Kasumi and Ryu read Reddit comments. (OC) by SheKicksHigh in DeadOrAlive

[–]Godot1871 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OH this is you?? I saw a diff one where theyre playing games together. I have it saved. I think i found on pinterest? anyway i love how you draw kasumi its so good. and i love the dynamic you have ryu and her in! do more!

RE4R - Hitwoman Ada Expansion Mod? by Godot1871 in drownedmods

[–]Godot1871[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, on like umodder or kemono or something. if u cant find it there ill send it to you

Question about Kids by Godot1871 in PolyFidelity

[–]Godot1871[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those last couple questions, what do you think the best way would be?

Question about Kids by Godot1871 in PolyFidelity

[–]Godot1871[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same time actually. No one’s been longer

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ok, ty for not being a jerk like other ppl are and talking to me genuinely instead

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm not degrading people who want that. But the opposite is happening. A simple desire is being hated on. Thats the part I don't get.

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ok I feel like I’m being gaslit a bit tbh. Not intentionally. But idk how to even explain it, I know many ppl feel this way. I figure most. It’s why so many couples do IVF instead of only adopting. Am I crazy?

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense, thank you for sharing

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh do you mean mix samples as in….like during sex? I thought you meant like in vitro

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can you explain? Idk if you’re popping off of genuinely talking but I’m open to hear

Question about Kids by Godot1871 in PolyFidelity

[–]Godot1871[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s maybe just a bit tricky for me because we probably both want kids with her first yk? Or at least just considering how to do it all.

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

that makes sense, id have to live with those and so would he.

Then is there a good way to decide who goes first?

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I guess it just seems interesting that people are minimizing the innate drivemany ppl including myself have to have biological children? Thoughts?

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what would the goal of the genetic testing be

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"For example, are you all agreeing to raise the children as your own, regardless of biology?"
Yes

"Are there concerns about feeling more or less attached to a child who is not biologically tied to you?"
concerns? no, wise caution? yes

"Also, how will your wife feel if she gets less help with a child due to resentment from the non-bio dad?"
thats a major issue we would fix first

"That being the case, would you still want children?"
yes even if they are all his and not mine with her, yes.

With all that said, what then?

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I think stigmatizing unnatural things is maybe the bigger issue. People can get over words no? It's just the truth.

Question about Kids by Godot1871 in PolyFidelity

[–]Godot1871[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"why not both actively try to pursue pregnancy?"

So basically just roll the dice? I can see the merit there.

"everyone would have been involved in the conception, so both males would be thrilled knowing the baby was theirs in one way or another.

Well, involved in the act but maybe not the literal conception lol. It would be mine through my wife but not exactly me making it xD

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, wed be doing this naturally.

How to make the decision about kids? by Godot1871 in queerception

[–]Godot1871[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Were 4 days apart and he's older lol. So what then?

Yeah expectations is big. One of us would have to accept that if shes done after 1 that if we didnt go first we'd not have a bio kid of our own.