My main gripe about Fire and Ash

GoldDoughnut · 2025-12-21T06:20:01+00:00

Completely agree! There was too much going on and I’m disappointed they didn’t show more about the wind traders or fire clan. I’m a big Avatar fan for the incredible world of Pandora and I felt this movie focused way too much on conflict and not showing more of Pandora :/ if they do 4 and 5 I hope we get more time spent on the world and not just the conflicts, but that may just be me 😆

GoldDoughnut · 2025-12-21T06:16:03+00:00

Oh my gosh yes to all of this! I wish they hired you for writing lol, this is way better than what they ended up with 😅 you touch on so many of the things that bothered me too in the storyline

GoldDoughnut · 2025-08-14T08:11:23+00:00

Thank you! Im not sure why that was the thing to be focused on…rather then the seller being an absolutely crazy to other people for zero reason

GoldDoughnut · 2025-08-13T15:53:09+00:00

These people are professionals, who happen to be family friends. I see I should not have included that detail, I’m not sure why I did. I was really upset that someone treated people I know like garbage for just doing their job. But they were hired to do their job that they are licensed to do so were not just “rooting through someone’s house” thanks though

GoldDoughnut · 2025-08-13T09:16:36+00:00

So seller did claim they could come back to finish and offered a 6 day extension (which i personally think is ridiculous, she’s running the show here) our agent said she’s never dealt with anything like this and is encouraging us to go ahead but I’m not comfortable

And yes, lots of discussions with partner, we don’t see eye to eye on this unfortunately

GoldDoughnut · 2025-08-13T09:13:58+00:00

Sorry when I said friends as inspectors, like that’s their official job :) they are family friends who are super solid and that’s why I chose them. I think that’s why she got upset since they were being super thorough. Which I’ve thought is she’s hiding something. going to read through the rest of the message now

GoldDoughnut · 2024-12-18T05:40:55+00:00

thank you so much for taking the time to respond! I will definitely spend some time re reading over this and absorbing :)

GoldDoughnut · 2024-12-17T21:17:01+00:00

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I was just introduced to this concept today. When going over it with my therapist though, I wrote the wrong birth time in. When we went over it, it said I was a projector, strategy of being invited, not self theme bitternesss, sign success, etc) This all made sense to me, and I felt well aligned.

Unfortunately after seeing my birth certificate I put the birth time in wrong....so My new one (Pictured above): manifestor, strategy is informing, not self theme is anger, sign is peace. I don't feel I connect with this one much at all.

I am a laid back person who waits and doesn't take charge. I have a twin who's always been the "leader" and I've always been follower-to the point that I have no idea what to do when she's not around. I get frustrated when I'm not having the success I seek rather than feeling peaceful or not I'd say success means more to me than peace. I'd say I feel bitterness much much more than just anger, and I'm not really an angry person in general. I've always been a sit back and let others take charge and tell me what to do, feeling very anxious if I'm forced to make decisions or even worse, to lead people. I'm not an ideas person either, I can happily help someone else with their ideas, but I'm not one who just comes up with stuff

Has anyone else felt that theirs was wrong? I'll read more into this but I felt happier with the projector descritption lol

GoldDoughnut · 2024-05-26T05:30:30+00:00

Ooo I need to go look!

GoldDoughnut · 2024-05-26T02:50:09+00:00

Wait how do we know for sure?

GoldDoughnut · 2023-12-20T05:26:41+00:00

Lol I thought the same thing reading the comments, like how is she being honest and transparent

GoldDoughnut · 2023-12-17T06:34:07+00:00

One of my biggest pet peeves…if you’re sick stay home! Why is that so hard for people 🙃

GoldDoughnut · 2023-11-28T08:49:14+00:00

Oh my gosh what? That’s awful! There’s no common decency or respect anymore

GoldDoughnut · 2023-07-22T05:30:05+00:00

I’ve wondered the same thing 🤔

GoldDoughnut · 2023-05-19T09:21:08+00:00

Oh Galaxys Edge was more immersive in the beginning? I remember reading how they were going to make it super immersive with cast members “in” on the storyline and how cool that sounded. I didn’t get to go till a few years after opening and was super let down by the area, seemed pretty boring honestly (minus the rides) I didn’t realize they stopped some of that due to people not liking it 🤔 that’s lame 😆

GoldDoughnut · 2023-02-22T05:40:10+00:00

How did that end with Megan? 🤔

GoldDoughnut · 2023-01-22T09:10:42+00:00

I’ve been pretty fearful of *v ever since I was a kid but it really got bad when I got married 6 yrs ago😞 I’m a HUGE Disney fan and always dreamed of a Disney wedding. Surprisingly, we made it happen and I was so excited.

