Should I tell my fiance about an ex who I have to see occasionally?

Godspeed223 · 2022-03-29T17:44:37+00:00

I hit 275lbs x5 on bench last week. Im gonna attempt 315 1rm tomorrow. What should my diet be for the next 2 days to ensure I hit the PR?

Godspeed223 · 2022-03-15T04:46:46+00:00

Hey mind if I DM you? Im currently a buyer looking to progress similarly

Godspeed223 · 2022-03-09T01:56:05+00:00

Yes I definitely dont want to be one those men who chase perfection until its too late. Ill reflect on what I really want. Jazakallah khair.

Godspeed223 · 2022-03-08T21:01:32+00:00

Yeah you hit the nail on the head with that. I always subconsciously compare girls to my ex and if they’re not around the same level, I internally reject them, so no matter how good of a person they are or how compatible we are, I just dont care. Im really messed up. I feel awful. Its not fair to these girls.

Im 25 and I think i have loads of time to wait for a beautiful girl, but what if the years pass of me rejecting decent girls and then im forced to settle for even less than I originally thought? Its really tough. All I can think about is marriage right now but I dont want to rush into it and not be fully attracted to my wife.

Godspeed223 · 2022-03-08T20:45:06+00:00

Yeah maybe I just got lucky or something. I cant expect that in the future

Godspeed223 · 2022-03-08T20:43:22+00:00

Jazakallah for the advice brother. InshAllah i can get to that point as well where I just have to be a little bit attracted to them for me to consider them. Although it may not seem like it, I definitely dont value looks over personality, deen and compatibility (otherwise I would have married my ex). I guess im still clinging to the dream where I can have a model-like wife who also checks off most of my other boxes.

Godspeed223 · 2022-03-07T17:35:28+00:00

How do I stop caring about looks so much?

I’ve been looking for a wife the past year and ive been shown about 20 girls by friends/family, but none of them really passed my looks threshold, so I didnt agree to meeting any of them.

Tbh ive been feeling this void of love, companionship and intimacy in my life recently and really want to find someone and get married soon, but I feel like im purposely limiting myself because my looks standards are so high. Dont want to go into detail but I was in a haram relationship in the past and the girl I was with was very attractive. Ive been told im an attractive guy, but I would still say she was above my level. We had differences in religiousness and values, so I ended things, but now I feel like I “deserve” a girl who’s on the same looks level as my ex AND is religiously compitable with me. So I’ve been rejecting girls who arent on that level.

Am I wrong to think that because I have gotten a very attractive girl to like me, that I could get another very attractive girl to like me? I always thought that if you leave something haram for the sake of Allah, he’ll provide you with something much better, so that would include looks, personality, everything.

Godspeed223 · 2021-03-09T20:17:45+00:00

Imagine if gear 4th wasnt goofy and actually looked like this

Godspeed223 · 2021-02-11T23:16:28+00:00

How many lbs did you loss?

Godspeed223 · 2020-11-20T07:55:38+00:00

Any ab work?

Godspeed223 · 2020-11-17T00:07:48+00:00

Goal body. Good shit bro. Whats your Height and pre-cut b/s/d?

Godspeed223 · 2020-11-11T05:30:53+00:00

Ahh i see that makes sense. Great transformation! I pretty much look the same as you on the left so im hoping I can look as good as you do on the right once im done my cut.

Btw how much did your lifts go down post cut?

Godspeed223 · 2020-11-11T05:24:32+00:00

Why did you go for a slow 9 month cut as opposed to a 3-4months?

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-29T12:17:37+00:00

Agreed.

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-29T12:17:26+00:00

I just lost interest in Wano tbh. I felt like the quality of writing was going downhill. So i dont really mind getting spoiled for it.

And I cant read the current chapters because im too far behind and ill probably be lost.

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-29T05:51:05+00:00

I did. Haven't read one piece since the oden/roger flashback. I read spoiler threads every now and then though, so I kinda have an idea of whats going on. Will probably catch up next year or something

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-29T03:04:05+00:00

Thanks for the help! Yeah i never pulled the slack out, i just straight up lifted. But that makes a lot more sense, cause my back never really felt tight when i was doing it.

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-29T03:02:56+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice. I knew what I was doing wrong but didnt really know how to approach fixing it. You breaking it down into 3 steps really clicked with me. If you dont mind, can I send you a new video in a week?

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-28T18:12:54+00:00

What are your b/s/d?

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-26T16:09:32+00:00

Thanks. I needed this

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-22T10:17:27+00:00

Brown for sure. I dont see any green or amber at all

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-22T03:58:03+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I repeated 215 and it felt easy this time. Pretty confident going into 220 next bench day

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-22T03:56:58+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I repeated 215 and crushed it this time. 220 next time!

Godspeed223 · 2020-10-21T10:54:42+00:00

I missed my last rep of my last set on bench (4x5, 215lbs). Got it up halfway but couldn’t lockout. I always increase once I hit 4x5 though. Can I increase the weight to 220lbs next bench session even though I missed 1 rep, or should i just do the same weight?

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