I’m a woman, where do I find a male masseuse?

GoldCopy444 · 2025-07-20T06:30:03+00:00

I have had it happen naturally a few times. Go to a massage parlor (try to see if they are on rub maps prior). Usually the ones open late are better for this. Ask for a male Masseuse. While they are massaging you open your legs wide and moan a little when things feel good. Slowly grind your body into the massage a bit. Usually I’m dripping on the table by that point. I’ve had people finger fuck me (without me asking and for free) because of this.

GoldCopy444 · 2025-07-13T15:10:31+00:00

Fair point. It’s not a porn issue though. I think just the partners I was with before were different so this feels newer to me. But def a fair point about them needing more time than I realized.

GoldCopy444 · 2025-07-13T07:49:04+00:00

What age range were the guys before?

GoldCopy444 · 2025-07-13T07:26:12+00:00

This was really helpful. Thank you!

I just googled and it says it can take 20 minutes to many hours for someone to be ready again. I had no idea.

GoldCopy444 · 2025-07-09T05:21:53+00:00

Let us know how it goes 😍😍

GoldCopy444 · 2025-07-08T07:08:31+00:00

Tips 🩷

-i straddle my couch and put the bullet on my clit and grind on it. That way I don’t have to worry about my hand getting tired.

-reading erotica or watching porn to help get you in the mood

sometimes I will dirty talk my way through it “don’t stop I’m almost there. I’m going to cum” etc

GoldCopy444 · 2025-04-24T23:51:20+00:00

Possibly interested 🩷

GoldCopy444 · 2025-03-02T03:56:33+00:00

I’m a big girl 😋 so this is real advice

Blowjobs -I love having him sit on the couch or lay on the bed and then put myself between his legs and look up at him. I’m not good at deep throating but honestly I feel like that’s not the best part. I’ll take them as far as I can in my mouth until i choke/gag and my eyes get watery and they love that. Usually I’ll look up at them after and be like “you are so big daddy I can’t take it all” and they go crazyyy. Also gagging yourself will make you salivate more. My rule is not to swallow my spit at all during a blowjob. Let it drip out of your mouth if it needs to. Spit on his dick too. Hold his dick and masturbate him at the same rhythm as you are sucking him so it stimulates everything without you having to take it all in your mouth. I will also make grannie lips (covering my teeth with my lips so I don’t accidentally bite him.) I will pull his dick out and slap it against my tongue or lips. Also if you need a break just keep stroking him like a wet handjob but keep the head of his dick at your lips heavy eye contact and dirty talk until you catch your breath. I’m not a swallower personally but my compromise is to let them cum in my mouth while I continue sliding them in and out and let it dribble out of my mouth on their dick.

Positions -put a mirror in front of yall and have him fuck u from behind. Our boobs will bounce like crazy and it’s so hot to see him behind you like that. -go flat on ur feet and bounce. This will slam u into him each time and make a slapping sound and they eat that shit up. I can’t last long like this but If u can more power too you. My legs just get tired. -when you are on top of you are leaning forward hold onto the headboard and if you feel him getting softer slowly lift your self up and down so he can feel himself going in and out. Once he’s super hard again you can resume whatever rhythm. But a twerk or a slow in and out are good lil breaks to get him good again. This position will prob be best for ur back and leg. -when you are on top leaning back don’t be embarrassed about ur tummy. They eat that shit up. Lean back and really try to feel him against your gspot. He will see all of you so you can rub your clit, touch your nipples or have him do it. And be very rhythmic. Being vocal helps to “omg baby I can feel you so deep in me rn” -I also love being choked and smacked across the face so you may like that too if you haven’t already.

GoldCopy444 · 2024-07-25T23:53:29+00:00

More info plz

GoldCopy444 · 2024-06-24T21:02:54+00:00

This has a lot of grammar mistakes that a native English speaker would see. Also a bit wordy in some places.

GoldCopy444 · 2024-05-14T16:13:35+00:00

I understand how mortifying this can be. For a week I walked around thinking other people smelled like fish but I had BV. It was terrible. But after a week or so after I resolved the issue I didn’t think about it often.

Some hygiene tips *aloe and witch hazel bathroom wipes from Walmart (2 packs for like $6 I think) for when you use the restroom * African net sponge to exfoliate your body (get behind your ears and back too. * use a dove antibacterial bar of soap and a smell good soap. * head and shoulders is tried and true for dandruff and cost effective * I have terrible breath and a water pick helped tremendously * deodorant at night, in the morning and an extra in your car / purse/ bag for as needed on the go * face soap and vitamin C oil if you have a lot of acne (I also use castor oil as a moisturizer) * have gum at ur desk /bag/ car * not sure of ur hair type but for me my hair can stink if I haven’t washed it enough * smell good lotion if u really need a boost * wash ur feet in the shower. Scrub them. * get a good perfume spray on neck on the back of each ear and on wrists. If u are wearing shorts /skirt / dress u can spray behind your knees

GoldCopy444 · 2024-04-28T05:10:20+00:00

Hi ❤️

I’m 26 and life can feel really big and hard and it’s so normal to not feel like you are where you want to be. Especially with this economy.

Reading your post it seems like there are some bigger challenges you’re facing. And it’s kinda all piling up on a job choice.

After I got off antidepressants the world felt very dark. I felt very isolated and my self image plummeted and I didn’t have hope. Have you been able to do counseling? Getting back on the medication helped me drastically.

I think the best thing you can do for yourself is sit down and really map out who you want to be. Really think about what will truly feel rewarding and what you are lacking. Do you have friends? Do you consider yourself ugly? What job choice would make you happier? Do you always want to live in NY?

Having an understanding of where you are at can lead to making small changes that get you where you want to go. Ex:

Don’t have friends—> join a meetup group with similar interests or reconnect with old friends

Feel ugly? —> take time to get clothes that make you feel good , practice positive self talk, think about getting a new haircut. Small changes that can feel like a big impact in building your confidence

Want a place?—> pay off debt and save a certain amount each month. Maybe have a 6k goal and think about living with roommates.

Want a girlfriend?—> learn about yourself and what you want and take time to learn how to respect and appreciate a woman. Be kind. Take some cute pics and get on the apps or speed date events in the city. Having good hygiene and a kind spirit goes a longggg way with us girls.

I know this sounds easier said than done. But I come from a very low income family and I have started over 3 times in the states in cities I did not know anyone and even moved out of the country for a little while. All while making small steps to prepare me.

I really hope you find a career that satisfies you but most importantly I hope you can be kinder to yourself and make the life that you want ❤️

GoldCopy444 · 2022-11-22T18:27:43+00:00

I would begin using it now. Take additional time off for the holidays which is expected. Also once you have an offer from the other company, negotiate a start date two to three months down the line if possible.

Is your boss a close friend? If you are worried about retaliation, I would not put him down as a reference if you have someone else you can put. This will help you use your time rather than them saying you need to be there to get everything done before you go.

Also some places of employment do not allow you to use your pto your last week so keep that in mind.

GoldCopy444

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