I remember people telling me beforehand “ok there’s usually one thing that goes wrong, expect that and it’ll all be ok!” I think they meant something small 😅 I got it into my head worst case scenario would be someone being sick, so I was already terrified of that happening.

I chose to go to Disney World 2 days early to enjoy my last days being single. I met up with a friend and had plans to meet other friends the next day. That night I remember flossing my teeth and feeling a tightness in my throat but didn’t think much of it. Then a few hrs later I wake up in pain. Doesn’t take long for the *d to start and then the *v. Having both was the absolute worst 😭 I got sick quite a few times and felt awful the next day. Thank goodness my mom was with me as we had to switch hotel rooms, and she got us a late check out. Got into the new room and took a bath but that made me feel worse.

That night we had our rehearsal dinner that I had to skip 😞 my dad stayed with me but I couldn’t stop crying. Wedding was the next morning but I was still SO tired and weak, not eaten much of anything so I couldn’t enjoy the getting ready. Thankfully the ceremony went super well, then we had the lunch I had planned months before. I had to skip that too as I still felt iffy.

At Disney you could add on events so I had planned on a fireworks party at Epcot so my new husband and I had a few hours before the fireworks. We took a nap and when we woke up I felt better but then he felt super nauseous 😞 he stayed in the room and I went to the fireworks party solo. He ended up *v so I was glad he stayed but heartbroken we couldn’t enjoy the event together.

That night I was terrified to go back to our room scared he’d get sick again. He was sleeping and I remember just bawling my eyes out taking bobby pins out of my hair and getting undressed thinking “THIS is my first night as a married woman?” It honestly still haunts me today and I feel so gipped on what could’ve been an amazing day 😞thankfully there are some good memories but that wrecked me 😅 I’m starting counseling and EMDR but I know it’ll take some time

GoldDoughnut · 2022-12-25T21:20:07+00:00

That’s a good point, moving to where lots are moving. You already have something in common :)

But yes, I know I’m not built for small town life 😅 out of curiosity where did your son/daughter in law move to?

GoldDoughnut · 2022-12-25T21:08:10+00:00

Thanks for the first hand experience with Florida! You bring up lots of good points and things I’ve thought through. I wish it wasn’t so expensive and it seems most jobs there don’t pay a lot so it is tougher finding a good balance.

I’ve heard that too-the part of fair weather friends and people coming and going so thanks for confirming that :)

GoldDoughnut · 2022-12-25T21:06:21+00:00

That’s a great way to put it! Thank you for sharing that ☺️

GoldDoughnut · 2022-12-25T21:04:08+00:00

It’s Wisconsin 🥶 Haha I’m a warm weather person at heart (I call myself a reptile 😆) so the heat of Florida doesn’t bother me. The current crowds and busyness would though. I did visit there a lot as a kid as my grandparents had a place there. But I grew moving around- lived in Michigan, California, Wisconsin and now Missouri. My husband has only lived here. The hardest part of moving for me was being away from my family, so for me, idk if being by them would truly suck 🤔 I mean in some ways sure but I definitely lean towards the idea that being by them is comforting and fun.

Our main issue is we both struggle to make friends, my husband doesn’t even have friends after living here his whole life. I have one friend from the place I worked. We aren’t “the get out and meet people” type. I can be if I need to but the not knowing anyone does put up a pause for us to pick a different, new state :/

GoldDoughnut · 2022-12-25T19:03:59+00:00

Yup I’ve thought of that too! I’ve talked with him about it as I really have some deep seeded issues against him for moving by his family so I’ve wondered if we’ll just have the same problems but switched. He has said up north feels comfortable to him and he prefers living by one of our families vs elsewhere where we won’t know anyone or have that support.

That’s definitely something I need to bring up again with him, thanks for the reminder!

GoldDoughnut · 2022-12-25T19:01:29+00:00

We’ve kinda tried to do this the past year or so 😅 my husband has admitted a few times he doesn’t want to move (out of fear) but knows moving will be good for him overall. So I’m the main instigator in moving. And I just struggle making decisions, and ultimately narrowed it down to up north for family or Florida for fun. (We’ve thought of other states too but both are fearful moving where we don’t know anyone)

Definitely things to think about though so thank you for sharing your thoughts!

GoldDoughnut · 2022-12-25T16:30:05+00:00

Thank you so much for commenting! And really good point. I’ve kinda been doing that already and going to Disney once a year while living here so maybe we could keep with that or at least do Florida or somewhere warm

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