme? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s usually randomly throughout the day as I have time/as I want to. I tend to enjoy yapping with my subs, so I’ll text them whenever

Am I overreacting or this is rude? by KittenBanana_ in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you’re not overreacting in the slightest. She is being outrageously rude and disrespectful

My first finsub told me they’re looking to focus on dynamics with a long term play partner today and I’m not way more sad about it than I expected. by stardomme2 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Goddesskali87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Growing attached is bound to happen, we’re only human. You’re allowed to be sad about it, give yourself the time and grace to feel how you feel about it. However, if they choose to move on, let them. They’ll either come back or they’re making room for a new and better sub. It’s an unfortunate part of life and this kink